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Stories of Men: Beneath the Surface

Traditional ideas of masculinity are dead, and now men struggle to find their place in the world. In Stories of Men, Alex Melia speaks to men who’ve overcome challenging circumstances to find out what they’ve learned about being a man in today’s world. Each guest shares a story from their life that has had a big impact on them.

Alex Melia is a businessman and podcaster from Atherton, Greater Manchester. He has built a business which now employs over 30 people. Ten years in, and the company sustains him without his involvement. He now travels the world on a mission to uncover what it means to live an independent and meaningful life.

This podcast was previously Our Voices.

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Update frequency
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Average duration
20 minutes
Episodes
200
Years Active
2021 - 2024
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The last chance to guide a troubled young boy into adulthood

The last chance to guide a troubled young boy into adulthood

Tim was a social worker and started to work with a young boy who had no experience of being told what to do. He committed a crime and he was about to go face-to-face with a magistrate, so Tim felt he…

00:31:01  |   Tue 27 Feb 2024
The magic of three friends coming together in a hospital room

The magic of three friends coming together in a hospital room

Anthony was 29 years old when he received the news that his best friend, David, was severely  ill.The news left him in shock and it proved to be  a life changing moment for him.

Anthony and David had …

00:19:13  |   Tue 20 Feb 2024
Moments from the edge: The kindness that brought a man back to life

Moments from the edge: The kindness that brought a man back to life

Luke was at a party with his girlfriend surrounded by his closest friends. He was smiling and laughing and appeared to be having a great time. But, after this moment of celebration, it was his intent…

00:25:53  |   Tue 13 Feb 2024
When football fans and a wheel clamper collide

When football fans and a wheel clamper collide

Daniel Collins was a slight 18-year-old boy who was travelling around the country clamping cars. He hated the job but his father seemed to relish it. One day, they clamped the car of a man that showe…

00:22:01  |   Tue 06 Feb 2024
The night out that turned into a tabloid shaming

The night out that turned into a tabloid shaming

Ross was the life and soul of the party. Working as a national radio presenter, he was able to hang out with the rich and famous at awards ceremonies and red carpet events. But he was hiding a secret…

00:26:46  |   Tue 30 Jan 2024
Where is my dad? How absent fathers shape men

Where is my dad? How absent fathers shape men

It was a day out with the family. Despite not knowing where they were going, Paul and his brother were extremely excited to be taken out by their relatives; they didn’t usually get taken out at all. 

00:21:40  |   Tue 23 Jan 2024
On your death bed: what would you change?

On your death bed: what would you change?

He was lying in bed, restless, in a fever, struggling to catch his breath. He was shivering one moment and then attempting to kick off his duvet the next.

He saw a woman coming through the door. She s…

00:23:14  |   Tue 16 Jan 2024
The long journey from emotional breakdown to recovery - Throwback episode

The long journey from emotional breakdown to recovery - Throwback episode

Darren openly discusses the plethora of negative feelings that contributed to his emotional breakdown on his way to work. He was working in finance. It was an industry that had provided him with the …

00:28:33  |   Thu 11 Jan 2024
Sky-diving: a rush of blood to the head

Sky-diving: a rush of blood to the head

The air was so chillingly cold that he could feel it in his bones. The billowing and the roaring around him was so loud that he was unable to hear. As he stood there waiting for the inevitable, his …

00:25:58  |   Tue 09 Jan 2024
Maintaining a marriage whilst moving round the world

Maintaining a marriage whilst moving round the world

For David, the dream was just beginning. He and his wife were in their early 20s and had just moved from Canada to Switzerland to start a new adventure.

At work, David was also having the time of his …

00:22:29  |   Tue 02 Jan 2024
How a former soldier dealt with grief after the horrors of war - Christmas Throwback episode

How a former soldier dealt with grief after the horrors of war - Christmas Throwback episode

Here is a special re-released episode of Stories of Men for the Christmas period.

You’re a soldier driving through a warzone. You pass through a deserted village. Later you see a lonely crucifix in a …

00:25:18  |   Tue 26 Dec 2023
Kick off! When tensions spill over in football

Kick off! When tensions spill over in football

It was Cup Final day against the school’s most fierce rivals. Andy was 12 years old and nervously waiting to hear if he would be included in the team. He looked to his dad watching from the sidelines…

00:24:42  |   Tue 19 Dec 2023
Strict education vs extreme freedom: how do boys react?

Strict education vs extreme freedom: how do boys react?

When it comes to idyllic childhood’s one would be hard-pressed to think of a more harmonious one than James’. He was raised in Villefrance, a town in  the Alps located along the French and Italian bo…

00:24:03  |   Tue 12 Dec 2023
Driving at 90 mph: How a man gambled with his life

Driving at 90 mph: How a man gambled with his life

Speeding along the motorway listening to music from his youth, Andy was reflecting on happier times. He was thinking about a holiday in Ibiza when he was 19 years old and hadn’t a care in the world. …

00:25:50  |   Tue 05 Dec 2023
The great pretender: gambling with friendship

The great pretender: gambling with friendship

It was his first summer holiday with the boys in Spain. Alan and his mates were bragging about all the money they’d brought with them for their two weeks in the sun. Yet, while his mates all seemed t…

00:23:52  |   Tue 21 Nov 2023
Being the breadwinner when you hate your job

Being the breadwinner when you hate your job

After the previously independent company that he’d worked for had been bought up by a much larger one, Anuj had begun to lose his passion for his job. The one benefit that had remained was his team, …

00:21:22  |   Tue 14 Nov 2023
Adapt at your peril: the art of being an unreasonable man

Adapt at your peril: the art of being an unreasonable man

Jonathan was daydreaming while his chemistry professor was putting chalk to blackboard. He’d snuck his NME magazine into the lecture theatre and was reading about an upcoming gig: Alice in Chains, a …

00:23:28  |   Tue 07 Nov 2023
Strengthening the bond with your brothers via the beautiful game

Strengthening the bond with your brothers via the beautiful game

It was cup final day and Sumit and his brothers were dreaming of victory. They had all travelled to Kiev to watch Liverpool play the final match in Europe’s premier competition. All the brothers had …

00:22:51  |   Tue 31 Oct 2023
Think your life is chaotic? Learn lessons from a men’s mental health advocate

Think your life is chaotic? Learn lessons from a men’s mental health advocate

*Content warning: This episode contains graphic details of suicide*

George had been struggling with anxiety and depression for a while and he was beginning to lose hope that he would ever feel better …

00:26:46  |   Tue 24 Oct 2023
A chef’s harrowing realisation about food

A chef’s harrowing realisation about food

It was as ordinary a situation as you could imagine: Steve and his girlfriend were in Subway purchasing a sandwich. Steve had decided to go for the healthiest option available: a sandwich which was u…

00:23:00  |   Tue 17 Oct 2023
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