Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Comedy
Society & Culture
Love
Interviews
Stories
Sexuality
Interview
Relationships
Health & Fitness
Sex
Advice
Dating
Comedy Interviews
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
Love & Music (w/ Randy Jackson)
Musician/producer/host Randy Jackson (American Idol, Name That Tune) shares his skepticism with app dating, the worst date he’s been on, his favorite love songs, and catfishing.
This Black History M…
00:39:01 |
Fri 19 Feb 2021
Stripping & Sex Work (w/ Teddy B. Ruxpin)
Dancer and sex worker Teddy B. Ruxpin chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. They discuss her start into the profession, finding her niche as an "alt girl", dealing with racism in…
00:52:20 |
Fri 12 Feb 2021
Ask Him About His Credit Score (w/ Tiffany Haddish)
Actress and comedian Tiffany Haddish (Girls Trip, Night School) first clears the air regarding her Clubhouse bullying allegations. Then, she talks about how dating has changed since Girls Trip, how m…
01:10:52 |
Fri 05 Feb 2021
Owning Your Sexuality (w/ Margaret Cho)
Comedian Margaret Cho (The Masked Singer, All-American Girl) and Nicole chat about claiming your right to talk about sexuality, her experience coming out as queer, learning Japanese bondage, and how …
00:54:28 |
Fri 29 Jan 2021
Empowering Relationship Statements (w/ Deon Cole)
Actor and comedian Deon Cole (Black-ish, Barbershop) joins Nicole to share his deep wisdom about love and relationships. They discuss judging people by the moment, recognizing if your partner is in l…
00:46:02 |
Fri 22 Jan 2021
Big Dick Energy (w/ Conan O'Brien)
Conan O'Brien is here to help solve the root problems behind Nicole's singledom. They also discuss his sexually repressed Catholic upbringing, what it's like to have Big Dick Energy, and his plans fo…
01:06:04 |
Fri 15 Jan 2021
Sex Work (w/ AM Davies)
Sex worker AM Davies (Host of Yes, A Strippper Podcast) is here to answer all of Nicole's questions about stripping and sex work. She discusses the difference between decriminalizing vs legalizing se…
00:59:54 |
Fri 08 Jan 2021
Lining Up a Relationship for the End of the World (w/ Niccole Thurman)
Comedian & actress Niccole Thurman (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Shrill) joins Nicole to discuss their 2021 resolutions, how they are cleaning out toxic negativity in their life, and review each other's…
01:03:47 |
Fri 01 Jan 2021
Wedding Ruiners (w/ Solomon Georgio)
Stand-up comedian and #Skategang member Solomon Georgio (Shrill, Adam Ruins Everything) talks to Nicole about his recent butt surgery and how he's been adapting to his new butt. They also chat about …
01:01:35 |
Fri 25 Dec 2020
Issues Affecting the Black Condition (w/ Roy Wood Jr.)
Roy Wood Jr. (The Daily Show) shares his calculations on the safest way of traveling during COVID, discusses dealing with friends who aren't taking the pandemic seriously, getting detained in Canada,…
01:07:20 |
Fri 18 Dec 2020
Caught in the Act (w/ Jiggly Caliente)
Drag queen and actress Jiggly Caliente (RuPaul's Drag Race S4, Broad City) joins Nicole to discuss sex work, walking in on friends or family members having sex, "Dick on-demand boys", and how much se…
00:54:07 |
Fri 11 Dec 2020
Healthcare (w/ Langston Kerman)
Actor and comedian Langston Kerman (Insecure, The Boys) joins Nicole to discuss her recent broken ankle and awkward brush with healthcare. He also shares the perks of dating long distance, how to att…
00:58:05 |
Fri 04 Dec 2020
Serving the Full Fantasy (w/ Creme Fatale)
Drag queen & makeup artist Creme Fatale joins Nicole to discuss dating horror stories, how to leave a bad date fast, why aren't there any lady gloryholes, and makeup.
Check out Creme Fetale's YouTub…
00:49:36 |
Fri 27 Nov 2020
Grown-Up Breakup (w/ Lucy Stoole)
Drag queen Lucy Stoole joins Nicole to discuss the story behind their drag name, their recent breakup, the struggles of dating app messaging, and if it's okay to leave a bad date early.
Support Blac…
00:59:15 |
Fri 20 Nov 2020
Fresh Heartbreak (w/ Priyanka)
Drag queen Priyanka (Winner of Canada's Drag Race, host of YTV's The Zone) joins Nicole to discuss their very recent breakup, getting COVID19 from Brooke Lynn Hytes, evolving from a kids tv host to a…
01:03:15 |
Fri 13 Nov 2020
Trash TV (w/ Patti Harrison)
Comedian Patti Harrison (Shrill, Search Party) joins Nicole to chat about 90 Day Fiancé, issues with casting in today's media, and advocates for the well-being of child actors. Plus, they discuss the…
01:02:14 |
Fri 06 Nov 2020
Volunteering in Your Community (w/ Mitra Jouhari)
Comedian Mitra Jouhari (Big Mouth, Three Busy Debras, host of Urgent Care) joins Nicole to discuss missing malls, the horrors of dating in high school, awkward Zoom auditions, and reminisce about the…
00:55:25 |
Fri 30 Oct 2020
Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman)
Dating coach Damona Hoffman (A&E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dating, setting up your dating app profile, how to stay …
01:07:36 |
Fri 23 Oct 2020
We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins)
Writer and podcaster Nichole Perkins (Thirst Aid Kit) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty groupies, and, can you get COVID from your pussy? P…
00:51:09 |
Fri 16 Oct 2020
Rock Bottom (w/ Sydnee Washington)
Comedian and actress Sydnee Washington (Broad City, Gayme Show) joins Nicole to discuss feel-good foods to eat when you're sad, their lowest points in life, finding love on Instagram, and setting bou…
01:04:44 |
Fri 09 Oct 2020
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