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Looking for hope and redemption after sexual betrayal? Then this is the podcast for you! We’re Shelley and Jason Martinkus, authors of four books, including Worthy of Her Trust and we’ve been there. We’re nearly two decades into our own recovery work, and have dedicated our lives to helping other men, wives and marriages on the journey toward wholeness. With candor, vulnerability and authenticity we want to walk with you, too! Tune in as we address the highs and lows, the hard questions and the challenges couples face as they pursue redemptive living.

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102
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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#98: The 90/10 Principle

#98: The 90/10 Principle

The 90/10 principle simply means that 90% of the work of relational rebuilding is a husband’s responsibility post betrayal (+ 100% of a husband’s personal work). That 90% means going first, leading t…
00:45:44  |   Fri 09 May 2025
#97: His Processing - Personal Not Private

#97: His Processing - Personal Not Private

As I listen to the first part of this episode, I am so thankful we aren’t where we were five months ago with our little puppy.  I will say - we are still considering getting rid of him because while …
00:41:19  |   Sat 03 May 2025
#96: Lying - Part 2

#96: Lying - Part 2

We are back with part 2 of the lying episode.

We jump in to talking about what helped Jason stop lying:

#1 - Brute force effort to be honest as well as brute force effort to fight the addictive voice…

00:47:23  |   Fri 25 Apr 2025
#95: Lying - Part 1

#95: Lying - Part 1

We are starting to come to the final bend in the road for Season #7, before we take a break. In this episode - we talk about lying - something that comes up a lot with the gals I connect with on Inst…
00:27:40  |   Fri 18 Apr 2025
#94: A Story of Fortitude - Part Two

#94: A Story of Fortitude - Part Two

Hey Guys - We are so grateful for Emma’s willingness to share her story.  This is part 2.

SO much richness in this episode - from Thomas’s brokenness and guttural crying to Emma’s vulnerability to th…

00:51:09  |   Fri 11 Apr 2025
#93: A Story of Fortitude - Part One

#93: A Story of Fortitude - Part One

We are thrilled to have Emma Berry with us on the podcast today!  Emma shares her side of the story with us both this week and next and we are so grateful she was willing to walk us through the ups a…

00:49:18  |   Fri 04 Apr 2025
#92: Doing the Work Out of the Wounds

#92: Doing the Work Out of the Wounds

On this episode, we wanted to unpack what it looks like for men to do recovery out of the wounds (versus living recovery and not making everything about the wounds). Jason starts with explaining a bi…

00:44:18  |   Fri 28 Mar 2025
#91: Sure Signs of Progress

#91: Sure Signs of Progress

On the heels of talking about some of the markers that may point toward him not living with integrity (while in recovery) - we wanted to talk about three things that show sure signs of progress:

The …

00:33:02  |   Fri 21 Mar 2025
#90: Signs He May Be Acting Out

#90: Signs He May Be Acting Out

In this episode, we are talking about signs that he may be acting out.  I have a lot of women that wonder (post discovery) - how will I know if he is acting out?  What if I miss the signs?  This epis…
00:40:07  |   Fri 14 Mar 2025
#89: Staying with Dignity

#89: Staying with Dignity

We go back to a listener question, this one from IG where a woman asked:  how do I stay with dignity when the acting out was so extensive.  I’ll be honest - as I listen to this episode, I think there…
00:33:19  |   Fri 07 Mar 2025
#88: Listener Questions

#88: Listener Questions

Hi y’all, you get the B team for the show notes on this episode! Jason here, trying to take up the slack, so these notes will be from my perspective not Shelley’s this time.

Listener Question #1 : Ho…

00:39:59  |   Fri 28 Feb 2025
#87: Do you want to be with me?

#87: Do you want to be with me?

In light of some of the episodes we have produced this season - the deeper pain points, the why work episodes - there is a looming question I have wanted to address with Jason, on behalf of all women…

00:39:55  |   Fri 21 Feb 2025
#86: “Why” Work Part 3 - What Now?

#86: “Why” Work Part 3 - What Now?

In this episode, we talk about the interplay between the “why” work and the “what now” work.  The why work is heavy in the beginning of the process, and continues to “hum” in the background - but the…

00:32:02  |   Fri 14 Feb 2025
#85: His Needs Vs Her Needs

#85: His Needs Vs Her Needs

In today's episode - I wanted to talk to Jason about his needs and her needs in the recovery process in a more informal way (as in - we didn’t do a ton of prep work before hitting the record button).…

00:37:21  |   Fri 07 Feb 2025
#84: Resentment

#84: Resentment

This week we are talking resentment, iced tea, hand towels and dealing with Shelley’s mic situation.  I promise that is going to go away in future episodes - I didn’t realize that I am touching the m…
00:47:32  |   Fri 31 Jan 2025
#83:

#83: "Why" Work - Part 2

In this episode we are continuing to talk about his “why”.  It will be helpful for you to understand the four different categories that we are talking about as you listen to this episode and download…
00:47:38  |   Fri 24 Jan 2025
#82:

#82: "Why" Work - Part 1

Alright everyone - here we go - we are officially jumping into Season #7 and we aren’t turning back.  We are SO excited to be with you guys - and we are hoping we can be here for a while - we will se…
00:43:12  |   Fri 17 Jan 2025
#81: The Deeper Pain Points

#81: The Deeper Pain Points

Welcome to the official first episode of Season #7! In this episode we wanted to talk to all of you about how to handle the deeper pain points (of hers) that feel like they will never ever go away. H…
00:43:18  |   Fri 27 Dec 2024
Re-release #65: Navigating the Holidays

Re-release #65: Navigating the Holidays

Hey Guys!  We wanted to re-release an episode from the past pertaining to navigating the holidays well.  The holidays can be really challenging - no matter what - and then throw in Family Systems (se…

00:51:17  |   Fri 20 Dec 2024
Welcome to Season #7 of Redemptive Living Radio!

Welcome to Season #7 of Redemptive Living Radio!

We are so excited to get this season going and before we really get going in January - we wanted to release a couple of episodes this month and then come January, we will be back with all sorts of co…

00:09:46  |   Sat 14 Dec 2024
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