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Redemptive Living Radio

Looking for hope and redemption after sexual betrayal? Then this is the podcast for you! We’re Shelley and Jason Martinkus, authors of four books, including Worthy of Her Trust and we’ve been there. We’re nearly two decades into our own recovery work, and have dedicated our lives to helping other men, wives and marriages on the journey toward wholeness. With candor, vulnerability and authenticity we want to walk with you, too! Tune in as we address the highs and lows, the hard questions and the challenges couples face as they pursue redemptive living.

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
36 minutes
Episodes
102
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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#61: Holding Her in High Esteem

#61: Holding Her in High Esteem

This week on RL Radio - Holding Her in High Esteem

How can he hold her in high esteem? Being able to do this is - per Jason, a "quick win" and something guys can start doing today to make a differenc…

00:38:22  |   Fri 23 Jun 2023
#60: A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life

#60: A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life

This week on RL Radio - A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life

What does it look like to "live out recovery” in day to day life? Maybe he is going to groups, getting therapy, not acting out - which…

00:37:55  |   Fri 16 Jun 2023
#59: Holding the Tension Between Two Truths

#59: Holding the Tension Between Two Truths

This week on RL Radio - Holding the Tension Between Two Truths

In this episode we talk about holding the tension between two truths. This can be a challenge for men in recovery because of the compart…

00:37:38  |   Fri 09 Jun 2023
#58: God, Where Are You? - Part 2

#58: God, Where Are You? - Part 2

This week on RL Radio - Thomas’s story - Part Two

In part two, we pick up with where we left off with one more of Thomas’s rock bottoms (in addition to the others mentioned in Part One) that became a…

00:43:35  |   Fri 02 Jun 2023
#57: God, Where Are You? – Part 1

#57: God, Where Are You? – Part 1

This week on RL Radio - Thomas’s story - Part One

Trigger Warning: We want to make sure that you protect yourself (and your children) if you choose to listen to this episode. Thomas shares his story,…

00:44:59  |   Fri 26 May 2023
#56: Empower Series - A

#56: Empower Series - A "Who Knows" of Hope

This week on RL Radio - part three of the Empowerment Miniseries - A “Who Knows” of Hope

Oh my goodness, enjoy the first five minutes of the episode as you get a first-hand glimpse into the communica…

00:41:16  |   Fri 19 May 2023
#55: Empower Series - Reclaiming What Was Lost

#55: Empower Series - Reclaiming What Was Lost

This week on RL Radio - part two of the Empower miniseries - Reclaiming What Was Lost

{Side note: this episode made me laugh several times while I was doing these show notes. Whatever you do, listen …

00:31:18  |   Fri 12 May 2023
#54: Empower Series - Fearing “Attractive” Women

#54: Empower Series - Fearing “Attractive” Women

This week on RL Radio - we start our Empowerment Miniseries - starting with a question we have received multiple times - how can we get over the legitimate fear of seeing and interacting with “attrac…

00:37:59  |   Fri 05 May 2023
#53: Adversarial Language + Avoiding Conversations

#53: Adversarial Language + Avoiding Conversations

This week on RL Radio - we start by talking about adversarial language. Jason gives a lot of examples - “swim toward the sharks”, “stand in front of the firing line”, “she’s on the gurney”, “tossing …

00:47:49  |   Fri 28 Apr 2023
#52: Dropping the Rope

#52: Dropping the Rope

This week on the RL Radio Podcast - we talk about a place a lot of women find themselves in: doing her recovery work AND his recovery work at the same time. While this might “work” for a while, at so…

00:45:14  |   Fri 21 Apr 2023
#51: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 2

#51: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 2

This week on the RL Radio podcast - part two of the two-part series on what it looks like when he takes the blame versus what it looks like for him to take ownership. In this episode, we focus on the…

00:43:46  |   Fri 14 Apr 2023
#50: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 1

#50: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 1

Welcome back to RL Radio! We are starting this fifth season with a two part series on what it looks like when he takes the blame versus what it looks like for him to take ownership. In this first epi…

00:33:59  |   Fri 07 Apr 2023
#49: When Everything Feels Tainted + the Lens We Use

#49: When Everything Feels Tainted + the Lens We Use

In this final episode of season #4 - we talk about the importance of him validating the totality of her experience - not just what she has experienced since D-day but before then as well.  Here is wh…

00:48:12  |   Fri 12 Aug 2022
#48: After a Marriage Ends

#48: After a Marriage Ends

On this episode we have our VERY special and FIRST guest on our podcast, Elizabeth!  She is one of our amazing coaches here at Redemptive Living for Women.  I'm so excited to share our conversation, …
00:58:23  |   Fri 22 Jul 2022
#47: When He Chooses Not to do the Work

#47: When He Chooses Not to do the Work

In this episode we wanted to talk about what to do when he chooses not to do the work.  Warning:  we get off track a lot.  We start with talking about contradictions in the Bible - for instance:  Eph…
00:46:35  |   Fri 15 Jul 2022
New Episode Coming Next Week

New Episode Coming Next Week

Hi all! We're a little behind on recording, so our next new episode will be out next friday.

00:00:55  |   Fri 08 Jul 2022
#46: Wondering is Work

#46: Wondering is Work

In this episode, we talk about how hard it is for her as she is wondering:  is he doing recovery work?  Or not?

Some of the things women wonder about:

  • is he cheating on me today?
  • what if he is just …
00:44:22  |   Fri 01 Jul 2022
#45: Forgiveness - Part Two

#45: Forgiveness - Part Two

We start this episode with a big announcement - the 2nd RLW retreat will be in Scottsdale, AZ October 6th-9th.  I really hope you will consider joining me!  Ticket sales go live on July 2nd but we wi…

00:41:25  |   Fri 24 Jun 2022
#44: Forgiveness - Part One

#44: Forgiveness - Part One

In this episode, we talk about all things forgiveness.  This is one of my favorite topics in the betrayal recovery realm and I realize that we are just barely skimming the surface here.     I start w…
00:43:42  |   Fri 17 Jun 2022
#43: Pressure to Have Sex

#43: Pressure to Have Sex

In this episode, we talk about what to do when he is pressuring her to have sex.  We chose to look at this through the lens of desiring for change, healing, and care for her.  Bottom line - if he is …
00:44:58  |   Fri 10 Jun 2022
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