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Stories of Men: Beneath the Surface

Traditional ideas of masculinity are dead, and now men struggle to find their place in the world. In Stories of Men, Alex Melia speaks to men who’ve overcome challenging circumstances to find out what they’ve learned about being a man in today’s world. Each guest shares a story from their life that has had a big impact on them.

Alex Melia is a businessman and podcaster from Atherton, Greater Manchester. He has built a business which now employs over 30 people. Ten years in, and the company sustains him without his involvement. He now travels the world on a mission to uncover what it means to live an independent and meaningful life.

This podcast was previously Our Voices.

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Update frequency
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Average duration
20 minutes
Episodes
200
Years Active
2021 - 2024
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Life after death: keeping alive the memory of lost loved ones

Life after death: keeping alive the memory of lost loved ones

After spending some time as a couple, Rob and Jodie had been friends for over ten years. He had seen her go through health challenges in the past and always re-emerge to be there by his side. It was …

00:28:26  |   Tue 23 May 2023
Getting mixed signals? The myth of finding 'the one'

Getting mixed signals? The myth of finding 'the one'

Samuel had just made a number of significant changes in his life following the pandemic. He had changed jobs, moved house and left a 4-your relationship. It was to his great surprise then that on a n…

00:28:56  |   Tue 16 May 2023
The great taboo: male survivors of domestic abuse

The great taboo: male survivors of domestic abuse

From the outside, Zahir seemed to be living the perfect life. He had a successful job, a beautiful apartment and he had just got married. Behind closed doors, however, the situation was much less tha…

00:36:07  |   Tue 09 May 2023
How a history of violence almost ended in manslaughter

How a history of violence almost ended in manslaughter

Emmanuel was the youngest of six children. He was also the only boy of the household. As a child, Emmanuel’s father would often disappear for weeks or months on end, during which time Emmanuel would …

00:36:35  |   Tue 02 May 2023
How meeting Sir Alex Ferguson changed a young boy’s life

How meeting Sir Alex Ferguson changed a young boy’s life

Alex was an 8-year-old kid with an obsession for football and a love of Manchester United. When he heard a rumour that his hero and Manchester United legend, Alex Ferguson, would be at a local venue,…

00:35:55  |   Tue 25 Apr 2023
Fronting up to guilt: why we can't always be in control

Fronting up to guilt: why we can't always be in control

Robert was a young doctor working in an intensive care ward when a patient was urgently admitted to him with pancreatitis. Robert proceeded to provide treatment for his patient and left him in what h…

00:32:17  |   Tue 18 Apr 2023
Alix Popham tells us why men sacrifice themselves for sport

Alix Popham tells us why men sacrifice themselves for sport

Alix is a former professional rugby player who made it to the very top of his profession. After retiring, his wife noticed that he was displaying some strange behaviour. But Alix dismissed his wife’s…

00:35:56  |   Tue 11 Apr 2023
Liquid confidence: Why do men need so much alcohol?

Liquid confidence: Why do men need so much alcohol?

Jack, a record-breaking cyclist, was engaging in a social event with his fellow competitors. It was the off-season and they found themselves cycling across the French border and emerging onto the sun…

00:29:30  |   Tue 04 Apr 2023
Fight or flight? What to do when a bully squares up to you

Fight or flight? What to do when a bully squares up to you

Chris was doing a typical day’s work at the local butcher’s when a man behind him started swearing at him, claiming he had got blood on his shirt. A few weeks later, Chris found himself confronted by…

00:30:39  |   Tue 28 Mar 2023
What are the consequences of pushing yourself to the point of exhaustion?

What are the consequences of pushing yourself to the point of exhaustion?

Phil had taken financial risks and had fallen into debt. But he was the man of the house and he had to find a way forward. He began working harder and harder. He found ways to keep pushing himself fu…

00:33:30  |   Tue 21 Mar 2023
How we can help young boys become better men

How we can help young boys become better men

You are a social worker and you are working with a young boy who has no experience of being told what to do. He has committed a crime and he is about to go face-to-face with a magistrate. If he does …

00:30:45  |   Tue 14 Mar 2023
How to deal with losing your job

How to deal with losing your job

You are a lawyer and you find yourself unemployed for the first time in two decades. You’re sitting on your sofa in your underwear. You feel like you have failed. 

Feeling that you need to express you…

00:25:02  |   Tue 07 Mar 2023
What would you sacrifice to achieve your lifelong ambition?

What would you sacrifice to achieve your lifelong ambition?

You are a boxing fanatic. You have been obsessed with the sport ever since you were a child. As a teenager you have one overriding ambition: to work for the most prestigious boxing magazine in the co…

00:32:05  |   Tue 28 Feb 2023
How to continue living after losing the love of your life

How to continue living after losing the love of your life

You are travelling with your childhood sweetheart and her family. You met her at school when you were just 17 years old and you’ve been together for 10 years. You have made plans for the future. You’…

00:28:45  |   Tue 21 Feb 2023
Why men find it so difficult to visit the doctor

Why men find it so difficult to visit the doctor

You’re in your favourite blues bar. You’re dancing to the melodic guitars. You see a woman across from you. She captures your attention. You capture hers. You speak to her outside of the bar. You dis…

00:24:02  |   Tue 14 Feb 2023
The phone call no one ever wants to receive

The phone call no one ever wants to receive

Your biological father disappeared from your life when you were a young child. You have been raised by another man who has been a father to you in every way you could possibly imagine. But, many year…

00:26:08  |   Tue 07 Feb 2023
Scared of being outed with Stephen K Amos

Scared of being outed with Stephen K Amos

You’re 20 years old. You’ve been hiding your sexual identity from all of those around you. But now you find yourself on a journey towards your first ever gay bar.

You’re excited but you’re also terrif…

00:28:34  |   Tue 31 Jan 2023
How to reset your life after going to prison?

How to reset your life after going to prison?

ep 14: You get a phone call from a friend who’s asking to be picked up. He has a reputation as a dodgy character but you agree to help him out. Before you know it, you’re being pursued by a police ca…

00:25:23  |   Tue 24 Jan 2023
How Jacob found the courage to speak out about an abusive past

How Jacob found the courage to speak out about an abusive past

Ep 13: You’re finishing a night-shift at work. You receive a text from a family member. The person is requesting to see you right now. They need to talk and it is not a conversation that can happen o…

00:31:19  |   Tue 17 Jan 2023
Telling your old-school, Catholic father about your sexuality

Telling your old-school, Catholic father about your sexuality

Ep 12: You’ve grown up in a provincial Irish town. You’ve known that your sexuality is different to those around you since you were a teenager. But, as you grow up, you find that you do not fit the s…

00:23:10  |   Tue 10 Jan 2023
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