The Secure Husband

Do you feel like you walk on eggshells around your wife? Do you avoid conflict, get anxious when she’s upset, or feel like you're always messing up? You’re not weak—you’re stuck in a fear response.

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You try hard to fix things. You give, you ask, you wait. But your wife still feels distant—especially when it comes to sex. If that sounds familiar, this episode may explain why.

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You think chasing her love will save your marriage—but it’s doing the opposite. In this episode of the Secure Husband podcast, we discuss how preoccupied attachment creates emotional pressure, weaken…

Are you ignoring your own needs to keep the relationship going? If so, you might be abandoning your inner child without even realizing it. When your spouse doesn’t put in effort, it’s easy to minimiz…

She said she doesn’t want to go to couples counseling. That can be tough to hear, but what if this moment is actually an opportunity for clarity and growth? Instead of seeing this as rejection, what …

Do you find yourself reacting to rejection with anger, withdrawal, or neediness? These patterns don’t define you, but they do keep you stuck. Healing starts when you stop abandoning yourself in respo…

Is your wife’s withdrawal making you feel rejected, unworthy, or insecure? The truth is, saving your marriage starts with healing yourself—not trying to change her. The Secure Husband process helps y…