Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Comedy
Society & Culture
Love
Interviews
Stories
Sexuality
Interview
Relationships
Health & Fitness
Sex
Advice
Dating
Comedy Interviews
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
Pandemic Divorce (w/ Punkie Johnson)
Comedian Punkie Johnson (SNL) joins Nicole to discuss how the pandemic lead to her divorce, learning to love her partner's ugly feet, and tiddy pain. Nicole reports on the unhappy couples she witnes…
00:57:34 |
Fri 13 Jan 2023
Stories from Nicole's Road Dog (w/ Christi Chiello)
Comedian and Nicole's opener Christi Chiello joins the podcast to discuss having 5 of her ex-boyfriends come out as gay, why theatre kids are so horny, and crazy stories from touring together. Nicole…
01:03:43 |
Fri 06 Jan 2023
Living Your Hoe Phase (w/ Atsuko Okatsuka)
Comedian Atsuko Okatsuka returns! She chats with Nicole about dating her community college teacher for 7 years, exploring the world of swing parties, and discusses whether hoe phases are overrated.
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00:58:24 |
Fri 30 Dec 2022
Eloping on Christmas (w/ Manila Luzon)
Drag queen legend Manila Luzon (Drag Race S3, All-Stars 1 & 4, Drag Den) joins Nicole to discuss her Christmas Eve eloping in Las Vegas, dating after mourning the loss of her boyfriend Sahara Davenpo…
01:01:42 |
Fri 23 Dec 2022
Let's Talk About The Bag Dress (w/ LaLa Ri)
On Drag Race, Nicole guest judged one of the most iconic outfits in franchise history - LaLa Ri's gift bag dress. Today, Nicole finally sits down with the queen to express her thoughts that never ma…
00:57:39 |
Fri 16 Dec 2022
The First Black Chippendale Dancer (w/ Quentin Plair)
Actor Quentin Plair (Welcome to Chippendales) chats with Nicole about the fetishization faced with being the first Black Chippendales dancer, the empowering nature of stripping, and whether playing …
00:59:04 |
Fri 09 Dec 2022
How to Hack Into Your Partner's Phone (w/ Keke Palmer)
Emmy-award winning actress Keke Palmer (Nope, Lightyear) shares with Nicole how she got her first kiss from MySpace, why she avoids posting relationships on social media, and how she's learning to t…
00:43:59 |
Fri 02 Dec 2022
Building Your Date's File (w/ Larry Owens)
Multi-award winning actor and comedian Larry Owens (A Strange Loop, Abbott Elementary) chats with Nicole about his experience attending a bear festival, being the fixer-upper in a relationship, and t…
01:02:33 |
Fri 25 Nov 2022
Open Relationships (w/ Cole Escola)
Comedian Cole Escola (Difficult People, Tuca & Bertie) helps Nicole craft the perfect answer for dating app small talk, shares the secret to their successful 3 year open relationship, and the terribl…
00:52:41 |
Fri 18 Nov 2022
Nicole's Kicked off Hinge (w/ Julie Klausner)
Comedian Julie Klausner (Billy on the Street, Difficult People) chats with Nicole about the corny messages she gotten from dating apps, why Nicole was kicked off Hinge, and whether or not Nicole woul…
00:59:19 |
Fri 11 Nov 2022
Set Up (w/ Aimee Carrero)
Actress Aimee Carrero (She-Ra, Elena of Avalor) joins Nicole to discuss hookup hygiene standards, marrying the man she was set up with, and running into her ex on his honeymoon. Also, Nicole snatches…
01:09:08 |
Fri 04 Nov 2022
Self-Sabotaging your Relationships (w/ Caleb Hearon)
Comedian Caleb Hearon (Human Resources) joins Nicole to discuss self-sabotaging relationships, dating while still in the closet, and an awful date he went on at a Chipotle. Meanwhile, Nicole plans to…
00:51:45 |
Fri 28 Oct 2022
Playing an Extra in a Porno (w/ Rose Dommu)
Writer Rose Dommu (Out Magazine, Like a Virgin podcast) joins Nicole to chat about the story behind her transition, the dangers of dating a trans chaser, writing fan fiction, and her experience appea…
00:57:27 |
Fri 21 Oct 2022
Rewriting the Tinder Bio (w/ John Stamos)
Actor and heartthrob John Stamos (Full House, You, Big Shot) is here to figure out the core of Nicole's dating issues. Stamos tells the story of how he met his wife while acting together on Law & Ord…
00:52:38 |
Fri 14 Oct 2022
Praise Kink (w/ Jujubee)
Iconic drag queen Jujubee (Drag Race S2, All-Stars 1 and 5) joins Nicole to reminisces over her many seasons of drag competitions, her sobriety, playing a matchmaker, and having a praise kink.
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01:02:52 |
Fri 07 Oct 2022
Sex Contracts (w/ Guy Branum)
Comedian Guy Branum (Billy On The Street, Bros) chats with Nicole about establishing sex contracts before a hookup, being a dom/sub in the bedroom, and the perfect sized bed for sleeping with your pa…
01:03:30 |
Fri 30 Sep 2022
Chased by the KKK (w/ Brandon Kyle Goodman)
Actor and writer Brandon Kyle Goodman (Netflix's Big Mouth, Human Resources) chats with Nicole about the time he was chased by the KKK, the struggles of doing a long distance relationship, and the ad…
01:10:16 |
Fri 23 Sep 2022
Comedy Dominatrix (w/ Nori Reed)
Comedian and writer Nori Reed (Raven's Home) chats with Nicole about getting her breast augmentation, how she soft-launched her transition process, and what it's like being a comedy dominatrix. Plus,…
00:59:49 |
Fri 16 Sep 2022
A Halloween Wedding (w/ Mary Holland)
Friend and comedian Mary Holland (Corked podcast) chats with Nicole about having a spooky Halloween themed wedding under a blue moon, managing her codependency in a relationship, and her time workin…
01:06:42 |
Fri 09 Sep 2022
Relationship Baggage (w/ Justin Cunningham)
Actor and co-star Justin Cunningham (Grand Crew) chats with Nicole about recognizing toxic relationships, finding a partner who has a mutual respect for your baggage, and how his selective erectile d…
00:59:31 |
Fri 02 Sep 2022
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