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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer - Podcast

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
59 minutes
Episodes
413
Years Active
2017 - 2025
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Best Relationship Ever! (w/ Jimmy O. Yang)

Best Relationship Ever! (w/ Jimmy O. Yang)

Comedian and actor Jimmy O. Yang (Silicon Valley, Love Hard) joins Nicole to tell the story of how he met his girlfriend, discusses at what point does a relationship become serious, and suggests Nico…
00:55:51  |   Fri 26 Nov 2021
Kidnapped and On the Run (w/ Aida Rodriguez)

Kidnapped and On the Run (w/ Aida Rodriguez)

Comedian Aida Rodriguez was kidnapped twice as a child.  She describes her time on the run with a murderer, and how she uses her stand-up comedy to process her traumas. They also discuss dating red f…
00:59:08  |   Fri 19 Nov 2021
Real Life vs Your Persona Life (w/ Raven-Symoné and Miranda Maday)

Real Life vs Your Persona Life (w/ Raven-Symoné and Miranda Maday)

Raven-Symoné (That's So Raven) and wife Miranda Maday join Nicole to share the story of how they met, broke up, and got back together again. They discuss learning to love your real self as well as yo…
01:07:50  |   Fri 12 Nov 2021
From DM to Marriage (w/ Shannon Joy Rodgers)

From DM to Marriage (w/ Shannon Joy Rodgers)

Friend and writer Shannon Joy Rodgers (Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Ellen) joins Nicole to talk about roller-blading, the costs and challenges of planning a COVID-safe wedding right now, and how she found her…
01:03:44  |   Fri 05 Nov 2021
The Art of Taking a Profile Pic (w/ Rob Corddry)

The Art of Taking a Profile Pic (w/ Rob Corddry)

Comedian Rob Corddry (Childrens Hospital, Hot Tub Time Machine) joins Nicole to discuss cannibalism, the art of taking a good profile picture, Rob gives advice on Nicole's dating app bio, and they bo…
01:00:59  |   Fri 29 Oct 2021
Zoom Speed Dating (w/ Gilli Nissim)

Zoom Speed Dating (w/ Gilli Nissim)

Friend and writer Gilli Nissim (The Other Two, A.P Bio) joins Nicole to discuss breaking up in the middle of the pandemic, her experience speed dating over Zoom, and traveling abroad for hookups.  Ni…
01:03:41  |   Fri 22 Oct 2021
Attached (w/ Brittani Nichols)

Attached (w/ Brittani Nichols)

Comedian and writer Brittani Nichols (A Black Lady Sketch Show) chats with Nicole about recognizing different adult attachment styles in relationships, how her relationship sparked by a DM slide aski…
01:02:33  |   Fri 15 Oct 2021
Second Puberty (w/ Carter Ray)

Second Puberty (w/ Carter Ray)

Filmmaker Carter Ray (The Change Up) chats with Nicole about their experience going through a 2nd puberty while on hormones, the challenges they faced coming out while attending a Christian high scho…
00:58:02  |   Fri 08 Oct 2021
Pooping Together (w/ Meghan Trainor and Ryan Trainor)

Pooping Together (w/ Meghan Trainor and Ryan Trainor)

Does the couple that poop together, stay together? Grammy-award winning singer-songwriter Meghan Trainor and brother Ryan Trainor (co-hosts of Workin on It') discuss the special relationship that's b…
00:51:54  |   Fri 01 Oct 2021
Awkward Sex Talk (w/ Crystal Methyd)

Awkward Sex Talk (w/ Crystal Methyd)

Drag queen Crystal Methyd (RuPaul's Drag Race S12) joins Nicole to chat about their most romantic date, getting the 'sex talk' at the age of 22, and debates if you should text your date back immediat…
00:48:00  |   Fri 24 Sep 2021
Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat)

Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat)

Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice on how to play hard to get. Plus, Ms. Pat's not h…
01:02:22  |   Fri 17 Sep 2021
Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason)

Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason)

Full-service sex worker Alexa Eason shares about her life as an escort. She teaches Nicole about BDSM, the relationship risks involved with sex work, Instagram's censoring of fat bodies, and the drea…
00:55:13  |   Thu 09 Sep 2021
Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale)

Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale)

Comedian Justin Martindale joins Nicole to discuss how their 'summer of love' has been disappointingly dry for the both of them. Justin shares the time he got catfished by a cop, how he deals with ch…
00:45:23  |   Fri 03 Sep 2021
Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja)

Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja)

Drag queen and choreographer Laganja Estranja (RuPaul's Drag Race S6) joins Nicole to discuss her truth coming out as trans, finding confidence in self-love, the thrill of sucking dick in the high sc…
01:01:05  |   Fri 27 Aug 2021
Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney)

Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney)

Drag queen of Scots Lawrence Chaney (winner of RPDR UK S2) chats with Nicole about his dating live after winning Drag Race, how he got banned from Tinder for 'catfishing' as himself, and pitches to h…
01:08:40  |   Fri 20 Aug 2021
I got 99 problems... palsy is just one (w/ Maysoon Zayid)

I got 99 problems... palsy is just one (w/ Maysoon Zayid)

Comedian and actress Maysoon Zayid was born with cerebral palsy. She chats with Nicole about some of the cruel comments she receives about her disability, the struggles comedians of color face in Hol…
00:56:57  |   Fri 13 Aug 2021
How to be Intuitive About Your Love Life (w/ Laura Day)

How to be Intuitive About Your Love Life (w/ Laura Day)

'Psychic to the stars' and best selling author Laura Day is here to teach Nicole all about intuition and how to develop it. She discusses how she realized she had intuitive powers, coaches how to be …
01:03:13  |   Fri 06 Aug 2021
Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola)

Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola)

What a treat. Grammy nominated English musician Yola is here! Nicole and Yola chat about the difference in racism when dating in the UK vs the US, how crying on her motorcycle back from her mother's …
01:03:45  |   Fri 30 Jul 2021
Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

Actor Harvey Guillén (What We Do in the Shadows) is single but not quite ready to mingle. He discusses why he guards his profession from his dating life, how he found love on Instagram, and the impor…
01:02:54  |   Fri 23 Jul 2021
Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

Nicole’s close friend Francesca Amber (host of Law of Attraction Changed my Life) talks about the struggles of being a mother of twins, explains the latest fad of 'co-parenting', and describes how to…
01:00:27  |   Fri 16 Jul 2021
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