Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 177
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
Wanting a BPD Ex Back The Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Want a BPD Ex Back? Fantasy Bond & Unanswered Questions
Want a BPD Ex back? It's the fantasy bond and wanting answers to unanswered questions. Questions that most (especially untreated) with Borderlin…
Want a BPD Ex back? It's the fantasy bond and wanting answers to unanswered questions. Questions that most (especially untreated) with Borderlin…
00:38:26 |
Sun 01 Jun 2025
Unknowingly Loving a Borderline Suddenly Ghosted
Unknowingly Loving a Borderline Suddenly Ghosted
Unknowingly loving a Borderline and suddenly ghosted? Wondering what on earth just happened? Maybe you know now you were loving a Borderline and were s…
Unknowingly loving a Borderline and suddenly ghosted? Wondering what on earth just happened? Maybe you know now you were loving a Borderline and were s…
00:31:01 |
Mon 26 May 2025
BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?
BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?
In a BPD on/off relationship? Are you wondering, can I change, like heal some Codependency, and have more energy and tolerance to make a BPD rel…
In a BPD on/off relationship? Are you wondering, can I change, like heal some Codependency, and have more energy and tolerance to make a BPD rel…
01:04:23 |
Tue 13 May 2025
BPD Disconnectedness and Inability To Relate
Borderline Disconnectedness and Inability To Relate
As a BPD survivor, I recovered almost 40 years ago, I explain the deep and extremely pervasive abyss of Borderline Personality and the profound disc…
As a BPD survivor, I recovered almost 40 years ago, I explain the deep and extremely pervasive abyss of Borderline Personality and the profound disc…
01:19:12 |
Thu 08 May 2025
Want BPD Ex Back and Holding Out Hope?
Want BPD Ex Back Holding Out Hope?
Are you holding out hope that you can get your BPD Ex back? Like so many people, most with Codependence, many Ex's of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, c…
Are you holding out hope that you can get your BPD Ex back? Like so many people, most with Codependence, many Ex's of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, c…
00:45:56 |
Mon 05 May 2025
BPD Emotional Arrested Development & Object Other Relating
BPD Arrested Emotional Development and Object Other Relating
BPD arrested emotional development and Object Other Relating. For more people than not with Borderline Personality (male and female) their …
BPD arrested emotional development and Object Other Relating. For more people than not with Borderline Personality (male and female) their …
00:40:25 |
Thu 01 May 2025
Lost Yourself To A Borderline?
Lost Yourself To A Borderline?
Have you lost yourself to Borderline? A partner, Ex partner, girlfriend or boyfriend, or person close to you with Borderline Personality Disorder? Are you aware of Codep…
Have you lost yourself to Borderline? A partner, Ex partner, girlfriend or boyfriend, or person close to you with Borderline Personality Disorder? Are you aware of Codep…
00:56:04 |
Wed 23 Apr 2025
BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding
BPD Idealization Phase Causes Fantasy Bonding
BPD idealization in the beginning of a significant other relationship
creates a fantasy bond. People with BPD, not having any stable sense
of self, are inte…
BPD idealization in the beginning of a significant other relationship
creates a fantasy bond. People with BPD, not having any stable sense
of self, are inte…
00:27:53 |
Mon 17 Mar 2025
Borderline Betrayal Its Insidious Impact on You
Borderline Betrayal and Its Insidious Impact on You
Borderline betrayal and its negative, painful impact on you.
Anyone close to any person with BPD will experience Borderline
Betrayal and the very real…
Borderline betrayal and its negative, painful impact on you.
Anyone close to any person with BPD will experience Borderline
Betrayal and the very real…
00:44:47 |
Fri 14 Mar 2025
BPD Awareness Can't Save Relationships
BPD Awareness Can't Save Relationships
BPD awareness can't save relationships and doesn't mean changed behaviour (spelling Canadian now :) When a person with BPD has
intellectual awareness and can even…
BPD awareness can't save relationships and doesn't mean changed behaviour (spelling Canadian now :) When a person with BPD has
intellectual awareness and can even…
00:22:02 |
Wed 12 Mar 2025
BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini?
