The Secure Husband

You’re tired of chasing your wife.
Tired of being the one who always reaches out first.
Tired of feeling unwanted, unheard, and unseen.

So you’re asking the question:
“If I stop trying, am I giving up on…

Do you feel like you're being loving, but she feels smothered?  It's neediness, not love.

This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast will challenge what you think love looks like. If you find yourself…

Do you feel lonely in your marriage — like you live with your wife, but you feel invisible?

You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not crazy.
But the truth is, the loneliness isn’t just about her p…

You love your wife. You still want to hold her. You want to feel close again — but every time you reach for her, she pulls away.

If you’ve asked yourself,
“How do I reconnect without chasing or pressur…

If your peace rises and falls based on your wife’s mood...
If you feel rejected, worthless, or unloved when she pulls away...
You may be looking to your wife for something she was never meant to give.

I…

You’ve been thinking about it.
You’re hurt.
You’re about to have “the talk” with your wife:

“We never have sex anymore.”
“Why don’t you initiate?”
“I feel unwanted.”

Sound familiar?

This episode of The Secu…

If your wife says she’s done… but hasn’t left yet — this episode is for you.
Maybe she’s checked out. She’s cold, distant, and barely speaks to you.
She says things like:
“I’m tired.”
“I don’t think this…

If your wife hasn’t initiated sex in years, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we tackle one of the hardest and most painful topics in marriage: f…

Have you made your wife the center of your world?
Are you losing yourself trying to hold the marriage together?

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we’re talking to men who’ve built their id…

You show up. You try hard. You do everything “right.”
So why does your marriage still feel so hard?

If you're a good man who helps, listens, gives, and shows up every day—but still feels unwanted, unse…

Feeling stuck in your marriage? You're not alone. Maybe you're not in crisis—but you're not happy either. The love feels distant. You're living like roommates. And you're caught between two painful o…

Have you ever been called "too emotional" or "needy"? Maybe you've felt ashamed because you care deeply, want connection, and struggle when your wife pulls away. If so, this episode of The Secure Hus…

Many men stay quiet in their marriage to keep the peace. But peace that costs your self-worth isn’t peace—it’s fear.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains why so many me…

Do you feel like you’re always trying to fix your wife? Do you think if she just changed, everything in your marriage would finally feel okay? Here’s the truth: you can’t fix your wife. But you can f…

Do you feel like nothing you do is enough in your marriage? Like your wife has all the power, and you're always chasing approval? You may be stuck in victim thinking—and it’s keeping you from being t…

Do you feel rejected when your wife pulls away from sex? Do you feel unwanted, not enough, or ashamed when intimacy is missing? You’re not alone—but this pain goes deeper than the bedroom.

In this epi…

Do you feel rejected, unseen, or not enough in your marriage? Do you feel like you keep chasing your wife’s love, hoping it will finally make you feel worthy? In this episode of The Secure Husband, B…

Are you tired of feeling stuck in your marriage? Do you feel like no matter what you do, your wife pulls away, shuts down, or seems distant? You might be trying to fix the wrong problem. The truth is…

Do you feel like your wife always pulls away? Like she keeps her walls up, avoids deep conversations, or shuts down when you try to connect? You may be married to a woman with an avoidant attachment …