Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Comedy
Society & Culture
Love
Interviews
Stories
Sexuality
Interview
Relationships
Health & Fitness
Sex
Advice
Dating
Comedy Interviews
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis)
Cat Hollis led the 2020 Portland Stripper Strike. Here, she explain why it happened and her work for equitable workspaces in the adult industry. Cat discusses the costs of being cute, shares the comm…
00:47:55 |
Fri 09 Jul 2021
The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson)
Actor and comedian Sam Richardson (Veep, I Think You Should Leave) chats with Nicole about his success finding love on Raya, wanting kids so he can continue doing kid things, the power of saying 'I l…
00:54:25 |
Fri 02 Jul 2021
Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts)
Comedian and musician Reggie Watts (The Late Late Show with James Corden) chats with Nicole about his unique eating habits, his time spent playing in a 70's cover band, and the weird shift from being…
00:59:41 |
Fri 25 Jun 2021
We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion)
Jason Concepcion (host of Takeline, Binge Mode) joins Nicole to discuss the culture shock he experienced visiting the Philippines during a coup, how the pandemic revealed America's systemic failures,…
01:04:33 |
Fri 18 Jun 2021
Back in the Dating Game (w/ Shea Couleé)
Drag queen Shea Couleé (Winner of RPDR All Stars 5) talks to Nicole about finding love at the club, being a drag mother, wig mishaps, and doing poppers. Plus, Nicole's back in the dating game and it'…
01:06:34 |
Fri 04 Jun 2021
Sleeping with Your Uber Driver (w/ London Hughes)
Comedian London Hughes (Netflix's To Catch a Dick) and Nicole chat about her experience moving to America during a pandemic and race war, sleeping with her Uber driver, doggy style techniques, suckin…
01:08:47 |
Fri 28 May 2021
Proposal Gone Wrong (w/ Paul Scheer)
Comedian and actor Paul Scheer (The League, Black Monday) and Nicole chat about how his proposal to June Diane Raphael went terribly wrong, how June's wedding ring was stolen from her finger, and sha…
01:03:19 |
Fri 21 May 2021
Kinky in Public (w/ Jessica Rothe)
Actress Jessica Rothe (Happy Death Day, La La Land) and Nicole discuss if it's OK to do kinky acts in public, the bizarre ways people are monetizing kinks, and the surprising reality of male escortin…
01:13:18 |
Fri 14 May 2021
Filming Sex Scenes (w/ Casey Wilson)
Comedian Casey Wilson (Happy Endings, SNL) chats with Nicole about shooting her recent sex scene, exchanges crazy nannying stories, and shares how she met her husband on the set of Happy Endings. Plu…
01:00:01 |
Fri 07 May 2021
Being 'Sexually Smart' (w/ JB Smoove)
Comedian, actor, and self-proclaimed 'Love Doctor' JB Smoove (Curb Your Enthusiasm) joins Nicole to provide his wisdom on flirting, roller skating, developing rhythm, and shares his guide on having s…
00:45:48 |
Fri 30 Apr 2021
Bad Dating App Bios (w/ Aparna Nancherla)
Stand-up comedian Aparna Nancherla (BoJack Horseman, Corporate) joins Nicole to discuss how her first and only Tinder date evolved into her longterm relationship. They read some bad dating app bios, …
00:49:52 |
Fri 23 Apr 2021
Will You Be My Girl? (w/ Jillian Bell)
Actress and comedian Jillian Bell (Workaholics,The Pole) joins Nicole to solve the reasoning behind their mutual singleness. They discuss the results of their recent psychic readings, how they confro…
01:14:04 |
Fri 16 Apr 2021
Finding the G-Spot (w/ Marc Rebillet)
Loop Daddy AKA Marc Rebillet Fucks. He and Nicole have a very horny chat about how he's enjoying his singledom, gaining the confidence to dominate submissive women, and why being brutally honest in …
00:54:38 |
Fri 09 Apr 2021
Deputy Gangs in the LA County Sheriff's Department (w/ Cerise Castle)
In this bonus episode, Nicole talks to reporter Cerise Castle about her multi-part series, A TRADITION OF VIOLENCE, uncovering the history of deputy gangs in the LA County Sheriff's Department.
Plea…
00:49:37 |
Tue 06 Apr 2021
Arranged Marriages (w/ Hari Kondabolu)
Stand-up comedian Hari Kondabolu (The Problem with Apu, host of Politically Re-Active) joins Nicole to break down some common misconceptions about arranged marriages, shares how he met his wife on Fa…
01:00:55 |
Fri 02 Apr 2021
Acid Tripping (w/ Bowen Yang)
Actor and comedian Bowen Yang (SNL) is just as fiercely single as Nicole. They talk about the struggles of singledom, the crazy current news cycles, their acid tripping experiences, and Bowen shares …
00:59:08 |
Fri 26 Mar 2021
Polyamorous and Experimenting (w/ Ashley Ray)
Comedian and pop culture expert Ashley Ray (host of TV I Say podcast) used Tinder to run an experiment where she dated every zodiac sign for a month at a time. She explains her findings, her polyamor…
01:04:39 |
Fri 19 Mar 2021
How to Manifest your Dream Man (w/ Alaska Thunderfuck)
Drag queen Alaska Thunderfuck (RuPaul's Drag Race S5, winner of Drag Race All Stars S2) joins Nicole to discuss what it was like to date another drag queen, how to manifest your dream man, their unex…
01:01:46 |
Fri 12 Mar 2021
Unravelling From A Breakup (w/ Rhea Butcher)
Comedian Rhea Butcher (Adam Ruins Everything, Good Trouble) chats with Nicole about how they quit smoking after 16 years, being a lifetime vegetarian, and their old stand-up show, Put Your Hands Toge…
01:01:42 |
Fri 05 Mar 2021
You Need Therapy (w/ Nore Davis)
Comedian Nore Davis talks with Nicole about the movies that have brought them joy, why he's decided to 'date himself', leaving a toxic relationship, and the importance of therapy.
This Black History…
01:02:30 |
Fri 26 Feb 2021
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