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Looking for hope and redemption after sexual betrayal? Then this is the podcast for you! We’re Shelley and Jason Martinkus, authors of four books, including Worthy of Her Trust and we’ve been there. We’re nearly two decades into our own recovery work, and have dedicated our lives to helping other men, wives and marriages on the journey toward wholeness. With candor, vulnerability and authenticity we want to walk with you, too! Tune in as we address the highs and lows, the hard questions and the challenges couples face as they pursue redemptive living.

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Average duration
36 minutes
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102
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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#80: The Shame She Experiences

#80: The Shame She Experiences

So here we are!  The final episode of Season #6.

We start with me needing to loop back to something we discussed in the last episode where Jason said he received feedback from someone saying that som…

00:52:38  |   Fri 19 Apr 2024
#79: Holding Her Hostage

#79: Holding Her Hostage

In this episode - we talk about how he can hold her hostage in the recovery process.  We discuss this concept, of him holding her hostage, two different ways (or avenues or angles or well, you get th…
00:39:18  |   Fri 12 Apr 2024
Regrouping + Resources

Regrouping + Resources

It’s just me today, popping in to let you know we will be back next week with a fresh episode. I am sharing the quickest of life updates with you guys plus a reminder about a couple of resources that…

00:11:26  |   Fri 05 Apr 2024
#78: Going Into Public with Confidence

#78: Going Into Public with Confidence

As we dig into the content of this particular episode - please keep in mind that these situations are SO nuanced.  So please take what we are sharing and consider how it applies to you.  What we shar…
00:52:01  |   Fri 29 Mar 2024
#77: Making Friends with the Work

#77: Making Friends with the Work

As Jason said early on in this episode - recovery work is painful.  It hurts, it’s scary and no wonder we resist it.  Jason talks about how he went from resisting the recovery work to accepting that …

00:34:42  |   Fri 22 Mar 2024
#76: The Duality of Hope

#76: The Duality of Hope

Basically, I try to take over during the first five minutes of the episode as I talk about hope.  Then I pass the mic over to Jason and you will probably actually like what he says much more.  I just…

00:44:05  |   Fri 15 Mar 2024
#75: Where Empathy Develops

#75: Where Empathy Develops

Get out your thinking caps - this episode is heady and I had to rewind many many times to re-listen while I was working on these show notes.  We are talking empathy (and intimacy and conviction) toda…

00:42:02  |   Fri 08 Mar 2024
#74: Intimacy Pays Dividends

#74: Intimacy Pays Dividends

In this episode, we get real honest about a recent series of arguments we had about money, with the intent of sharing with you guys what engaging in conflict can look like in “late recovery”.  Not th…

00:49:42  |   Fri 01 Mar 2024
#73: The Value of Full Disclosure

#73: The Value of Full Disclosure

In this episode, we talk about the value of the full disclosure and some of the reasons that doing a full disclosure (for both him and for her) is incredibly beneficial.  Here are some of those reaso…

00:40:55  |   Fri 23 Feb 2024
#72: Frontloading For Her

#72: Frontloading For Her

In this episode, we piggyback off of the last episode on Frontloading and discuss how women can leverage this technique in order to feel safe having certain conversations with him. This technique is …

00:37:19  |   Fri 16 Feb 2024
#71: Frontloading

#71: Frontloading

In this episode, we talk about Frontloading, a term we first heard from Jennifer Kolari after doing some parenting therapy with her. See the link below for her information.

Frontloading is the conver…

00:34:57  |   Fri 09 Feb 2024
#70: When She Feels Stuck

#70: When She Feels Stuck

In this episode, we talk about her getting stuck and how this can be (not always, but can be) connected to him NOT doing good, consistent work. Jason recaps a couple of things from episode #68 - What…

00:36:50  |   Fri 02 Feb 2024
#69: In the Dilemma

#69: In the Dilemma

So, let’s say he is doing mostly good work. Oftentimes when he is doing this mostly good work, women are faced with a dilemma. Does she accept the good work and lean into it and trust it? OR does she…

00:41:20  |   Fri 26 Jan 2024
#68: What exactly IS good work?

#68: What exactly IS good work?

So what exactly is good work? And what does good work look like AFTER the initial stages? Because it seems like some husbands rock that good work early on - and then… they are done?! Jason and I are …

00:38:37  |   Fri 19 Jan 2024
#67: Why I Chose to Stay

#67: Why I Chose to Stay

In this episode - we are diving in to a question that Shelley receives quite regularly - why did you stay? And were you / are you embarrassed that you chose to stay?

We start with talking about some …

00:48:36  |   Fri 12 Jan 2024
#66: Dealing with Relapses

#66: Dealing with Relapses

It’s show time!  Here we go - Season #6 of Redemptive Living Radio is HERE.

On this first episode of the season, we are talking about relapses.  I realize this can be a super tender topic on all fron…

00:48:42  |   Fri 05 Jan 2024
#65: Navigating the Holidays

#65: Navigating the Holidays

Welcome back to the podcast!!!  We wanted to jump in and do a bonus podcast for you guys ahead of the release of Season #6 which will air in January, 2024.

While it really is a topic near and dear to…

00:49:24  |   Wed 22 Nov 2023
#64: NOT Going Back to the Way it Was

#64: NOT Going Back to the Way it Was

This week on RL Radio - NOT going back to the way it was

This is the final episode of Season #5. We had a hard time putting a pin in this Season - we had so much fun laughing with each other (and hop…

00:45:48  |   Fri 14 Jul 2023
#63: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 2

#63: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 2

This week on RL Radio - Part Two of Moving Toward Divorce with Elizabeth

Picking up where we left off, I start out with a quick recap of what we discussed in part one and then we continue to dig into…

00:31:44  |   Fri 07 Jul 2023
#62: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 1

#62: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 1

This week on RL Radio: Moving Toward Divorce - Part 1

We are delighted to have another conversation with Elizabeth from the RLW team! As you will hear, we recorded this episode in May on her, as she …

00:31:22  |   Fri 30 Jun 2023
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