Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 177
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
BPD idealization is the beginning of the intense fast-paced relationship and it is also
unconsciously for both t…
BPD idealization is the beginning of the intense fast-paced relationship and it is also
unconsciously for both t…
00:17:14 |
Fri 15 Sep 2023
Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection
Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection
Borderline and Codependent dance of impossible connection comes together from the wounded childhoods (to varying degrees) of both. People wit…
Borderline and Codependent dance of impossible connection comes together from the wounded childhoods (to varying degrees) of both. People wit…
00:14:58 |
Tue 12 Sep 2023
Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want - Get It (You) Then Don't Want It (You) Anymore & Why This Is
Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want - Get It (You) Then Don't Want It (You) Anymore
& Why this Is
Borderlines want what (who) they want until they get what the want (or you) then they don't want
wha…
& Why this Is
Borderlines want what (who) they want until they get what the want (or you) then they don't want
wha…
00:18:33 |
Sat 09 Sep 2023
BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles "Get-Away Closer" BPD Push/Pull
BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles - "Get-Away Closer" BPD Push/Pull
BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of
the Approach Avoidance Conf…
BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of
the Approach Avoidance Conf…
00:15:35 |
Fri 01 Sep 2023
Can You Reach Out to a BPD Ex To Help Them In Repeated Failed Attempts To Have the Impossible Conversation?
Can You Reach Out to a BPD Ex To Help Them In Repeated Failed Attempts To Have the Impossible Conversation?
In response to a comment left on my Youtube Channel, a video "5 Reasons For BPD Lying That D…
In response to a comment left on my Youtube Channel, a video "5 Reasons For BPD Lying That D…
00:50:03 |
Sun 27 Aug 2023
7 Signs Your Loved One Has Borderline Personality That You Experience
7 Signs Your Loved One Has Borderline Personality That You Experience
7 Signs that your love one, in any relationship type, has Borderline Personality. If you are or you have
experienced any of these …
7 Signs that your love one, in any relationship type, has Borderline Personality. If you are or you have
experienced any of these …
00:15:39 |
Wed 23 Aug 2023
5 Reasons Why Borderlines Lie - Is There Biology To BPD Lying
5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships - Is There Biology To BPD Lying?
5 reasons (Root Causes) that explains why people with BPD lie. People with Borderline Personality - BPD - lie perva…
5 reasons (Root Causes) that explains why people with BPD lie. People with Borderline Personality - BPD - lie perva…
00:19:41 |
Tue 22 Aug 2023
Borderlines are Drowning Emotionally Want Your Ex Back You May Drown In the Relation-SHIP
Borderlines are Drowning Emotionally Go *No Contact* Don't Drown With The Relation - SHIP
Borderlines (untreated) are drowning emotionally go no contact don't drown with the Relationship. Borderline e…
00:21:37 |
Sat 19 Aug 2023
Borderline Inner Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons Why
Borderline Inward Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons Why
The inward focus of people with Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of why you really cannot be connected to them and they don't ever…
The inward focus of people with Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of why you really cannot be connected to them and they don't ever…
00:15:37 |
Tue 08 Aug 2023
What Do Borderlines Need? 9 Red Flags You Can't Help Them & Why You Will Be Punished For Caring
What Do Borderlines Need? 9 Red Flags You Can't Help Them & Why You Will Be Punished For Caring
Peope with Patterns of BPD or diagnosed and not extremely well treated and on their way to BPD
Recovery …
Peope with Patterns of BPD or diagnosed and not extremely well treated and on their way to BPD
Recovery …
00:41:26 |
Mon 07 Aug 2023
BPD On/Off Relationship Recycling Limbo and Still Stuck Wanting Your BPD Ex Back? Why?
BPD On/Off Relationship Recycling limbo and Still Stuck Wanting Your BPD Ex Back? Why?
BPD on/off relationship recycling limbo and still stuck wanting your BPD Ex back is the
situation that a lot of p…
BPD on/off relationship recycling limbo and still stuck wanting your BPD Ex back is the
situation that a lot of p…
00:18:54 |
Sun 06 Aug 2023
Loving a Bordeline is a One Way Relationship
Loving a Borderline is a One Way Relationship
When you are loving or trying to love a person with Borderline Personality, whether a significant other,
mother or father. sibling or friend it's a one wa…
When you are loving or trying to love a person with Borderline Personality, whether a significant other,
mother or father. sibling or friend it's a one wa…
00:19:05 |
Sat 05 Aug 2023
Do Borderlines Lack of Empathy?
Do Borderlines Lack of Empathy?
Borderlines lack of empathy is fueled by identity disturbance - the loss of self and the arrested emotional development as a trauma response to adverse childhood experi…
Borderlines lack of empathy is fueled by identity disturbance - the loss of self and the arrested emotional development as a trauma response to adverse childhood experi…
00:25:36 |
Mon 31 Jul 2023
Borderline Provocation Manipulates You What Codependents Need To Know To Get Into Recovery Action to Break Free
Borderline Provocation Manipulates You What Codependents Need To Know To Get Into Recovery Action to Break Free
Borderline provocation manipulates you to react & re-engage in cycles of circles that wo…
Borderline provocation manipulates you to react & re-engage in cycles of circles that wo…
00:48:23 |
Sat 15 Jul 2023
Borderline Ghost You? Want BPD Ex Back? Is Your BPD Ex Thinking About You?
Borderline Ghost You? Want BPD Ex Back? Is Your BPD Ex Thinking About You?
Most people who each get into a significant other relationship, with someone who ends up having
all the patterns of BPD (undia…
Most people who each get into a significant other relationship, with someone who ends up having
all the patterns of BPD (undia…
00:25:53 |
Sat 01 Jul 2023
BPD Betrayal Can't Be Friends & Why No Contact Needs To Be For Life
BPD Betrayal Means Can't Be Friends & No Contact Needs To Be For Life
BPD Betrayal occurs when they split you to devaluation (often even in the relationship) and then the major split to devaluation (i…
BPD Betrayal occurs when they split you to devaluation (often even in the relationship) and then the major split to devaluation (i…
00:27:40 |
Sun 25 Jun 2023
Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems 16 Patterms Re Enacted In BPD NPD Adult Relationships
This episode of Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups Podcast features Season 2 Episode 8 of my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast.
Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In F…
Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In F…
00:51:38 |
Sun 18 Jun 2023
BPD Splitting Destroys Relationships - 14 Signs of How and Why You Need To Stop Relationship Recycling
BPD Splitting Destroys Relationships - 14 Signs of How & Why You Need To Stop Relationship Recyling.
Splitting in BPD is the major defence mechanism in Borderline Personality Disorder. Its roots are …
Splitting in BPD is the major defence mechanism in Borderline Personality Disorder. Its roots are …
01:14:07 |
Sat 03 Jun 2023
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
BPD relationship recycling between people with BPD and their partner/ex-partner person with Codependency getting the BPD Ex…
BPD relationship recycling between people with BPD and their partner/ex-partner person with Codependency getting the BPD Ex…
00:22:54 |
Wed 10 May 2023
BPD Breakup No Closure Wanting The "Closure Conversation" With You Ex
BPD breakup and no closure leaves so many Ex's wanting "the closure conversation" with a BPD Ex - these "closure conversations" go nowhere and only hurt you more. For the very minority of Ex's of a p…
00:44:00 |
Sun 30 Apr 2023
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