BPD Stable Before Relationship Rupture? Was My Ex Like Sherri Papini?
A commenter asks how could my BPD Ex be fine in a relationship for 4 years and suddenly be so unstable? Is a person with BPD stabl…
A commenter asks how could my BPD Ex be fine in a relationship for 4 years and suddenly be so unstable? Is a person with BPD stabl…
00:31:47 |
Sat 22 Feb 2025
Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy
Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy
Borderlines are not relationship worthy. They lack a self, have no object constancy and have relational and communication deficits. People with BPD feel very un…
Borderlines are not relationship worthy. They lack a self, have no object constancy and have relational and communication deficits. People with BPD feel very un…
00:28:46 |
Sun 09 Feb 2025
BPD Breakup Ghost or Discard Is Not Your Fault
BPD Breakup Ghost or Discard Is Not Your Fault
BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard is not your fault. People with suspected BPD, diagnosed BPD untreated (or not fully treated) can't stop the ghosting or…
BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard is not your fault. People with suspected BPD, diagnosed BPD untreated (or not fully treated) can't stop the ghosting or…
00:22:56 |
Sat 08 Feb 2025
BPD Relationship Rollercoaster Causes Codependent Rumination Need For Closure
BPD Relationship Rollercoaster Causes Codependent Rumination Need For Closure
Blocking Recovery
BPD relationship rollercoaster causes Codependent rumination and need for closure to be so strong that t…
Blocking Recovery
BPD relationship rollercoaster causes Codependent rumination and need for closure to be so strong that t…
00:44:26 |
Sun 26 Jan 2025
Borderline Projection Through an Eternal Victim Lens
Borderline Projection Through an Eternal Victim Lens
Borderline Projection onto friends, partners, Ex's, etc comes from his or her eternal victim lens and persona. The false self exists to protect the…
Borderline Projection onto friends, partners, Ex's, etc comes from his or her eternal victim lens and persona. The false self exists to protect the…
00:40:51 |
Mon 20 Jan 2025
Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependency
Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependency
This is Epidsode 9 From my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast
Can two people both be Cod…
This is Epidsode 9 From my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast
Can two people both be Cod…
00:24:56 |
Sat 18 Jan 2025
Borderlines Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles
Borderline Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles
Borderline’s mixed signals and Codependent fantasy bonds. Borderlines in relationships give endless mixed signals like telling you how much t…
Borderline’s mixed signals and Codependent fantasy bonds. Borderlines in relationships give endless mixed signals like telling you how much t…
00:28:14 |
Thu 26 Dec 2024
Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings Why pw BPD Get More Than Average
Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - Why pw/BPD Get More Than Average
Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - why people with BPD get more tattoos and/or piercings than non-Borderlines.
A commenter (on Yo…
Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - why people with BPD get more tattoos and/or piercings than non-Borderlines.
A commenter (on Yo…
00:32:50 |
Thu 26 Dec 2024
BPD Relationship Ruptures Are All Relationships Just Hard Work?
BPD Relationship Ruptures Are All Relationships Just Hard Work?
BPD relational ruptures and an answer to a Codependent commentor's question are BPD and all relationships just hard work wherein I expla…
BPD relational ruptures and an answer to a Codependent commentor's question are BPD and all relationships just hard work wherein I expla…
00:24:31 |
Sun 15 Dec 2024
10 Ways To Help A Borderline - Fact or Myth
10 Ways To Help A Borderline - Fact or Myth
10 ways to help a Borderline are they fact or myth? I created a list of 10 ways to help a Borderline based on several different professional sources. As to …
10 ways to help a Borderline are they fact or myth? I created a list of 10 ways to help a Borderline based on several different professional sources. As to …
00:31:33 |
Wed 04 Dec 2024
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