Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Interview
Relationships
Dating
Comedy
Society & Culture
Comedy Interviews
Stories
Sex
Sexuality
Love
Interviews
Health & Fitness
Advice
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
Roommate Sex Drama (w/ Asha Ward)
Comedian and writer Asha Ward (SNL) joins Nicole to share her wild roommate sex drama, reflects on being raised by a gay dad, having her first kiss after karate lessons, and discusses the dynamics of…
00:50:53 |
Fri 08 Mar 2024
The Art of Kissing (w/ LU KALA)
Musician LU KALA joins Nicole to discuss why the dating world feels so broken after COVID, the skill behind a good kiss, planning what should happen to your sex toys when you die, the stigma around d…
00:58:48 |
Fri 01 Mar 2024
Proposals (w/ Rory Scovel)
Comedian Rory Scovel joins Nicole for a chat about their Valentine's Day experiences, dealing with horny audience members, his cute proposal story, and the ways parenthood has transformed his relatio…
00:46:48 |
Fri 23 Feb 2024
Dating with Anxiety (w/ Lamar Woods)
Comedian Lamar Woods (New Girl, Grand Crew) joins Nicole to discuss their 2024 vision boards, taking yourself on self care dates, the best ways to manage anxiety while dating, and how to be open abou…
01:04:14 |
Fri 16 Feb 2024
Valentine's Day (w/ Laurie Kilmartin)
Comedian Laurie Kilmartin (Conan) joins Nicole to discuss all things Valentine's Day - the gifts, their dream dates, and Nicole's regrettable Valentine's Day experience. They open up about their most…
00:59:25 |
Fri 09 Feb 2024
Singles Mixers (w/ Rashida "SHEEDZ" Olayiwola)
Comedian Rashida "SHEEDZ" Olayiwola (Jury Duty) joins Nicole to discuss the best places to go for singles mixers, the time she learned her date was homeless, and the struggle of finding men who can l…
00:56:03 |
Fri 02 Feb 2024
Faking Orgasms (w/ Stavros Halkias)
Comedian Stavros Halkias (Fat Rascal, Stavvy's World) joins Nicole to discuss hooking up with audience members, why he believes he would be perfectly cast for 90 Day Fiancé, and faking an orgasm duri…
00:59:38 |
Fri 26 Jan 2024
Heartbreak at Homecoming (w/ Garrick Bernard)
Comedian and writer Garrick Bernard (Rick & Morty, Solar Opposites) joins Nicole to discuss finding love at BuzzFeed, the awkwardness of audience members hitting on him while on stage, and why homeco…
01:01:48 |
Fri 19 Jan 2024
Orgy Invitation (w/ Mark Rennie)
Comedian and friend Mark Rennie (The Onion) joins Nicole to share his experience attending a gay meetup on a Star Trek cruise, and being invited to an orgy. Nicole shares her idea of a dream orgy to …
01:03:34 |
Fri 12 Jan 2024
Married to a Man-Ho (w/ Lisa Ann Walter)
Comedian Lisa Ann Walter (Abbott Elementary) joins Nicole to share her unique marital experiences, from a husband who eventually came out as gay to another who was an absolute man-ho. She shares the …
00:41:46 |
Fri 05 Jan 2024
Baby Daddy Drama (w/ Liz Barlow)
Comedian Liz Barlow discusses breaking up with a boyfriend who doxxed people, her challenging experience dating women, the story of a stalking chucklefucker, interracial threesomes invitations, and u…
01:01:28 |
Fri 29 Dec 2023
His & Hers: Home Decor Compromises (w/ Katrina Davis)
Comedian Katrina Davis joins Nicole to discuss holiday gift giving, the delicate process of home decorating when moving in with a partner, and her experience being cock blocked by racism. Plus, the s…
01:00:42 |
Fri 22 Dec 2023
Being a WOMAN (w/ Sasha Colby)
Drag queen mother Sasha Colby (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S15) sits down with Nicole to discuss the unique challenges of dating as a trans woman. Sasha shares her experiences of dating in the close…
00:53:35 |
Fri 15 Dec 2023
Surprise Date Ideas (w/ Lisa Gilroy)
Comedian Lisa Gilroy doesn't want you to think about her little tiddies, okay? So she shares her adventures in surprise dating, complete with tips on how to execute your own fun surprise date for you…
01:02:07 |
Fri 08 Dec 2023
Cancelled (w/ Kathy Griffin)
Comedy icon Kathy Griffin sits down with Nicole to tackle the burning question: Is she still cancelled? She discusses her relationship with her tour manager, who supported her through a tumultuous fi…
00:56:18 |
Fri 01 Dec 2023
The Celibacy Choice (w/ Kel Mitchell)
Comedian Kel Mitchell (Kenan & Kel, Good Burger) joins Nicole to explore his evolution from teen heartthrob to youth pastor. They delve into the merits of building romance on the foundation of friend…
01:08:22 |
Fri 24 Nov 2023
How to Spot a Hobosexual (w/ Alesha Reneé)
Actress & TV personality Alesha Reneé (Grand Crew, Girl Code) joins Nicole to delve into the world of 'hobosexuals,' revealing her experience dating one and offering tips on how to spot if you are to…
01:03:20 |
Fri 17 Nov 2023
Reading Nicole's Fortune (w/ Witch Sutton Crawford)
Ever wonder what it's like to have your tarot cards read? Witch and intuitionist Sutton Crawford gives Nicole an on-air reading regarding her love life. Sutton shares her journey to recognizing her o…
01:01:47 |
Fri 10 Nov 2023
Saying I Love You (w/ Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins)
Actress Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins (Dear White People, Grand Crew) joins Nicole to chat about her perfect engagement story, getting over the nerves to say "I love you", and learning how to enjo…
00:59:30 |
Fri 03 Nov 2023
Kink Gone Wrong (w/ Jonathan Van Ness)
Hairstylist and icon Jonathan Van Ness (Queer Eye) shares with Nicole an unforgettable and horrifying story about his first foray into the kink of watersports, what it was like to have his wedding ov…
01:02:53 |
Fri 27 Oct 2023
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