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Stories of Men: Beneath the Surface

Traditional ideas of masculinity are dead, and now men struggle to find their place in the world. In Stories of Men, Alex Melia speaks to men who’ve overcome challenging circumstances to find out what they’ve learned about being a man in today’s world. Each guest shares a story from their life that has had a big impact on them.

Alex Melia is a businessman and podcaster from Atherton, Greater Manchester. He has built a business which now employs over 30 people. Ten years in, and the company sustains him without his involvement. He now travels the world on a mission to uncover what it means to live an independent and meaningful life.

This podcast was previously Our Voices.

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
20 minutes
Episodes
200
Years Active
2021 - 2024
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Is kidnapping your brother a bad thing?

Is kidnapping your brother a bad thing?

Mark was outside the door, his brother was locked in. The student apartment they were in was rat-infested and in complete disarray. All Mark’s brother had access to was 20 sausage rolls, a bottle of …

00:23:48  |   Tue 16 Jul 2024
Want to own a business? You have to think this way

Want to own a business? You have to think this way

It was March 2020 and Brad had just received confirmation that his current business model had become unworkable. A lockdown had been ordered following the pandemic, and the vast quantities of money …

00:21:35  |   Tue 09 Jul 2024
Ashamed of choosing family over work?

Ashamed of choosing family over work?

Jimmy was sitting in the waiting room thinking carefully about the decision he was about to announce. He had risen to a point of great success in his career, he was literally operating in the corrido…

00:24:21  |   Tue 02 Jul 2024
I almost took my own life. What made me change my mind?

I almost took my own life. What made me change my mind?

*Content warning: This episode contains graphic details of suicide*

It was a perfect storm of events and emotions. Dan had recently lost his mother. He’d had a number of business ventures which had no…

00:21:06  |   Tue 25 Jun 2024
What men need to understand about the harsh realities of moving to a new country

What men need to understand about the harsh realities of moving to a new country

Valerio grew up in a small Italian province. He enjoyed his life and was comfortable in his surroundings. It was something of a shock to the system, then, when his dad got a job in London while Valer…

00:21:39  |   Tue 18 Jun 2024
Is there a manly way of dealing with the death of a loved one?

Is there a manly way of dealing with the death of a loved one?

It was a day as ordinary as any other. Luke was taking a leisurely stroll to the shops when he began to feel the strangest of sensations. He felt time beginning to slow down. He experienced a feeling…

00:19:14  |   Tue 11 Jun 2024
What is it about public speaking that strikes fear into our hearts?

What is it about public speaking that strikes fear into our hearts?

“The Waffle Shop”, a podcast started by James, had been doing particularly well when he decided to throw his first ever live event. Everything was in place; however, as the beginning of the event app…

00:24:53  |   Tue 04 Jun 2024
The gruelling path to becoming a father and why it isn’t so straightforward

The gruelling path to becoming a father and why it isn’t so straightforward

Matt was on his way to the fertility clinic in order to produce a sample for his wife’s IVF treatment. This would be the 7th time the couple had attempted the procedure and it would likely be the fin…

00:24:59  |   Tue 28 May 2024
The dark side of men meeting up with the in-laws

The dark side of men meeting up with the in-laws

It was a beautiful summer’s day and Kevin was enjoying a boat trip along a picturesque canal with his girlfriend and her parents. His in-laws had arranged the trip as a way to celebrate their daughte…

00:31:32  |   Tue 21 May 2024
Are you less of a man if you’re overweight?

Are you less of a man if you’re overweight?

There was nothing that Arjun loved more than a wedding celebration. It was an opportunity for him to sing and dance and dress in elegant clothing, while also spending time with people he knew and lov…

00:18:28  |   Tue 14 May 2024
Men, ignoring this test could cost you your life

Men, ignoring this test could cost you your life

It was a beautiful autumnal morning and Andrew was thoroughly enjoying being at a Senior Golf Tour. During the event, a leaflet was handed to him concerning prostate cancer. He took it out of politen…

00:24:45  |   Tue 07 May 2024
These strategies to improve a father-son relationship might surprise you...

These strategies to improve a father-son relationship might surprise you...

Kazeem had always had a strained relationship with his father. His dad abandoned him when he was a baby and Kazeem only ever had fleeting experiences of spending time with him as he was growing up. A…

00:33:28  |   Tue 30 Apr 2024
The surprising link between anxiety and the barber's chair

The surprising link between anxiety and the barber's chair

As a queer man, Matt had always found the barbershop to be a particularly hyper-masculine space. He’d got on with everyone there, particularly the owner, but he had never felt comfortable enough to t…

00:25:24  |   Tue 23 Apr 2024
Why a journalist went to extreme lengths to get his father’s approval

Why a journalist went to extreme lengths to get his father’s approval

David was exploring the world while scaling the heady heights of multi-sports journalism. In only his second “proper job” post-university, he found himself unexpectedly appointed editor of a new maga…

00:30:06  |   Tue 16 Apr 2024
The dark side of traffic police officers we don't usually see

The dark side of traffic police officers we don't usually see

Mark had spent many years working as a traffic police officer. During this time, he had experienced countless tragic sights. His response to these had been to bottle up his feelings. This had led to …

00:30:30  |   Tue 09 Apr 2024
Do we always need a wake-up call to change our lives?

Do we always need a wake-up call to change our lives?

Dale Pollitt was 17 years old and appeared to be going nowhere. He’d just dropped out of school and was working at KFC. Like so many teenagers on the estate in which he lived, he spent most of his s…

00:29:50  |   Tue 02 Apr 2024
'Chess with violence': A sport that a man never thought he'd play

'Chess with violence': A sport that a man never thought he'd play

Steve seemed to have a charmed life. After graduating from university, he began travelling around Europe. He then found himself settling at a holiday resort and, in a few short years, went from being…

00:34:41  |   Tue 26 Mar 2024
Why are men scared of the doctor?

Why are men scared of the doctor?

Sam was 27 years old and in the midst of embarking upon his American adventure. He had just arrived in New York and was meeting up with some friends he’d made online to help him stay awake and beat …

00:19:27  |   Tue 19 Mar 2024
Facing the immense challenge of experiencing grief as a man

Facing the immense challenge of experiencing grief as a man

After spending some time as a couple, Rob and Jodie had been friends for over ten years. He had seen her go through health challenges in the past and always re-emerge to be there by his side. It was …

00:27:58  |   Tue 12 Mar 2024
The dangerous journey that took a young boy completely out of his comfort zone

The dangerous journey that took a young boy completely out of his comfort zone

Nick Danziger is an award-winning photographer. He is also a filmmaker and travel writer. His adventures abroad began at a very young age.

Nick was 13 and living in Switzerland when he told his parent…

00:29:54  |   Tue 05 Mar 2024
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