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Nope! We're Not Monogamous - Podcast

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. 

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Update frequency
every 11 days
Average duration
46 minutes
Episodes
127
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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Reclaiming Your Power Through Self-Love and Pleasure with Kim Coffin, Ep. 46

Reclaiming Your Power Through Self-Love and Pleasure with Kim Coffin, Ep. 46

In today’s episode, I talk with Kim Coffin, a trauma informed body based empowerment coach who's paving a new way for women to discover their inner sexual and sensual confidence. Through her own jour…

00:35:17  |   Thu 06 Apr 2023
Unlearning Monogamy & Embracing Queer Polyamory, Ep 45

Unlearning Monogamy & Embracing Queer Polyamory, Ep 45

Today I am talking to Lelia Gowland, a married Southern woman with a literal white picket fence, who confronted her fears and her need for anonymity to very publicly embrace her queer and polyamorous…

01:11:36  |   Thu 23 Mar 2023
Intimacy and Non-Monogamy: Embracing Embodied Choices, Ep. 44

Intimacy and Non-Monogamy: Embracing Embodied Choices, Ep. 44

After 28 years of pure monogamy, my guest today dove into a sexuality community to explore something different during what one might call a midlife crisis, only to find herself with a primary relatio…

00:46:01  |   Thu 09 Mar 2023
Kitchen Table Poly: Unpacking Metamours and Breakups, Ep. 43

Kitchen Table Poly: Unpacking Metamours and Breakups, Ep. 43

Sara and I are talking about her experiences with polyamory and some of mine too! We cover coming out to family and friends as polyamorous, how polyamorous people might handle breakups of their partn…

00:59:37  |   Thu 23 Feb 2023
Relationship Vetos: The Process of Relationship Grieving, Ep. 42

Relationship Vetos: The Process of Relationship Grieving, Ep. 42

Today, I’m chatting with Kyra Gilchrist, a relationship anarchist and solo polyamory advocate. Kyra shares with us how she coped with the aftermath of being vetoed from the relationship that she was …

01:15:26  |   Thu 09 Feb 2023
Finding Your Inner Dom(me), Ep. 41

Finding Your Inner Dom(me), Ep. 41

Domina Anne Shirley coaches people on how to be the Dominant in their own lives. Today, she shares her struggles with the idea of non-monogamy and we talk about the different facets of dominance and …

00:36:43  |   Thu 26 Jan 2023
Navigating Polyamory as a Pagan, Pansexual, Parent

Navigating Polyamory as a Pagan, Pansexual, Parent

 Emily Otto is a healer for healers and an intuitive business coach who helps women listen to their heart's desires and create it through business and wild abundance. She is also a pagan, polyamorous…

00:57:46  |   Thu 12 Jan 2023
Finding Community and Authenticity in Polyamory, Ep. 39

Finding Community and Authenticity in Polyamory, Ep. 39

Today I am talking with Delphine Lumen. Delphine is someone who has a passion for learning about what makes happy, healthy relationships and has spent the last year or so creating social events like …

00:36:44  |   Thu 29 Dec 2022
Love Outside of the Romance Novel with Eleanor O’Brien, Ep. 38

Love Outside of the Romance Novel with Eleanor O’Brien, Ep. 38

Today, I am speaking with Eleanor O’Brien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Creative, a sex-positive theater and event company.   She is a writer, performer and facilitator.  We talk about her …

00:49:58  |   Thu 15 Dec 2022
Somatic Practices in Non-Monogamy with Isha Vela, Ep. 37

Somatic Practices in Non-Monogamy with Isha Vela, Ep. 37

This week I am talking with relationship anarchist and solo polyamorous person, Isha Vela.  Isha and I talk about how they came to understand and embrace non-monogamy as part of their identity, how y…

00:45:37  |   Thu 01 Dec 2022
The Power of Wants and Needs in Relationships, Ep. 36

The Power of Wants and Needs in Relationships, Ep. 36

Today, I'm talking to Dr. Joli Hamilton, again! We had such a great time on Episode 21 that we decided to do it all over again!  We're talking about how to differentiate your needs and wants and desi…

00:58:58  |   Thu 17 Nov 2022
The Importance of Human Connection and Sex Work, Ep. 35

The Importance of Human Connection and Sex Work, Ep. 35

Today I am talking with my friend Numina Mara.  Numina is a fantastic human and we had an amazing conversation that covered her love of the courtesan lifestyle, her experience in the sex industry, an…

00:41:06  |   Thu 03 Nov 2022
Pregnancy & Non-Monogamy, Ep. 34

Pregnancy & Non-Monogamy, Ep. 34

Today I’m talking to Kelli Moore. Kelli is the co founder and CEO of Soulfire productions, a podcast network for thought leaders, free thinkers and visionaries. Kelli and I chat about jealousy, openi…

00:46:17  |   Thu 06 Oct 2022
Discovering Our Queerness, Ep. 33

Discovering Our Queerness, Ep. 33

This week’s episode is a little different!  Today I am sharing a conversation with my girlfriend, Salena.  We are giving you an inside look at the evolution of our relationship and how we have both d…

00:50:04  |   Thu 22 Sep 2022
Finding Yourself in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 32

Finding Yourself in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 32

I am so excited to share with you this conversation with Emily Gindlesparger. Emily is the author of Please Make Me Love Me, an intimate memoir of opening her relationship, coming into a queer identi…

00:46:54  |   Wed 07 Sep 2022
Good Girls Talk About Non-Monogamy, with Leah Carey, Ep. 31

Good Girls Talk About Non-Monogamy, with Leah Carey, Ep. 31

This week I am talking to Leah Carey. Leah is a sex and intimacy coach and she's the host of Good Girls Talk About Sex. We talk about her evolution from someone who didn't talk about sex and who was …

00:59:22  |   Thu 11 Aug 2022
Boundaries for Building Safety and Trust, Ep. 30

Boundaries for Building Safety and Trust, Ep. 30

Today I am giving you a sneak peek into our community Facebook group, also called Nope, We're Not Monogamous and a workshop we had last week! In that workshop, Elizabeth Claire de Lune and I explored…

01:03:22  |   Thu 28 Jul 2022
Honing Your Desires in Polyamory, Ep. 29

Honing Your Desires in Polyamory, Ep. 29

This week I’m talking with my friend, Ashley Thibodaux. Ashley helps women find safety to rest in and believes that the only way to speed up is to slow down. We talk a lot about how to find safety in…

00:54:32  |   Thu 14 Jul 2022
Is non-monogamy written in your DNA?, Ep. 28

Is non-monogamy written in your DNA?, Ep. 28

What the heck is human design and what could it possibly have to do with my relationships? I've worked with Amber for about six months, and the information that I got was so validating; for my relati…

00:50:14  |   Thu 30 Jun 2022
Sexy, Confident Non-Monogamy, Ep. 27

Sexy, Confident Non-Monogamy, Ep. 27

I'm talking to Tia Lynn, the Sexy Biz Babe who helps women own their confidence and power in the bedroom and the boardroom. We have a really great conversation around overcoming shame, enjoying thing…

00:32:55  |   Thu 16 Jun 2022
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