Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Comedy
Society & Culture
Love
Interviews
Stories
Sexuality
Interview
Relationships
Health & Fitness
Sex
Advice
Dating
Comedy Interviews
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
Live Your Rom-Com Era (w/ Sam Taggart)
Comedian Sam Taggart (host of StraightioLab) is here to spill some juicy insights on gay relationships and why they often swing open. Have you ever thought of Kevin James as a bear icon? Neither did …
00:55:46 |
Fri 02 Jun 2023
Sugar Daddies (w/ Sugar & Spice)
Twin drag queen icons Sugar & Spice (RuPaul's Drag Race S15) join Nicole for a conversation about why you can't skirt around the law of attraction, to spilling the tea on the sugar baby lifestyle and…
01:07:59 |
Fri 26 May 2023
Hot Porn Seaches (w/ Bridget Everett)
The hilarious Bridget Everett (Somebody, Somewhere) joins Nicole to discuss the hot porn searches they've been into, the need for increased privacy on dating apps, Bridget's experience hooking up wit…
01:00:56 |
Fri 19 May 2023
Monogamously Challenged (w/ Holly Robinson Peete)
Actress Holly Robinson Peete (21 Jump Street, Queen's Court) opens up about her experience being in a relationship with someone who is "monogamously challenged", dating around Paris in order to learn…
01:00:47 |
Fri 12 May 2023
Secrets To a Long, Loving Marriage (w/ John Leguizamo)
Actor John Leguizamo (Encanto, Moulin Rouge!, Ice Age) chats with Nicole about his secrets to a long, loving marriage, how he balances work and relationships, and his efforts to boost Latin represent…
00:48:04 |
Fri 05 May 2023
Lesbian Sex (w/ Ashley Gavin)
Comedian Ashley Gavin (host of We're Having Gay Sex) teaches Nicole all about lesbian sex and relationships. They cover scissoring and tribbing, having secret girlfriends in high school, and the deta…
00:59:00 |
Fri 28 Apr 2023
"Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Poly Relationships (w/ Zoe Lister-Jones)
Actress/writer/director Zoe Lister-Jones (Slip) shares her experience opening and closing her "don't ask don't tell" poly relationship, what she's learned after exiting a 17-year marriage, and delves…
01:04:26 |
Fri 21 Apr 2023
Staying Friends with your Ex (w/ James Marsden)
Actor James Marsden (Sonic The Hedgehog, Hairspray, Jury Duty) joins Nicole to talk about his new singledom, remaining friends with all of his exes, his romantic side, and reviews Nicole's latest Tin…
01:14:31 |
Fri 14 Apr 2023
A Love Queen (w/ Sasha Velour)
Drag queen icon Sasha Velour (winner of Drag Race S9) chats with Nicole about coming out to their dad at a TGI Fridays, the challenges of working with their boyfriend, and speaks out on the current b…
00:59:43 |
Fri 07 Apr 2023
Why Won't You Go Get a Transvaginal Ultrasound? (w/ X Mayo)
Comedian and writer X Mayo (The Daily Show, American Auto, Swarm) chats with Nicole about her success making friend connections on Raya, how she positively re-framed her outlook on dating, and her li…
01:06:47 |
Fri 31 Mar 2023
Marrying for Tax Purposes (w/ Jeff Hiller)
Comedian and actor Jeff Hiller (Somebody Somewhere) reunites with Nicole to share how he met his husband on Chemistry.com, his experience acting on a reality TV dating show, and how a fight on Fire I…
00:59:46 |
Fri 24 Mar 2023
Being 'In Like' vs Being 'In Love' (w/ Gabrielle Dennis)
Comedian and actress Gabrielle Dennis (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Luke Cage) chats with Nicole her philosophy as to why falling "in like" with your partner is more important than being in love, opens …
00:56:01 |
Fri 17 Mar 2023
Mormon and Closeted (w/ Bridger Winegar)
Writer Bridger Winegar (host of I Said No Gifts!) joins Nicole to discuss his experience being closeted to himself until the age of 26, being raised Mormon, and the thrill of setting people up on da…
00:53:56 |
Fri 10 Mar 2023
Marrying Your High School Sweetheart (w/ Adam Pally)
Comedian Adam Pally (101 Places to Party Before You Die, Who Invited Charlie?) chats with Nicole about why an easy relationship is a often sign of a good one, marrying his high school sweetheart, and…
00:54:55 |
Fri 03 Mar 2023
Being The Only One Left (w/ Michael Cruz Kayne)
Comedian Michael Cruz Kayne's dating strategy involves being the only guy left available. He joins Nicole to explain the approach and the success that's come with it. They also discuss how race affe…
00:57:17 |
Fri 24 Feb 2023
Dating a Groupie (w/ Steph Tolev)
Comedian Steph Tolev joins Nicole to discuss what it's like to date a groupie, getting matching tattoos with her partners, her experience dating a 60 year old, and shares SOOO many crazy awful dating…
00:55:22 |
Fri 17 Feb 2023
Having Sex On-Camera (w/ Jordan Firstman)
Comedian Jordan Firstman (Big Mouth, Ms. Marvel) joins Nicole to talk about his experience being involved in a threesome where everyone had COVID, having real sex on-camera for a movie, and finding l…
00:58:44 |
Fri 10 Feb 2023
Celibate for 18 Years (w/ Debra DiGiovanni)
Comedian Debra DiGiovanni joins Nicole to discuss her experience being single and celibate for 18 years, importing her current boyfriend, and shares what it was like to date a feeder.
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00:57:30 |
Fri 03 Feb 2023
Nicole's Boyfriend Speaks His Truth (w/ Dan Black)
In January, Nicole shocked the world with an Instagram post announcing her relationship with comedian Dan Black. On this episode, Dan joins Nicole to respond to some of the comments they've received…
01:06:02 |
Fri 27 Jan 2023
The Sex Lives of Artists (w/ Ilia Isorelýs Paulino)
Actress Ilia Isorelýs Paulino (The Sex Lives of College Girls) joins Nicole to chat about her sex life at Yale, being 6′2, growing up brainwashed by her pastor dad, and Curvy Wife Guy's new rap care…
01:07:32 |
Fri 20 Jan 2023
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