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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
59 minutes
Episodes
413
Years Active
2017 - 2025
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Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

Oh boy, this episode is a juicy one. Comedian/actress Giulia Rozzi (Girl Code) speaks to Nicole about the struggles of being pregnant in quarantine, if she has any worries about raising a bi-racial c…
00:57:18  |   Fri 15 May 2020
Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

Comedian Tawny Newsome (Space Force) chats with Nicole about learning how to do your own hair in quarantine, their crazy fashion phases, and the current state of "Zoom dating" along with the crazy lo…
01:03:57  |   Fri 08 May 2020
Quarantine Breakup (w/ Jamie Loftus)

Quarantine Breakup (w/ Jamie Loftus)

"On what date do you reveal you're a merperson?" Comedian and TV writer Jamie Loftus (Robot Chicken, host of The Bechdel Cast) theorizes what it must be like being broken up but quarantined together…
00:38:04  |   Fri 01 May 2020
Instagram DM Sex (w/ Ira Madison III)

Instagram DM Sex (w/ Ira Madison III)

Ira Madison III (TV writer, host of Keep It) chats about how he's staying sane while quarantine alone, his guest appearance on You, and how he's having sex over Instagram. For more Nicole Byer, chec…
00:52:56  |   Fri 24 Apr 2020
Third Wheel in a Quarantine (w/ Tommy Lenk)

Third Wheel in a Quarantine (w/ Tommy Lenk)

"Marriage should be a lease with an option to renew" Tommy Lenk (Buffy the Vampire Slayer, host of Trashcast) shares his ideas to modernize marriage, points out the archaic rules of straight dating,…
00:55:03  |   Fri 17 Apr 2020
Saying Yes to the Dress (w/ Megan Gailey)

Saying Yes to the Dress (w/ Megan Gailey)

Comedian Megan Gailey (Conan, Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon) chats with Nicole about life as a newlywed in quarantine, the horrors of wedding dress shopping, and the freaks using dating apps rig…
00:51:24  |   Fri 10 Apr 2020
Loving Your Boobs (w/ Amy Miller)

Loving Your Boobs (w/ Amy Miller)

Stand-up comedian & Nicole's opener Amy Miller (host of Who's Your God) teaches us how to spot a chucklefucker, shares her experience going through Steve Harvey's 90 day sex rule, and how to feel pow…
00:49:31  |   Fri 03 Apr 2020
Dating During Coronavirus (w/ Jacquis Neal)

Dating During Coronavirus (w/ Jacquis Neal)

"We're all just on Zoom trying to date people?" Jacquis Neal (host of Culture Kings) joins us remotely while in quarantine to discuss what it's like being cooped up with your S/O in isolation, how p…
00:52:17  |   Fri 27 Mar 2020
Love (w/ Paul Rust)

Love (w/ Paul Rust)

Paul Rust (Love, Comedy Bang! Bang!, Arrested Development) has been married for 5 years. He discusses what it's like to date and work with his partner, the differences between his show 'Love' and his…
01:02:28  |   Fri 20 Mar 2020
Recognizing your Self-Worth (w/ Nicolette Mason)

Recognizing your Self-Worth (w/ Nicolette Mason)

"Everyone that I thought was 'the one', was a piece of trash." Nicolette Mason (plus-size fashion blogger) joins Nicole to discuss the latest dating buzzwords of 2020, reflecting on your self-worth,…
00:57:49  |   Fri 13 Mar 2020
Open Relationships (w/ Kelly Hudson)

Open Relationships (w/ Kelly Hudson)

"My life's work was dating people." Kelly Hudson (Search Party, Sunnyside, CollegeHumor) left her open-relationship to be with the man she's married to today. She shares her tricky experience dating…
01:01:01  |   Fri 06 Mar 2020
BONUS: The Struggles of your Twenties (w/ Rae Sanni)

BONUS: The Struggles of your Twenties (w/ Rae Sanni)

Writer/stand-up Rae Sanni (The Good Place, A Black Lady Sketch Show) joins Nicole to discuss all the struggles of their twenties, and how it has defined them. From the string of bad sex, hustling for…
01:04:16  |   Tue 03 Mar 2020
Seeking Single Men at Target (w/ Janelle James)

Seeking Single Men at Target (w/ Janelle James)

Janelle James (stand-up, writer for Black Mondays) joins Nicole to discuss the difference between East coast and West coast men, when to let a guy see you without makeup, and the best time to find si…
00:49:51  |   Fri 28 Feb 2020
Unpacking Nicole's Fear of Relationships (w/ Jess Rona)

Unpacking Nicole's Fear of Relationships (w/ Jess Rona)

"Once both people like each other, the games are over." Close friend and dog groomer Jess Rona (Author of Groomed) has a heart-to-heart with Nicole to unpack her fears of being in a relationship. Th…
00:59:18  |   Fri 21 Feb 2020
Finding Love at DragCon (w/ Taylor Orear)

Finding Love at DragCon (w/ Taylor Orear)

Friend and fashion stylist Taylor Orear joins Nicole to shares the most adorable story behind meeting his boyfriend at RuPaul's Drag Con. They also discuss the importance of leaving baggage behind wh…
00:55:45  |   Fri 14 Feb 2020
Drugs & Dogs (w/ Eric Edelstein)

Drugs & Dogs (w/ Eric Edelstein)

'She saved me in her phone as 'Eric Weirdo". Eric Edelstein (Jurassic World, American Dad) shares the story behind meeting Jess, his lovely dog grooming wife. Him and Nicole also discusses how to sm…
01:17:11  |   Fri 07 Feb 2020
Setting 2020 Resolutions (w/ Kevin T. Porter)

Setting 2020 Resolutions (w/ Kevin T. Porter)

Podcast pro Kevin Porter (Host of Inside Voices, Good Christian Fun, and Gilmore Guys podcast) helps Nicole set some 2020 dating goals - starting with deleting her Raya app. They also identify her ne…
00:56:26  |   Fri 31 Jan 2020
Hiring a Professional Matchmaker (w/ Grace Edwards)

Hiring a Professional Matchmaker (w/ Grace Edwards)

Nicole's old roommate Grace Edwards (writer - Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, Loosely Exactly Nicole) answers Nicole's questions about professional matchmaking and shares the challenges of dating 3 men at…
00:56:11  |   Fri 24 Jan 2020
Prison Dating (w/ Ann Pyne)

Prison Dating (w/ Ann Pyne)

"He had committed arson when he tried to kill himself in his mother's basement" Ann Pyne (Drag queen booker) is the queen for drag queens. She discusses being a daily drinker since she was 13 years …
01:01:23  |   Fri 17 Jan 2020
Dead Mom Club (w/ Kate Spencer)

Dead Mom Club (w/ Kate Spencer)

Kate Spencer (Forever 35 podcast, author of Dead Mom's Club) discusses Nicole Byer's mention in The Masked Singer, explains to Nicole what a "VSCO Girl" is, and discusses life after losing a parent. …
01:01:13  |   Fri 10 Jan 2020
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