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This Isn’t Therapy

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it!
Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. Anxiety. Boundaries. People Pleasing. Their narcissistic mother. No topic is off limits!

New episodes drop every Thursday.

The hosts:
Jake: https://www.instagram.com/mswjake
Simon: https://www.instagram.com/directedbysimon
The pod: https://www.instagram.com/notatherapypodcast

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
40 minutes
Episodes
202
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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ENCORE: People Pleasing

ENCORE: People Pleasing

This Isn't Therapy...this is an *encore* conversation about people pleasing. Through two #lovelylistener stories, Jake and Simon explore the root of people pleasing - where the behaviour stems from a…

00:39:06  |   Thu 14 Nov 2024
ENCORE: What are my needs? (Part 2)

ENCORE: What are my needs? (Part 2)

This Isn't Therapy...this is a (part 2) fun, flirty, fabulous convo about our needs! If you haven't listened to part one yet, what are you doing?! Go listen and then come back, Wendy!! In this episod…

00:46:05  |   Thu 07 Nov 2024
ENCORE: What are my needs? (Part 1)

ENCORE: What are my needs? (Part 1)

This Isn't Therapy...this is a (part 1) conversation about our needs - what are they? Why is everyone talking about them? And how do you know if your needs are being met? What follows is a funny and …

00:36:15  |   Thu 31 Oct 2024
ENCORE: Lying to your therapist

ENCORE: Lying to your therapist

This Isn't Therapy... it's the pinocchio-inspired epi about lying to your therapist. In this episode, Jake and Simon use a case scenario as a study about lies, fibs, and fairytales in the therapy roo…

00:46:45  |   Thu 24 Oct 2024
ENCORE: Adulting is hard

ENCORE: Adulting is hard

This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* conversation about becoming an emotional adult. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the mirage of adulthood and the search for the "real adults". They di…

00:44:33  |   Thu 17 Oct 2024
ENCORE: Emotional Immaturity

ENCORE: Emotional Immaturity

This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* episode about dealing with emotionally immature people. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about spotting the signs of an emotionally immature adult and how e…

00:49:51  |   Thu 10 Oct 2024
ENCORE: Is doomslang making us all numb?

ENCORE: Is doomslang making us all numb?

This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* doomy episode about the ever-evolving landscape of doomslang. Doomslang, coined by author and linguist Amanda Montell, is a term used to describe dystopian jarg…

00:46:26  |   Thu 03 Oct 2024
ENCORE: The eerie hype of self-improvement influencers

ENCORE: The eerie hype of self-improvement influencers

This Isn't Therapy...this is an *encore* deep dive into self-improvement influencers and the impact they're having on men: "how to be more alpha by yelling at the ocean!! How to get a six pack by eat…

00:45:54  |   Thu 26 Sep 2024
ENCORE: Making New Friends

ENCORE: Making New Friends

This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* convo about makin' new friends, Mary! In this week's episode, Jake and Simon talk about our social health and what's getting in the way of making new friends an…

00:41:01  |   Thu 19 Sep 2024
ENCORE: Help! My therapist broke up with me...

ENCORE: Help! My therapist broke up with me...

This Isn't Therapy... it’s an *encore* episode about being broken up with by a therapist. In this episode, Jake and Simon read two stories, one submitted to the Reddit r/AskATherapist community and o…

00:47:19  |   Thu 12 Sep 2024
ENCORE: Dating apps, hook up culture, and situationships

ENCORE: Dating apps, hook up culture, and situationships

This isn't therapy, baby, it's a conversation about dating and modern relationship expectations. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about hook up culture and the current dating landscape for single…

00:39:38  |   Thu 05 Sep 2024
ENCORE: Hot takes and the pressure to be an expert

ENCORE: Hot takes and the pressure to be an expert

This Isn't Therapy... it’s a conversation about problem spotting, hot take culture, the loss of expertise, and the pressure to have an opinion about everything. Get ready for some hot takes about hot…

00:44:23  |   Wed 28 Aug 2024
ENCORE: Is it my personality or my mental health?

ENCORE: Is it my personality or my mental health?

This Isn't Therapy... it's the long-time-coming conversation about personality differences and mental health! In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about The Big Five personality types - Openness, Con…

00:38:45  |   Wed 21 Aug 2024
ENCORE: Best Friends Forever? It's a myth.

ENCORE: Best Friends Forever? It's a myth.

This Isn't Therapy...this is a conversation about the best friends forever myth. There is so much pressure to find your other half, your #squad, someone to share that BFF bracelet with. But what happ…

00:44:02  |   Thu 15 Aug 2024
ENCORE: When therapy sessions become devastating TV

ENCORE: When therapy sessions become devastating TV

This isn't therapy... it's some straight up real talk about depictions of therapy in popular media. Simon and Jake talk about the emerging media genre of fly-on-the-wall therapy. From explosive coupl…

00:43:43  |   Fri 09 Aug 2024
ENCORE: Is therapy harming kids?

ENCORE: Is therapy harming kids?

This Isn't Therapy...this is an *encore* critical look at the argument that children need less therapy, not more, and how this "mental heath culture" is stripping parents of autonomy, ultimately caus…

00:48:16  |   Thu 01 Aug 2024
ENCORE: Phubbing 🤳✋

ENCORE: Phubbing 🤳✋

This Isn’t Therapy… it’s an *encore* discussion about “phubbing”— the act of snubbing someone with your phone. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about phone use and how it impacts our relationship…

00:46:19  |   Thu 25 Jul 2024
ENCORE: The pursuit of endless bliss ✨👀

ENCORE: The pursuit of endless bliss ✨👀

This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* episode about the pursuit of endless bliss. Many people arrive to therapy with a "fantasy goal" thinking they want to be calm, happy, and relaxed all the time. …

00:44:29  |   Thu 18 Jul 2024
ENCORE: Parenting your partner

ENCORE: Parenting your partner

This Isn't Therapy... this is an *encore* conversation about becoming the stand-in parent for the people around you. Are you the one always making the plans? Do find yourself saying "don't forget to.…

00:48:35  |   Thu 11 Jul 2024
ENCORE: Giving Feedback To Your Therapist

ENCORE: Giving Feedback To Your Therapist

This Isn't Therapy...this is an *encore* episode about some hard truths learned in therapy. Ever wonder how to give your therapist some feedback?! Or even how would my therapist react if I gave them …

00:43:15  |   Thu 04 Jul 2024
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