Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Comedy
Society & Culture
Love
Interviews
Stories
Sexuality
Interview
Relationships
Health & Fitness
Sex
Advice
Dating
Comedy Interviews
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
The Art of Online Stalking (w/ Sona Movsesian)
Conan's assistant, Sona Movsesian (author: The World’s Worst Assistant) is here! Sona shares how she met her husband at Comic-Con, the art of online stalking a date, giving your number to your waiter…
01:03:17 |
Fri 26 Aug 2022
Throupled (w/ Mae Martin)
Comedian Mae Martin (Feel Good) chats with Nicole about being in a throuple relationship, their experience addicted to drugs, and starting a fresh life in new country. Plus, they share their changin…
00:59:58 |
Fri 19 Aug 2022
Dealing with FBoys (w/ Nikki Glaser)
Comedian Nikki Glaser (FBoy Island, Good Clean Filth) chats with Nicole about being in a 9 year on-and-off again relationship, how to deal with an FBoy, why men struggle to express their feelings, an…
01:05:00 |
Fri 12 Aug 2022
Hired a Matchmaker (w/ Amy Aniobi)
Writer/director Amy Aniobi (Silicon Valley, 2 Dope Queens) joins Nicole to discuss her experience dating with the help of a professional matchmaker, what it was like being raised by parents of an arr…
01:05:03 |
Fri 05 Aug 2022
Dating a Mom (w/ Lil Rel Howery)
Comedian Lil Rel Howery (Get Out, Keepin' It Rel with Young Wayne podcast) chats with Nicole about dating a single mom of 4, getting thrown off a horse on a date, matching with Lizzo on Raya, and sh…
00:54:22 |
Fri 29 Jul 2022
Main Character Energy (w/ Willow Pill)
Reigning drag queen Willow Pill (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S14) is here! She chats with Nicole about selling mushrooms as a pandemic side hustle, her thoughts on the iconic catchphrase RuPaul gave…
01:13:20 |
Fri 22 Jul 2022
The Story of a Kissless Virgin (w/ Benton Ray)
Comedian Benton Ray is a kissless virgin. He chats with Nicole about the circumstances of this choice, they learn new terms for different sexual orientations, and what it means to go "basket shopping…
00:50:02 |
Fri 15 Jul 2022
Bringing Down Your Walls (w/ Penn Badgley)
Oh my god, he's here. Penn Badgley (You, Gossip Girl, host of Podcrushed) joins Nicole to discuss why people are infatuated by his serial killing character, why love is not depicted accurately in med…
01:03:03 |
Fri 08 Jul 2022
Caught Cheating... Twice! (w/ Ketra Long)
Comedian Ketra Long joins Nicole to tell the story about how she got caught cheating twice in her relationship. She also shares the time she convinced Ne-Yo to come see her stand-up show, which she p…
01:00:03 |
Fri 01 Jul 2022
A Stalking Ex-Boyfriend, a Gang Member, and a Gun (w/ Aaron Jennings)
Co-star Aaron Jennings (Grand Crew) and Nicole discuss grade school romances, talking finances with your partner, the benefits of dating an older man, and that iconic Oscar #slap. Aaron shares a wil…
01:01:18 |
Fri 24 Jun 2022
Having a Drama-Free Divorce (w/ Grasie Mercedes)
Co-star Grasie Mercedes (Grand Crew, Access Hollywood) reflects on her 14-year relationship and the breakthrough she had in therapy which led to her divorce. They also discuss getting back into the d…
01:02:18 |
Fri 17 Jun 2022
Setting Yourself on Fire (w/ Vanity Jay)
Stripper and exotic entertainer Vanity Jay chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. She shares the complicated nature of dating both customers and strippers from clubs, the time she…
00:46:58 |
Fri 10 Jun 2022
Farting in Bed with your Lover (w/ Sudi Green)
Comedian and writer Sudi Green (SNL, I Love That For You) joins Nicole to discuss their awkward encounters with celebrities, having baby fever, and farting in bed with your lover. Sudi shares a horr…
01:05:08 |
Fri 03 Jun 2022
Quit your Job (w/ Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté)
Drag queen and reigning Miss Congeniality Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté (RuPaul's Drag Race S14) joins Nicole for a live episode, where they discuss her favorite kind of dick, the bad jobs she had befor…
01:08:47 |
Fri 27 May 2022
Keeping Relationships Off Social Media (w/ Raja Gemini)
Drag queen icon Raja Gemini (winner of Drag Race S3) joins Nicole to discuss the stress of competing in the first all-winners season of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars, why she keep her relationship off…
01:01:07 |
Fri 20 May 2022
Coping With Anxiety (w/ Taylor Tomlinson)
Comedian Taylor Tomlinson chats with Nicole about using Instagram to document her panic attacks, coping with anxiety, and the time she was accused for being a catfish. Meanwhile, Nicole slept with a …
00:55:47 |
Fri 13 May 2022
Married, but Living Apart (w/ Judy Gold)
The hilarious Judy Gold joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of dating a therapist, her experience being selected as one of Time Out New York's Most Eligible Singles, the ethics of writing jokes…
01:08:41 |
Fri 06 May 2022
Do Men Not Like Funny Women? (w/ Drew Lynch)
Comedian and friend Drew Lynch (America's Got Talent S10) chats with Nicole about a harrowing bee incident they had together on tour, managing high levels of anxiety, and why female comics have such …
01:15:29 |
Fri 29 Apr 2022
Left for my Best Friend (w/ Tika Sumpter)
Actress Tika Sumpter (Sonic The Hedgehog 1 & 2) recounts the times that boys have left her for her best friend, losing her expensive engagement ring, and meeting her partner on a Tyler Perry set. Ni…
01:02:21 |
Fri 22 Apr 2022
Bisexual Erasure (w/ Stephanie Beatriz)
Actress Stephanie Beatriz (Encanto, Brooklyn Nine-Nine) chats with Nicole about leaving a 9 year relationship, dealing with bisexual erasure, and explains the scam behind the cult-like Twin Flames da…
01:07:35 |
Fri 15 Apr 2022
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