Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
Comedy
Society & Culture
Love
Interviews
Stories
Sexuality
Interview
Relationships
Health & Fitness
Sex
Advice
Dating
Comedy Interviews
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 413
- Years Active
- 2017 - 2025
Dating Dogs and Werewolfs (w/ Justin Simien)
"When he came, did he go AWOOO?"
Justin Simien (Creator of Dear White People) joins Nicole to talk about the kinkiest thing he's ever done, teach her about gay "puppy-pack" arrangements, and Nicole …
01:08:23 |
Fri 16 Aug 2019
The Joy of Being Alone (w/ Ashley Nicole Black)
"I would love for Guy Fieri to narrate my sex"
Ashley Nicole Black (Full Frontal with Samantha Bee, A Black Lady Sketch Show) joins Nicole to share her love of being alone, whether they like to play…
01:00:53 |
Fri 09 Aug 2019
Power-Bottom (w/ Monique Heart)
"I thought I had contracted an STD where I was rotting from the inside"
Drag queen Monique Heart (RuPaul's Drag Race Season 10, All Stars Season 4) has never been in a real relationship. He shares h…
01:08:09 |
Fri 02 Aug 2019
Making a Polyamorous Relationship Work (w/ DeRay Davis)
DeRay Davis (Snowfall, 21 Jump Street) has lived a polyamorous relationship with 2 women for most of his life. He explains how he introduces it to his partners, how to show respect to the parents, an…
00:50:33 |
Fri 26 Jul 2019
A Boyfriend for Every Stage of your Life (w/ Jessica McKenna)
Jessica McKenna (Off Book podcast) has had a boyfriend in every stage of her life. She details the drama behind her middle school romance, to meeting boys in high school mock trial, and charming her …
01:04:55 |
Fri 19 Jul 2019
Microdosing (w/ Johnny Pemberton)
"I thought I was going to die. I was actually laughing at the idea of living."
Johnny Pemberton (22 Jump Street, Superstore) discusses taking LSD at Disneyland, and accidentally overdosing while try…
00:54:01 |
Fri 12 Jul 2019
Nicole's Choice of Porn (w/ Ronnie Adrian)
"I'm crazier than you. I'll fuck you up with these dildos"
Ronnie Adrian (Comedy Bang Bang, White Women) joins Nicole to discuss their mutual struggle with flirting, and the best way to end a bad da…
00:59:18 |
Fri 05 Jul 2019
The Opposite of a Meet-Cute (w/ Alice Wetterlund)
Alice Wetterlund (Girl Code, Treks and the City podcast) joins Nicole to discuss their Girl Code tour horror stories, talk about men who claim to have dated celebrities (we're talking about YOU, Moby…
01:00:03 |
Fri 28 Jun 2019
Top or Bottom? (LIVE w/ Jon Gabrus, Nick Wiger, and Mike Mitchell)
Freshly drunk from a power-hour, Gabrus (High & Mighty), Nick Wiger and Mike Mitchell (Doughboys) join Nicole to discuss how they would want to die, their favorite sex positions, and if they like ass…
01:25:01 |
Fri 21 Jun 2019
How to Share Secrets on Drag Race (w/ Shangela)
D.J. 'Shangela' Pierce (RuPaul's Drag Race, A Star is Born) discusses his struggles with dating, getting picked up by fans, and describes his perfect partner. Plus, Shangela shares how drag queen sha…
00:59:32 |
Fri 14 Jun 2019
Sleeping with DJs (w/ Greta Titelman)
"What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas... But not this."
Greta Titelman (The Worst podcast) breaks the double-standard behind having sex on a first date, talks about their first masturbation stories…
00:59:33 |
Fri 07 Jun 2019
BONUS: The One That Got Away (w/ Blair Socci)
Blair Socci (stand-up, The Blair & Greta Show) discusses what it's like to date an "influencer", how to have an amicable break up with your ex, and the pro/cons of dating comedians. Plus, Nicole read…
01:01:42 |
Tue 04 Jun 2019
Having Sex in Drag (LIVE from DragCon 2019 w/ Vicky Vox)
Drag queen Vicky Vox (DWV, Magic Mike XXL) joins Nicole to discuss having sex in drag, using AOL messenger to lose your virginity, and where to find the biggest dicks. Nicole had sex with a Canadian …
00:58:05 |
Fri 31 May 2019
Dating in the 3rd Grade (w/ Beth Stelling)
Beth Stelling (Crashing, I Love You, America) discusses the crazy things they learned in school, what it was like to have a 3rd grade boyfriend, how she met her current boyfriend doing stand-up.
A f…
00:59:30 |
Fri 24 May 2019
How to Date Long Distance (w/ Demi Adejuyigbe)
Demi Adejuyigbe (The Late Late Show with James Corden, Punch Up The Jam podcast) joins Nicole to discuss how he found love on Twitter, how to successfully date long distance, and at what point you sh…
00:53:02 |
Fri 17 May 2019
How to get Banned from Tinder (w/ Eleanor Bray)
Eleanor Bray (Nicole's old assistant!) comes on to discuss what it was like working as Nicole's assistant, how she got banned on Tinder, and the musicals they've performed in. They also share their l…
01:03:20 |
Fri 10 May 2019
Heckled Online and Offline (w/ Miel Bredouw)
"I hope my dad ate ass."
Miel Bredouw (Punch Up The Jam podcast) joins Nicole to discuss online harassment, what it was like to 'date' on Vine and what kind of sex their parents would've been into.
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01:08:40 |
Fri 03 May 2019
Building a Sex Roster (w/ Laura and Rachel)
"You get a social security number when you're born, you should also get a therapist that you have to see when you turn 13."
Laura and Rachel (Girls on Porn podcast) teach Nicole how to create a sex …
01:00:00 |
Fri 26 Apr 2019
High School Dating (w/ Cameron Esposito)
Cameron Esposito (Put Your Hands Together, Queery podcast) discusses what it's like to host a show with her ex-wife, her past experience working as a circus ring leader, and how it feels to get dumpe…
00:56:24 |
Fri 19 Apr 2019
Getting an STI from Grindr (w/ Matt Rogers)
"If it got leaked - everyone would know that I'm really good at sucking dick."
Matt Rogers (What the Tuck? podcast, Las Culturistas podcast) discuss their experiences with Scientology, what it's lik…
00:58:31 |
Fri 12 Apr 2019
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