Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 177
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
Borderlines Use You - They Do Not Love or Attach to You
People untreated with Borderline Personality Disorder
use people. Many may be aware of this and many more
are likely not aware consciously. They are not
emotionally capable of loving you, feceiving you…
use people. Many may be aware of this and many more
are likely not aware consciously. They are not
emotionally capable of loving you, feceiving you…
00:19:38 |
Fri 28 Apr 2023
BPD Breakup and The Mother Wound - 7 Impacting Consequences For Men with Codependency
BPD Breakup and The Mother Wound - 7 Impacting Consequences For Men with Codependency
Most men in a relationship with a girlfriend or wife with Borderline Personality or Narcissistic Personality Disor…
Most men in a relationship with a girlfriend or wife with Borderline Personality or Narcissistic Personality Disor…
00:45:36 |
Sun 16 Apr 2023
Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right Fighting - They Can't Handle The Truth
Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right-Fighting - They Can't Handle The Truth
The victim narrative of so many with Borderline Personality Disorder continues to grow as they evoke a co-opted "social justice …
The victim narrative of so many with Borderline Personality Disorder continues to grow as they evoke a co-opted "social justice …
01:26:57 |
Mon 10 Apr 2023
BPD Breakup Getting Your Ex Back - Dream Come True or Nightmare Revisited
BPD Breakup Getting Your Ex Back - Dream Come True or Nightmare Revisited? BPD Relationship breakup and recycling of relationships getting your BPD Ex back BPD breakup after BPD breakukp - how can th…
00:37:16 |
Sun 26 Mar 2023
BPD Risky Sexual Behavior and Impulsivity
Borderline Risky Sexual behavior and bpd impulsivity is a central and core part of BPD for many but now all. Impulsivity acted out through risky sexual behavior means partners being cheated on, BPD m…
00:34:57 |
Sun 19 Mar 2023
Borderlines Always Know What They Are Doing? Codependent Logical Fallacies and Biases.
Borderlines Always Know What They Are Doing Codependents Logical Fallacies and Biases will help you to be more consciously aware of how much and why you need to focus on yourself and how skewed the i…
00:36:45 |
Mon 06 Mar 2023
Borderline Red Herring Fallacy
The Borderline Red Herring Fallacy is experienced by anyone close to a person with Borderline Personality. Especially BPD partners, on/off recycling relationships, BPD Hoovers or your reverse hoovers…
00:35:51 |
Sat 04 Mar 2023
BPD Relationship Impossibility in Polyamory or Monogamy
BPD relationship impossibility exists in the dynamics of polyamory or monogamy.
People with all the patterns of BPD undiagnosed, or diagnosed both groups
untreated are not emotionally capable of anythi…
People with all the patterns of BPD undiagnosed, or diagnosed both groups
untreated are not emotionally capable of anythi…
00:38:40 |
Sun 26 Feb 2023
BPD Ex Diagnosed or Not Codependent Focus Wanting Your Ex Back
A.J. Mahari responds to a Youtube viewers comments on a Youtube Video and talks about
and explains the reality that people don't need to know if someone
is 100% diagnosable with BPD when you see in the…
and explains the reality that people don't need to know if someone
is 100% diagnosable with BPD when you see in the…
01:00:09 |
Sat 25 Feb 2023
BPD Girlfriend Want Space - Slow Split to Devaluation and Ghosting Now what
BPD Girlfriend Wants Space - Slow Split to Devaluation and Ghosting - Now what?
When a BPD girlfriend or BPD Boyfriend wants space it is a slow split to devaluation
and ghosting - Now what? What does t…
When a BPD girlfriend or BPD Boyfriend wants space it is a slow split to devaluation
and ghosting - Now what? What does t…
00:33:41 |
Fri 10 Feb 2023
Understanding BPD to A Point Facilitates Codependent Recovery & Building a Bridg
There is a plethora of misinformation out there that isn't going to help the vast majoirty of you at all.
Are you continuing to focus on the person with BPD in your life or who was in your life? What …
Are you continuing to focus on the person with BPD in your life or who was in your life? What …
00:33:23 |
Sat 04 Feb 2023
Borderlines Are Not Capable of Loving You
People with Borderline Personality Disorder uhtreated or not successfully
treated cannot, will not, do not and have not loved you. People with BPD
do not know how to love or attach to you because they …
treated cannot, will not, do not and have not loved you. People with BPD
do not know how to love or attach to you because they …
00:24:50 |
Sat 04 Feb 2023
BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Are Never Going To Change A Borderline - End The Breakup Cycles
How to achieve Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup that is actually the end of therelationship and the breakup. How and why endless focus on is the Borderline only a Borderline or a BPD/NPD or a
Bord…
Bord…
00:30:45 |
Thu 02 Feb 2023
Borderlines or Narcissists Do Not Cause Situational Narcissism in Codependents
Borderlines or narcissists do not cause or create situational (or "Temporary")
Narcissism or "acquired narcissism" in people with Codependency. To suggest
that this has any factual truth to it is to m…
Narcissism or "acquired narcissism" in people with Codependency. To suggest
that this has any factual truth to it is to m…
00:27:09 |
Fri 27 Jan 2023
Malignant Borderline as if Psychopathic vs BPD | 8 Traits & 4 C's of Differentiation
Malignant Borderline is a meaningless term. An internet term not a clinical term.
It is now being forwarded online as slippery language for (supposedly) co-morbid
BPD/ASPD women. In this podcast I giv…
It is now being forwarded online as slippery language for (supposedly) co-morbid
BPD/ASPD women. In this podcast I giv…
00:22:40 |
Tue 17 Jan 2023
Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD
A response and my understanding or this "psychopathy" or "secondary psychopathy"
co-mingled with BPD and really not in a meaningful way. I responsd ro another
Youtuber - a therapist - who essentially …
co-mingled with BPD and really not in a meaningful way. I responsd ro another
Youtuber - a therapist - who essentially …
02:04:55 |
Tue 17 Jan 2023
BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go From Limbo To End Of Breakup Cycles
BPD Breakup that doesn't seem to have an end in sight. What is the BPD Final
Discard? Is there such a thing as a BPD final discard? How to go from
this limbo place to ending BPD Breakup ghost and/or d…
Discard? Is there such a thing as a BPD final discard? How to go from
this limbo place to ending BPD Breakup ghost and/or d…
00:47:31 |
Fri 23 Dec 2022
Extrem Focus on BPD Ex Increases Distress Drives More Focus On Ex - Dangerous and Painful
For most people after being ghosted or discarded by a Borderline or Narcissist Ex
rumination is central and very painful. For those also with Limerence this
focus on the Ex can be even more intense. T…
rumination is central and very painful. For those also with Limerence this
focus on the Ex can be even more intense. T…
00:24:16 |
Sun 18 Dec 2022
BPD Hoovers Are About The Borderline Not You
BPD hoovers are about the borderline - not you. People with Borderline Personality
do not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as usual only
thinking about themselves and their wa…
do not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as usual only
thinking about themselves and their wa…
00:22:47 |
Sun 18 Dec 2022
Borderline Emotional and Communication Deficits 7 Signs You Are Relating to a Borderline
7 Signs that you are relating to a person with Borderline Personality who may not be
diagnosed or if diagnosed hasn't disclosed that to you. These 7 signs are more
nuanced to emotional instability and…
diagnosed or if diagnosed hasn't disclosed that to you. These 7 signs are more
nuanced to emotional instability and…
00:18:46 |
Sun 18 Dec 2022
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