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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer - Podcast

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
59 minutes
Episodes
413
Years Active
2017 - 2025
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Death & Taxes (w/ Punam Patel)

Death & Taxes (w/ Punam Patel)

"Would I rather live a shorter life where I'm happier, than a long one where I have to work so hard to be healthy? More often than not I choose shorter." Things get serious in this episode. Punam Pa…
01:05:01  |   Fri 05 Apr 2019
BONUS: Bad Birthday Hookup (LIVE w/ Dulcé Sloan)

BONUS: Bad Birthday Hookup (LIVE w/ Dulcé Sloan)

"If he had chest hair, I would've had rug burn. That's all I'm saying." Dulcé Sloan (The Daily Show with Trevor Noah) discuss their mutual hate for Coffee Meets Bagel, share some of their worst hook…
01:28:42  |   Tue 02 Apr 2019
Learning How to Love Yourself (w/ Charla Lauriston)

Learning How to Love Yourself (w/ Charla Lauriston)

"Every black person I know is in therapy. And if they're not, I encourage them to be." Charla Lauriston (Ghosted, People of Earth) dissects white privilege, how hard it is to be a black woman in the…
01:10:35  |   Fri 29 Mar 2019
Blowjob Tips (w/ Jake and Amir)

Blowjob Tips (w/ Jake and Amir)

Jake Hurwitz and Amir Blumenfeld (Jake and Amir) discuss their favorite porn, whether they like to 69, if they would enjoy sucking their own dick, the best lubes to masturbate with, and give some blo…
00:58:58  |   Fri 22 Mar 2019
Date Exit Strategy (w/ Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart)

Date Exit Strategy (w/ Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart)

"Guys go on Raya just to see how famous of a person they can match with." Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart (This Might Get Weird podcast) discuss their go-to lies to get out of bad dates, share their aw…
00:53:25  |   Fri 15 Mar 2019
Putting Faith in your Love Life (w/ Liza Treyger)

Putting Faith in your Love Life (w/ Liza Treyger)

"Go out into the world with confidence, not desperation." Can crystals and candles help with your love life? Liza Treyger (stand-up, Horace and Pete) joins Nicole to discuss their benefits or lack t…
00:52:35  |   Fri 08 Mar 2019
How to Kiss (w/ Matt Ingebretson)

How to Kiss (w/ Matt Ingebretson)

"A fun thing that I like to do is when kissing someone, is to open my eyes to see what their face looks like." Matt Ingebretson (Corporate) talks all about kissing - the stress of going in for the f…
00:54:37  |   Fri 01 Mar 2019
Why You Need Couple's Therapy (w/ Naomi Ekperigin)

Why You Need Couple's Therapy (w/ Naomi Ekperigin)

"There's nothing I love more than a slutty wedding vibe" Naomi Ekperigin (Broad City) shares her experience dating on Craigslist, why every couple should go to couple's therapy. Nicole describes why…
01:06:25  |   Fri 22 Feb 2019
Same Guy Club (w/ Skyler Hurt)

Same Guy Club (w/ Skyler Hurt)

Nicole met Skyler through Tinder, and they turned out to have dates the same man. Things got weird in their relationship real fast when Nicole began dating her ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend - without …
01:04:07  |   Fri 15 Feb 2019
Period Horror Stories (w/ Toni Charline)

Period Horror Stories (w/ Toni Charline)

Periods suck. Toni Charline (UCB) joins Nicole to share all their embarrassing period-related stories. From their first tampon applications, to getting a period mid-Doughboys recording, and the times…
01:12:52  |   Fri 08 Feb 2019
Dealing with Creeps (w/ Trixie Mattel)

Dealing with Creeps (w/ Trixie Mattel)

Trixie Mattel (Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race: All Stars Season 3) discusses getting touched by strangers in public, being in an "It's Complicated" relationship on Facebook, shares getting catfish'd by…
01:06:41  |   Fri 01 Feb 2019
All Things Panties (w/ Eliot Glazer)

All Things Panties (w/ Eliot Glazer)

Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) discusses spending money on nice underwear for your partner, the grimiest requests he's received on dates, and how people need to set boundaries in and out of a re…
01:05:06  |   Fri 25 Jan 2019
Role-Playing (w/ Rachel Bloom)

Role-Playing (w/ Rachel Bloom)

"Good role-playing is just bad improv" Rachel Bloom (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) has an open discussion about finding therapy and using medication to treat mental health. She also discusses why improvisers…
00:53:25  |   Fri 18 Jan 2019
Seeking Professional Advice (w/ Dr. Chris Donaghue)

Seeking Professional Advice (w/ Dr. Chris Donaghue)

Dr. Chris Donaghue (Host of Loveline, sex and relationship therapist) provides Nicole with an honest assessment why she may be single. He provides her relationship advice and a Tinder bio makeover. H…
00:44:18  |   Fri 11 Jan 2019
Finding your S/O's Pet Name (w/ Elizabeth Ho)

Finding your S/O's Pet Name (w/ Elizabeth Ho)

Did you know that couples with pet names statistically have longer lasting relationships? In today's episode, Nicole and Elizabeth Ho (Disjointed) consider what pet name they would want to have. Eliz…
00:47:06  |   Fri 04 Jan 2019
Scheduling Your Booty Calls (w/ Raiza Licea)

Scheduling Your Booty Calls (w/ Raiza Licea)

"If you're busy, you need to book a dick appointment" Raiza Licea (UCB) agrees that life is busy and sometimes you just gotta book time for a dicking. Nicole goes on a wild date with her Lyft driver…
00:50:19  |   Fri 28 Dec 2018
Dating Gay Twins (w/ Joel Kim Booster)

Dating Gay Twins (w/ Joel Kim Booster)

"I was apart of an orgy on a ship, where I looked over at my friend who was wearing this guy like a fucking bracelet" Joel Kim Booster joins Nicole to discuss their favorite porn narratives, cock an…
00:53:26  |   Fri 21 Dec 2018
Getting Past Dick Size (w/ Lisa Hanawalt)

Getting Past Dick Size (w/ Lisa Hanawalt)

"He just started sweating so much, that it was like water pouring onto me. And he said it was cause he was sad about his ex-girlfriend." Lisa Hanawalt (Bojack Horseman, Baby Genuises Podcast) discus…
00:53:40  |   Fri 14 Dec 2018
Love, Lust, and Infatuation (w/ Baron Vaughn)

Love, Lust, and Infatuation (w/ Baron Vaughn)

"Everyone is doing monogamy. And if you try to cram all those people into one door, someone is gonna get hurt." Baron Vaughn (Corporate, The New Negros) explains LOVE. What it is to be a love addict…
01:00:24  |   Fri 07 Dec 2018
Nicole Does a Live Tarot Reading (w/ Inessa Frantowski)

Nicole Does a Live Tarot Reading (w/ Inessa Frantowski)

Inessa Frantowski (UCB) performs a live tarot reading for Nicole, and boy, are the results dark. They also discuss at what point in the relationship do you have 'the talk', and changing yourself to a…
00:56:15  |   Fri 30 Nov 2018
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