Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 177
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
Salacious BPD Women Are Not Dreams They are Relationship Nightmares
Salacious BPD Women Are Not Dreams But Relationship Nightmares
Every person with Borderline Personality, their lives matter and are worth living. But in response to an objectified erroneous and pathol…
Every person with Borderline Personality, their lives matter and are worth living. But in response to an objectified erroneous and pathol…
01:00:41 |
Tue 19 Mar 2024
BPD Breakup Obsession & Codependent Excuses Waiting to Be Rescued by Who?
BPD Breakup Obsession & Codependent Excuses Waiting to Be Rescued By Who?
Please note: At two points in this (passionate) episode I mention being very fed up with many of the
excuses like the commente…
Please note: At two points in this (passionate) episode I mention being very fed up with many of the
excuses like the commente…
00:37:58 |
Sun 10 Mar 2024
Borderlines Can’t Find Love Or Love You From Your Perspective
Borderlines Can’t Find Love Or Love You From Your Perspective - Borderlines Don't Take Your Identity or Self or Mental Image and then find love from that perspective
Borderlines can't find love or fee…
Borderlines can't find love or fee…
00:21:26 |
Sun 10 Mar 2024
Petulant BPD Rage Uses You and The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline
Petulant BPD Rage Uses You and The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline
Petulant Borderlines use you when they rage at you. A borderline rage does make them feel better at your expense. They are ofte…
Petulant Borderlines use you when they rage at you. A borderline rage does make them feel better at your expense. They are ofte…
00:40:18 |
Sun 03 Mar 2024
Borderline Splitting Cycles Mixed With Codependent Denial
Borderline Splitting Cycles Mixed With Codependent Denial
Borderline splitting cycles mixed with Codependent denial fuel the betrayal bonded dynamics of cognitive dissoncance, falsely believing and d…
Borderline splitting cycles mixed with Codependent denial fuel the betrayal bonded dynamics of cognitive dissoncance, falsely believing and d…
00:34:49 |
Mon 12 Feb 2024
Recontacting Your BPD Ex Increases Your Suffering
Recontacting Your BPD Ex (Reverse Hoovering) Increases Your Suffering
Recontacting your BPD Ex is reverse hoovering and it increases Codependents suffering. Many people with Codependency are still in…
Recontacting your BPD Ex is reverse hoovering and it increases Codependents suffering. Many people with Codependency are still in…
00:41:30 |
Sun 11 Feb 2024
Borderlines Don't Value You in Dating or Relationships
Borderlines Don't Value You in Dating or Relationships
Borderlines don't value you in dating or relationships because they are insatiable and have failed at "othering". People with BPD are very (lack …
Borderlines don't value you in dating or relationships because they are insatiable and have failed at "othering". People with BPD are very (lack …
00:29:53 |
Thu 08 Feb 2024
Loving a Borderline Why You Will Never Know Who He or She Is or Was
Loving a Borderline & Why You Will Never Know Who He or She Is or Was
Loving a borderline woman or man it is a high percentage of people in all relationship types who really will never know who that p…
Loving a borderline woman or man it is a high percentage of people in all relationship types who really will never know who that p…
00:30:45 |
Sun 04 Feb 2024
BPD Discard & Dangle Fantasy Facade At The End Like the Beginning
BPD Discard & Dangle Fantasy Facade At The End Like the Beginning
Many with BPD when they discard you with or without actually saying so dangle the fantasy facade at the end like they did in the begin…
Many with BPD when they discard you with or without actually saying so dangle the fantasy facade at the end like they did in the begin…
00:27:14 |
Tue 30 Jan 2024
BPD Breakup & Codependent Woundness Vulerability Becomes a Strengh In Healing
BPD Breakup & Codependent Woundedness Vulnerability is a Strength After Healing
After a BPD Breakup, ghosting and/or discard getting into your own healing and recovery journey focusing on yourself - n…
After a BPD Breakup, ghosting and/or discard getting into your own healing and recovery journey focusing on yourself - n…
00:44:38 |
Tue 30 Jan 2024
Responding To Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is Not NO CONTACT
