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Stories of Men: Beneath the Surface

Traditional ideas of masculinity are dead, and now men struggle to find their place in the world. In Stories of Men, Alex Melia speaks to men who’ve overcome challenging circumstances to find out what they’ve learned about being a man in today’s world. Each guest shares a story from their life that has had a big impact on them.

Alex Melia is a businessman and podcaster from Atherton, Greater Manchester. He has built a business which now employs over 30 people. Ten years in, and the company sustains him without his involvement. He now travels the world on a mission to uncover what it means to live an independent and meaningful life.

This podcast was previously Our Voices.

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
20 minutes
Episodes
200
Years Active
2021 - 2024
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Meet the dad who let go of his young daughter

Meet the dad who let go of his young daughter

Adam is driving his teenage daughter to Oxford. During the 1-hour journey, a few meaningful looks are exchanged. He is trying to be strong, but he feels nervous about the future, nervous about the pr…

00:22:12  |   Tue 10 Oct 2023
Keeping your brother locked up for 73 hours

Keeping your brother locked up for 73 hours

Mark was outside the door, his brother was locked in. The student apartment they were in was rat-infested and in complete disarray. All Mark’s brother had access to was 20 sausage rolls, a bottle of …

00:23:57  |   Tue 03 Oct 2023
How an unconventional approach saved a man’s business

How an unconventional approach saved a man’s business

It was March 2020 and Brad had just received confirmation that his current business model had become unworkable. A lockdown had been ordered following the pandemic, and the vast quantities of money t…

00:21:35  |   Tue 26 Sep 2023
From the corridors of power to becoming a dad

From the corridors of power to becoming a dad

Jimmy was sitting in the waiting room thinking carefully about the decision he was about to announce. He had risen to a point of great success in his career, he was literally operating in the corrido…

00:23:11  |   Tue 19 Sep 2023
What I learnt from my suicide attempt

What I learnt from my suicide attempt

*Content warning: This episode contains graphic details of suicide*

It was a perfect storm of events and emotions. Dan had recently lost his mother. He’d had a number of business ventures which had no…

00:21:15  |   Tue 12 Sep 2023
New school, new language, new life?

New school, new language, new life?

Valerio grew up in a small Italian province. He enjoyed his life and was comfortable in his surroundings. It was something of a shock to the system, then, when his dad got a job in London while Valer…

00:21:57  |   Tue 05 Sep 2023
Battling with reality to bring back the people we love

Battling with reality to bring back the people we love

It was a day as ordinary as any other. Luke was taking a leisurely stroll to the shops when he began to feel the strangest of sensations. He felt time beginning to slow down. He experienced a feeling…

00:19:23  |   Tue 29 Aug 2023
The podcast that saved a man’s life

The podcast that saved a man’s life

“The Waffle Shop”, a podcast started by James, had been doing particularly well when he decided to throw his first ever live event. Everything was in place; however, as the beginning of the event app…

00:25:21  |   Tue 22 Aug 2023
The difficulties men face when having kids

The difficulties men face when having kids

Matt was on his way to the fertility clinic in order to produce a sample for his wife’s IVF treatment. This would be the 7th time the couple had attempted the procedure and it would likely be the fin…

00:25:17  |   Tue 15 Aug 2023
Why men get social anxiety

Why men get social anxiety

It was a beautiful summer’s day and Kevin was enjoying a boat trip along a picturesque canal with his girlfriend and her parents. His in-laws had arranged the trip as a way to celebrate their daughte…

00:31:41  |   Tue 08 Aug 2023
What we do as men after realising we’ve put on weight

What we do as men after realising we’ve put on weight

There was nothing that Arjun loved more than a wedding celebration. It was an opportunity for him to sing and dance and dress in elegant clothing, while also spending time with people he knew and lov…

00:18:37  |   Tue 01 Aug 2023
Why all men should do this test

Why all men should do this test

It was a beautiful autumnal morning and Andrew was thoroughly enjoying being at a Senior Golf Tour. During the event, a leaflet was handed to him concerning prostate cancer. He took it out of politen…

00:25:11  |   Tue 25 Jul 2023
The lessons from an absent father

The lessons from an absent father

Kazeem had always had a strained relationship with his father. His dad abandoned him when he was a baby and Kazeem only ever had fleeting experiences of spending time with him as he was growing up. A…

00:33:37  |   Tue 18 Jul 2023
The struggle to be yourself whilst getting a haircut

The struggle to be yourself whilst getting a haircut

As a queer man, Matt had always found the barbershop to be a particularly hyper-masculine space. He’d got on with everyone there, particularly the owner, but he had never felt comfortable enough to t…

00:25:34  |   Tue 11 Jul 2023
The hidden price of seeking your Dad’s approval

The hidden price of seeking your Dad’s approval

David was exploring the world while scaling the heady heights of multi-sports journalism. In only his second “proper job” post-university, he found himself unexpectedly appointed editor of a new maga…

00:30:24  |   Tue 04 Jul 2023
Are we addicted to painkillers?

Are we addicted to painkillers?

Mark had spent many years working as a traffic police officer. During this time, he had experienced countless tragic sights. His response to these had been to bottle up his feelings. This had led to …

00:30:39  |   Tue 27 Jun 2023
From Tragedy to Triumph: Bouncing Back From Grief

From Tragedy to Triumph: Bouncing Back From Grief

Dale Pollitt was 17 years old and appeared to be going nowhere. He’d just dropped out of school and was working at KFC. Like so many teenagers on the estate in which he lived, he spent most of his s…

00:29:59  |   Tue 20 Jun 2023
Shattering stereotypes: a new life post-accident

Shattering stereotypes: a new life post-accident

Steve seemed to have a charmed life. After graduating from university, he began travelling around Europe. He then found himself settling at a holiday resort and, in a few short years, went from being…

00:34:59  |   Tue 13 Jun 2023
Surviving in Silence: The Hidden Struggle of Men Avoiding The Doctor

Surviving in Silence: The Hidden Struggle of Men Avoiding The Doctor

Sam was 27 years old and in the midst of embarking upon his American adventure. He had just arrived in New York and was meeting up with some friends he’d made online to help him stay awake and beat …

00:19:36  |   Tue 06 Jun 2023
Why it’s important to break the rules: the war photographer who left home at 13

Why it’s important to break the rules: the war photographer who left home at 13

Nick Danziger is an award-winning photographer. He is also a filmmaker and travel writer. His adventures abroad began at a very young age.

Nick was 13 and living in Switzerland when he told his parent…

00:29:54  |   Tue 30 May 2023
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