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Nope! We're Not Monogamous - Podcast

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. 

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Update frequency
every 11 days
Average duration
46 minutes
Episodes
127
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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Beyond Vanilla The Intersection of Polyamory and Kink with Maeve McBride

Beyond Vanilla The Intersection of Polyamory and Kink with Maeve McBride

Ever wondered what happens when kink and non-monogamy collide with trauma healing? In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Maeve McBride, a kink and ENM educator, erotic coach, and the Execut…

01:02:39  |   Thu 17 Oct 2024
Sex Geeks Get Real: Consent Talks Before Getting Busy with Reid Mahalko

Sex Geeks Get Real: Consent Talks Before Getting Busy with Reid Mahalko

Ever wondered how sex educators navigate their own intimate encounters? In this candid and eye-opening episode, I sit down with renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for an intimate con…

00:50:24  |   Thu 03 Oct 2024
Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships with Therapist Ann Russo

Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships with Therapist Ann Russo

Navigating the complexities of non-monogamous relationships can be challenging, especially when it comes to dealing with jealousy. In this conversation, I sit down with Ann Russo, a licensed clinical…

00:47:03  |   Thu 19 Sep 2024
Shuffling Relationship Dynamics with a Deck of Cards, Ep. 83

Shuffling Relationship Dynamics with a Deck of Cards, Ep. 83

Imagine a game that sparks deep conversations, fosters understanding, and strengthens your relationships. That's exactly what the brilliant minds behind The Non Monogamy Card Game have created. This …

00:43:48  |   Thu 05 Sep 2024
Fluid Bonding and STI Awareness Navigating Sexual Health in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Susan Bratton

Fluid Bonding and STI Awareness Navigating Sexual Health in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Susan Bratton

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with the incomparable Susan Bratton, a true pioneer in sexual wellness and non-monogamy. With decades of experience under her belt, Susan shares her wealth of …

01:14:02  |   Thu 22 Aug 2024
Monogamy? In this Economy? With Author Laura Boyle

Monogamy? In this Economy? With Author Laura Boyle

Let’s explore the complexities of living in polyamorous relationships with relationship coach Laura Boyle, author of Monogamy? In this Economy?Finances, Childrearing, and Other Practical Concerns of …

00:52:01  |   Thu 08 Aug 2024
Navigating Consent and Pleasure in Non-Monogamy with Jamie Love

Navigating Consent and Pleasure in Non-Monogamy with Jamie Love

This episode gives you a peek into the remarkable journey of Jamie Love, from a conservative religious background to leading a thriving, international sex-positive community, Sex Positive World. You'…

00:43:02  |   Thu 25 Jul 2024
Polyamorous Elders: Planning for Your Future

Polyamorous Elders: Planning for Your Future

Intrigued by polyamory but unsure how it translates to long-term relationships? Especially as we age?

Today, we're venturing into the world of thriving polyamory in your golden years. Joining us is th…

00:48:55  |   Thu 11 Jul 2024
The Alchemy of Pleasure: Transforming Relationships with Sasha and Moritz

The Alchemy of Pleasure: Transforming Relationships with Sasha and Moritz

Let's be real: navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) can be thrilling, confusing, and sometimes downright messy. But no worries! We've got power couple Sasha and Moritz on deck to spill the tea on bu…

01:09:08  |   Thu 27 Jun 2024
First Date Fun: Navigating Non-Monogamy with Humor and Insight

First Date Fun: Navigating Non-Monogamy with Humor and Insight

First dates in the non-monogamous world? We've got you covered!

Join Ellecia and Danny for a hilarious and informative exploration of navigating this unique dating scene. From conversation starters (f…

00:59:31  |   Thu 13 Jun 2024
From Strict Religion to Ceremonial Celebrations: Dan's Story

From Strict Religion to Ceremonial Celebrations: Dan's Story

Imagine growing up in a world where love had strict rules, only to break free and discover endless possibilities. This is the story of Dan and Jennie, a married couple who defied societal norms to em…

01:03:59  |   Thu 30 May 2024
Unpacking the Relationship Escalator: Lessons from 2 Decades of Ethical Non-Monogamy

Unpacking the Relationship Escalator: Lessons from 2 Decades of Ethical Non-Monogamy

 What if everything you thought you knew about relationships was wrong? Our guest today has been openly non-monogamous for over 20 years, challenging assumptions about love and intimacy every step of…

00:43:45  |   Thu 16 May 2024
No Rules Polyamory: Exploring Pleasure, Tantra and Sex Magic

No Rules Polyamory: Exploring Pleasure, Tantra and Sex Magic

Can sex magic really help you manifest your desires and enhance pleasure? In this candid conversation with Lona, a neo-tantra teacher and sexual bliss coach, we unravel the mysteries behind this esot…

00:44:51  |   Thu 02 May 2024
Beyond Fairy Tales: Real Connection Strategies Unveiled

Beyond Fairy Tales: Real Connection Strategies Unveiled

Today, we're challenging everything you thought you knew about love with Adam Lyons, a world-renowned dating coach and psychology expert who's turning traditional views on their head.

Adam argues that…

00:57:27  |   Thu 18 Apr 2024
The Marathon Problem: Overcoming Fears to Embrace Non-monogamy with Poly Pocket Podcast Ep. 72

The Marathon Problem: Overcoming Fears to Embrace Non-monogamy with Poly Pocket Podcast Ep. 72

Welcome to a candid exploration of the highs and lows of the non-monogamous journey, especially after the significant life transition of divorce. If you've found the path to non-monogamy leaving you …

01:03:14  |   Thu 04 Apr 2024
From Polyamory to Monogamish: Relationship Coach Gets Real About Polyamory, Ep. 71

From Polyamory to Monogamish: Relationship Coach Gets Real About Polyamory, Ep. 71

Welcome to a heart-to-heart with Shelby Avann, where we peel back the layers on relationships, intimacy, and the magic of healing. Shelby isn't just any relationship and intimacy coach. She’s a Reiki…

00:46:09  |   Thu 21 Mar 2024
Polyamory Pitfalls: Handling Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Ali Hendry, Ep. 70

Polyamory Pitfalls: Handling Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Ali Hendry, Ep. 70

Jealousy: the green-eyed monster we've all wrestled with at some point, and the surprise guest in many non-monogamous relationships. But what if jealousy isn't the adversary we've been conditioned to…
00:44:28  |   Thu 07 Mar 2024
How I Learned to Embrace Abundance in Non-Monogamous Relationships, Ep. 69

How I Learned to Embrace Abundance in Non-Monogamous Relationships, Ep. 69

Hey friends! We’re going on a journey with Nicoletta Heidegger, therapist, sexologist, and host of the "Sluts and Scholars" podcast, as we chat about the world of non-monogamy on my latest podcast ep…

00:48:19  |   Thu 22 Feb 2024
Self-Love, Jealousy, and Somatic Healing in Non-monogamous Relationships

Self-Love, Jealousy, and Somatic Healing in Non-monogamous Relationships

In the depths of Orit Krug's personal journey, she discovered an unexpected truth about love and relationships. As she bravely embraced polyamory, she unearthed the transformative power of self-love …

00:46:54  |   Thu 08 Feb 2024
Shedding Resentment and Finding Freedom in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Daisy Sky

Shedding Resentment and Finding Freedom in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Daisy Sky

Do you desire emotional healing and inner peace in your non-monogamous relationship journey? My guest today will be revealing the key to finding forgiveness and experiencing profound emotional growth…

00:47:40  |   Thu 25 Jan 2024
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