Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 177
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
Borderline and Codependent Denial - The BPD "We" & The Codependent "They"
Borderlines and Codependents both have considerable denial. It's not manifested
in each groups lives the exact same way yet it underpins a lot of this most
unhealthy bond. Online Borderlines often us…
in each groups lives the exact same way yet it underpins a lot of this most
unhealthy bond. Online Borderlines often us…
00:23:11 |
Sun 18 Dec 2022
BPD Ghost Discard & Hoovers Are Not About You
The relational impossibility with people with Borderline Personality Disorder is about them - NOT YOU! It's time to respect yourself, get into therapy to heal and recover and go and stay no contact. …
00:28:03 |
Thu 15 Dec 2022
BPD or NPD Relationship Breakups The First Step to Surviving & Recovery
BPD or NPD relationship breakups. The first step to surviving and transitioning to an
active recovery process begins with a rationally known final Breakup even when
cognitive and emotional dissonance …
active recovery process begins with a rationally known final Breakup even when
cognitive and emotional dissonance …
00:45:56 |
Sat 10 Dec 2022
BPD Relationships Are No Win
BPD relationships are no win relationships for those with BPD and for those who
try so hard to love them. They are about control struggle two-way dynamics.
These relationships between people with BPD…
try so hard to love them. They are about control struggle two-way dynamics.
These relationships between people with BPD…
00:39:03 |
Wed 07 Dec 2022
BPD Triggers Not Your Responsibility Do Borderlines Make You Feel How You Feel?
BPD triggers are real but others closest to a person with BPD do not cause their
triggers. You are not responsible for how they feel. And, Borderlines, while
responsible for often hurting others, and…
triggers. You are not responsible for how they feel. And, Borderlines, while
responsible for often hurting others, and…
00:16:54 |
Wed 07 Dec 2022
How To Get Your BPD Ex Back Choices Actions & Consequences
There are 10 major choices that can lead to the action of trying to get your BPD Ex back that have consequences. For most who might succeed at getting a BPD Ex back the Borderline devaluation cycles …
00:34:59 |
Sat 05 Nov 2022
BPD Breakup - Want Your Ex Back? Codependents Need For Radical Acceptance
BPD Breakup - Want Your Ex Back? Codependents Need For Radical Acceptance
In In any BPD Relationship Breakup Ex's or on/off Ex's often with Codependency
need to learn and pratice radical acceptance al…
In In any BPD Relationship Breakup Ex's or on/off Ex's often with Codependency
need to learn and pratice radical acceptance al…
01:16:56 |
Sat 05 Nov 2022
Borderline Revolving Door Situationship - Can It Work?
Borderline Revolving Door Situationship -Can It Work? Borderline Revolving Door
Situationships see the borderline come and go many times in weeks or months.
Why do Codependents keep letting them come…
Situationships see the borderline come and go many times in weeks or months.
Why do Codependents keep letting them come…
00:22:18 |
Sat 05 Nov 2022
BPD Ex Remember The Good Times?
Does Your BPD Ex Remember The Good Times? A.J. Mahari's answer, the explanation and
how staying invested in this answer is self-abandonment and going to increase your pain. What do you need to do to …
how staying invested in this answer is self-abandonment and going to increase your pain. What do you need to do to …
00:28:51 |
Tue 18 Oct 2022
Borderline Inability To Communicate Part 2 Tennis Anyone?
Borderline Inability To Communicate Part 2 Tennis Anyone? A.J. Mahari in Part 2 of the impossibility of communicating in BPD relationships to people with untreated BPD who have no logic and no self f…
00:23:06 |
Mon 12 Sep 2022
Borderline Core Communication Deficits No Ability to Repair Or Give Closure to Any BPD Episode
Borderline Core Communication Deficits No Ability to Repair Or Give Closure to Any BPD Episode. Untreated people with BPD have no emotional maturity to take personal responsibility and be open to rep…
00:21:34 |
Mon 12 Sep 2022
Reverse Hoovers of The Borderline After Being Ghosted
Reverse Hoovers of The Borderline After Being Ghosted only increase your pain after a BPD Relationship Breakup. The path to surviving the BPD Relationship Breakup and learning to cope with your pain …
00:17:52 |
Sun 11 Sep 2022
BPD Splitting More Devaluation Less Idealization In BPD Relationships
BPD Splitting More Devaluation Less Idealization In BPD Relationships - A.J. Mahari goes deep into BPD Splitting revealing that there is no continued cycle of idealization to devaluation but rather d…
01:09:28 |
Sun 11 Sep 2022
Borderline Idealization Phase Its Not Logical or Targeted
A commenter to my Youtube channel left a comment as to his theory or
belief that there is so much more involved in and happening for
people with suspected or untreated Borderline Personality in the in…
belief that there is so much more involved in and happening for
people with suspected or untreated Borderline Personality in the in…
00:32:38 |
Sat 10 Sep 2022
BPD Relationship Cycle - 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat Impossibility
BPD Relationship Cycle 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat - The "Archetypal" stages and phases that continually repeat and re-occur in repetition compulsions unconscious ways for and with people with untre…
00:35:32 |
Sun 04 Sep 2022
Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You?
Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You? A.J. Mahari explains how you are not seen and heard in idealization either. The intense and fast relationship beginning with a person with…
00:29:19 |
Thu 01 Sep 2022
Borderlines and Narcissists - Codependent’s Focus On Cluster B's Is Not The Way of Healing
Borderlines and Narcissists - Codependent’s Focus On Cluster B's Is Not The Way of Healing. A.J. Mahari explains why continuing to focus son a borderline or narcissist Ex and/or parent or friend is n…
00:27:21 |
Wed 31 Aug 2022
BPD Projection and Projective Identification Not Empathy
Misunderstanding and myths about what is and what isn't people with Borderline Personality having empathy. BPD Projection and Projective Identification Not Empathy.
00:17:10 |
Thu 25 Aug 2022
Borderline "Love" Why It Just Ends
Borderline "Love" Why it Just Ends - A.J. Mahari explains why those for loved ones or Ex's of someone with Borderline Personality why their love can just abruptly end with no logical or understood re…
00:21:12 |
Wed 24 Aug 2022
Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't Stay In Treatment
Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't They Stay In Treatment and what this means for you and relationships.
00:29:51 |
Sun 21 Aug 2022
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