Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 177
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
10 ways that BPD relationship recycling actually strengthens your suffering and the trauma/fantast bond hurting you more and activating your…
10 ways that BPD relationship recycling actually strengthens your suffering and the trauma/fantast bond hurting you more and activating your…
00:33:52 |
Sat 06 Sep 2025
BPD Love is a Reverse Fairytale
BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTale
What starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you’re left wondering what happened. In this episode, I explore why r…
What starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you’re left wondering what happened. In this episode, I explore why r…
00:19:25 |
Sun 24 Aug 2025
Enmeshed in a BPD Relatioship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles
Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles
Are you enmeshed in a BPD relationship? Why can’t you let go—even when it’s hurting you? This Codependency Inside Out, surviving clus…
Are you enmeshed in a BPD relationship? Why can’t you let go—even when it’s hurting you? This Codependency Inside Out, surviving clus…
00:16:45 |
Sun 24 Aug 2025
BPD Frustration Intolerance
BPD Frustration Intolerance
BPD Frustration Intolerance explains one of the most confusing, crazy-making, and painful dynamics loved ones face in relationships with someone who has Borderline Personal…
BPD Frustration Intolerance explains one of the most confusing, crazy-making, and painful dynamics loved ones face in relationships with someone who has Borderline Personal…
00:18:18 |
Mon 18 Aug 2025
7 Reasons Why BPD Relationships Fail
7 Reasons Why BPD Relationships Fail
Why do relationships with someone who has untreated Borderline Personality Disorder so often end in heartbreak? In this episode, I share the 7 key reasons why BPD …
Why do relationships with someone who has untreated Borderline Personality Disorder so often end in heartbreak? In this episode, I share the 7 key reasons why BPD …
00:28:22 |
Thu 14 Aug 2025
BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection You are Unseen
BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection: You are *Unseen*
If you’ve ever loved someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and felt like they never truly saw you — this episode expla…
If you’ve ever loved someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and felt like they never truly saw you — this episode expla…
00:27:56 |
Sun 10 Aug 2025
The BPD Love Paradox
The BPD Love Paradox
Why does someone with Borderline Personality Disorder crave deep love—only to sabotage and destroy it when it arrives? In this episode of Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup Podcas…
Why does someone with Borderline Personality Disorder crave deep love—only to sabotage and destroy it when it arrives? In this episode of Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup Podcas…
00:26:40 |
Wed 06 Aug 2025
The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Feel Stuck
The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Are Stuck
(From My Codependency Inside Out Surviving Cluster B Podcast)
The BPD Fantasy of who you thought they were and then that loss, over and over again, is why Cod…
(From My Codependency Inside Out Surviving Cluster B Podcast)
The BPD Fantasy of who you thought they were and then that loss, over and over again, is why Cod…
00:09:49 |
Tue 05 Aug 2025
BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication
BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication
BPD fragmented self blocks connection and communication. I dive deeply into the core reason a person with (especially untreated) BPD cannot hear…
BPD fragmented self blocks connection and communication. I dive deeply into the core reason a person with (especially untreated) BPD cannot hear…
00:40:59 |
Sat 02 Aug 2025
BPD Triggers Explained
BPD Triggers Explained
BPD Triggers Explained. What do you still need to understand or understand more about people with Borderline Personality and what triggers them and why? Do you still feel like t…
BPD Triggers Explained. What do you still need to understand or understand more about people with Borderline Personality and what triggers them and why? Do you still feel like t…
00:21:10 |
Fri 01 Aug 2025
Is Codependency Really An Addiction?
Is Codependency Really an Addiction?
From my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast
An often asked, and I think, an often misunderstood question where Codependency is concerned. My answ…
From my Codependency Surviving Cluster B Relationships Podcast
An often asked, and I think, an often misunderstood question where Codependency is concerned. My answ…
00:20:40 |
Thu 31 Jul 2025
BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic & BPD Alloplastic Defenses
BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic & BPD Alloplastic Defenses
In BPD people with (especially) untreated BPD have ego syntonic alloplastic defense mechanisms. This leaves so many people who were or are s…
In BPD people with (especially) untreated BPD have ego syntonic alloplastic defense mechanisms. This leaves so many people who were or are s…
00:21:00 |
Mon 21 Jul 2025
Borderline Persecutory Object Invisible Partners and Exes
Borderline Persecutory Object - Invisible Partners and Exes
Borderline persecutory object, a psychoanalytic concept, within Objects Relations Theory, that explains so much about Borderline Personality…
Borderline persecutory object, a psychoanalytic concept, within Objects Relations Theory, that explains so much about Borderline Personality…
00:30:21 |
Sat 19 Jul 2025
BPD Misinformation Hurts Borderlines and Codependents
BPD Misinformation Hurts Borderlines and Codependents
BPD misinformation hurts people with Borderline Personality and it hurts Codependents and loved ones. There is growing "professional misinformatio…
BPD misinformation hurts people with Borderline Personality and it hurts Codependents and loved ones. There is growing "professional misinformatio…
01:00:58 |
Wed 09 Jul 2025
BPD “Remission” Flawed and False Hope
BPD “Remission” Flawed & False Hope
BPD remission is very difficult to define or describe or even rely on apart from a very not helpful base definition of it. BPD remission is not a measurable constan…
00:22:37 |
Mon 07 Jul 2025
Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization
Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization
Excusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a function of Codependent Externalization and need for taking more pers…
Excusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a function of Codependent Externalization and need for taking more pers…
00:22:26 |
Sun 29 Jun 2025
BPD Sudden Shocking Discard Ex is Alone Now What Can You Do?
BPD Sudden Shocking Discard BPD Ex is All Alone Now What Can You Do?
BPD sudden shocking discard is devastating and leaves many an Ex of someone with BPD worried that their Ex wife or Ex husband with …
BPD sudden shocking discard is devastating and leaves many an Ex of someone with BPD worried that their Ex wife or Ex husband with …
00:22:05 |
Sat 21 Jun 2025
Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent
Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent
BPD Ex wanting to make amends to Borderline is codependent. Whether you are struggling with alcoholism in AA and wanting to make amends or substance a…
BPD Ex wanting to make amends to Borderline is codependent. Whether you are struggling with alcoholism in AA and wanting to make amends or substance a…
00:28:02 |
Sat 21 Jun 2025
Does Going No Contact Make Your BPD Ex Think About You?
Does Going No Contact Make Your BPD Ex Think About You?
Does going no contact after a BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard, make your Ex with BPD think about you? No contact is not a strategy to manipula…
Does going no contact after a BPD breakup, ghosting, or discard, make your Ex with BPD think about you? No contact is not a strategy to manipula…
00:45:11 |
Thu 19 Jun 2025
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
BPD Abuse Called Out is Denied Deflected BPD Lying
When people with BPD (usually untreated) are called out their abusive behaviour, words, actions, they deny, deflect, and defend. Is this because they…
When people with BPD (usually untreated) are called out their abusive behaviour, words, actions, they deny, deflect, and defend. Is this because they…
01:14:32 |
Fri 13 Jun 2025
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