Responding to Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is NOT No Contact
Are you an Ex of someone suspected of having BPD or someone you know has BPD? Whether you know the relationship is over or…
Are you an Ex of someone suspected of having BPD or someone you know has BPD? Whether you know the relationship is over or…
00:14:35 |
Sat 06 Jan 2024
BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex Self Deceptive Reverse Hoovers
BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex's Self Deceptive Reverse Hoovers
BPD deceptive hoovers are what hoovers are, deceptive. BPD Ex's reverse hoovers are often self-deceptive. BPD hoovers or Ex's reverse ho…
BPD deceptive hoovers are what hoovers are, deceptive. BPD Ex's reverse hoovers are often self-deceptive. BPD hoovers or Ex's reverse ho…
00:15:38 |
Tue 26 Dec 2023
Riding the Chaotic Rollercoaster of a Borderline? Core Secret Understanding You Need To Know
Riding the Chaotic Rollercoaster of a Borderline? Core Secret Understanding You Need To Know
If you are riding the chaotic rollercoaster of a Borderline, there is a secret understanding that you need …
If you are riding the chaotic rollercoaster of a Borderline, there is a secret understanding that you need …
00:36:06 |
Mon 11 Dec 2023
Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or Narcissist
Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or Narcissist
Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or a Narcissist that every Codependent partner, on/off relationship re…
Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or a Narcissist that every Codependent partner, on/off relationship re…
00:48:18 |
Sat 11 Nov 2023
The Borderline Set Up Hoover
The Borderline Set Up Hoover
The Borderline set up hoover is unlike any other type or generic "average" hoover.
The Borderline set up hoover is one that is your BPD Ex plotting to punish you
(especial…
The Borderline set up hoover is unlike any other type or generic "average" hoover.
The Borderline set up hoover is one that is your BPD Ex plotting to punish you
(especial…
00:19:39 |
Sat 04 Nov 2023
LIMERENCE vs LOVE Obsessing on An Unavailable BPD Ex - Stop Relationship Recycling Go No Contact
LIMERENCE vs LOVE Obsessing on An Unavailable BPD Ex - Stop Relationship Recycling Go No Contact
A lot of people who can't stop BPD Relationship Recycling, ruminating about the
BPD when you are their …
A lot of people who can't stop BPD Relationship Recycling, ruminating about the
BPD when you are their …
00:45:21 |
Mon 30 Oct 2023
Why Don't Borderlines Just Get It?
Why Don't Borderlines Just Get It?
Why don't borderlines just get it, how to have their own boundaries and understand their feelings even with iniial therapy can't they just get it? Are you falesly ho…
Why don't borderlines just get it, how to have their own boundaries and understand their feelings even with iniial therapy can't they just get it? Are you falesly ho…
00:27:45 |
Mon 09 Oct 2023
To Survive a BPD Breakup First Stop Relationship Recycling
To Survive a BPD Breakup First Stop Relationship Recycling
So many people are so stuck in the betrayal bonds that play
out Codependent repetition compusions cycles in relationships
with people with Bord…
So many people are so stuck in the betrayal bonds that play
out Codependent repetition compusions cycles in relationships
with people with Bord…
00:33:45 |
Mon 25 Sep 2023
BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting
BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting
A commenter on my Youtube channel asked if BPD silent treatment is the same as BPD ghosting or
similar or are they different. Great question. For some people your …
A commenter on my Youtube channel asked if BPD silent treatment is the same as BPD ghosting or
similar or are they different. Great question. For some people your …
00:13:28 |
Thu 21 Sep 2023
Trauma Bonding With a Borderline - What Codependnets Need To Know
Trauma Bonding With a Borderline - What Codependents Need To Know
Betrayal or trauma bonding with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder is how these relationships between Borderlines and Codepe…
Betrayal or trauma bonding with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder is how these relationships between Borderlines and Codepe…
00:25:53 |
Sun 17 Sep 2023
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