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Nope! We're Not Monogamous - Podcast

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. 

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Update frequency
every 11 days
Average duration
46 minutes
Episodes
127
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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Embracing Your True Self: The Journey Through Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Sacred Rage with Sandra Possing

Embracing Your True Self: The Journey Through Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Sacred Rage with Sandra Possing

If you're feeling suffocated by societal expectations and constantly striving to fit in, then you are not alone! You may already be sacrificing your true self in order to please others, only to find …

00:49:42  |   Thu 11 Jan 2024
Thriving in Non-Monogamy: Deana Tanner's Guide to Healthy Humaning, Ep. 65

Thriving in Non-Monogamy: Deana Tanner's Guide to Healthy Humaning, Ep. 65

Does this sound familiar? You're in a non-monogamous relationship, seeking to improve communication and openness with your partners, but you find yourself hitting roadblocks. Maybe you've been told t…

00:53:27  |   Tue 26 Dec 2023
Finding Balance in an Unconventional BDSM Triad, Ep. 64

Finding Balance in an Unconventional BDSM Triad, Ep. 64

Curious about unconventional triad relationships and BDSM dynamics?

In this episode, we explore Hannah's journey from swinging to polyamory, the challenges of managing multiple partners, and the signi…

00:46:43  |   Thu 14 Dec 2023
Sexual Safety in Non-monogamy with Evalene Dacker-MD

Sexual Safety in Non-monogamy with Evalene Dacker-MD

Brace yourself for an enlightening exploration of non-monogamous relationships, sexual health, and the importance of clear communication. This episode features the insightful Evalene Dacker-MD, who g…

00:57:31  |   Thu 30 Nov 2023
Unlocking Desire: Exploring the Transformative Power of Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia De Vine

Unlocking Desire: Exploring the Transformative Power of Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia De Vine

Astonishing revelations await as we journey into the realm of desires and sexual fantasies with the luminary, Artemisia De Vine. Imagine peeling back the layers of desire, treading into territories u…

00:54:07  |   Thu 16 Nov 2023
Radical Honesty and Responsibility in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Leslie Tavernier

Radical Honesty and Responsibility in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Leslie Tavernier

Get ready for some real talk about relationships in this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous with guest Lesley Tavernier. We dive deep into the concept of radical responsibility and how it can tran…

00:54:29  |   Thu 02 Nov 2023
Polywise - A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships with Jessica Fern and David Cooley

Polywise - A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships with Jessica Fern and David Cooley

Are you in a non-monogamous relationship and looking for ways to enhance your emotional intelligence? Look no further! Join me, Ellecia Paine, as I interview Jessica Fern and David Cooley on the impo…

01:03:29  |   Wed 18 Oct 2023
Long-Distance Love: Non-monogamy Across Continents with CJ

Long-Distance Love: Non-monogamy Across Continents with CJ

Are you in a long-distance relationship and curious about exploring non-monogamy? Today's guest, CJ, a sex coach and pleasure advocate, walks us through their personal experience of how non-monogamy …

00:48:15  |   Thu 05 Oct 2023
The Art of Setting Boundaries in Non-Monogamy: A Conversation with Dirty Lola, Ep. 58

The Art of Setting Boundaries in Non-Monogamy: A Conversation with Dirty Lola, Ep. 58

Get ready for a compelling discussion that charts the high seas of non-monogamy. I'm thrilled to have the inimitable Dirty Lola aboard with us, an accomplished sex educator and media personality you …

01:10:38  |   Thu 21 Sep 2023
Navigating Polyamory and Parenting

Navigating Polyamory and Parenting

Listen to this episode if you're a non-monogamous parent  or part of a non-traditional family who wants guidance on how to navigate the challenges and celebrate the unique aspects of your family stru…

01:00:41  |   Thu 07 Sep 2023
Crushing Stereotypes: Exploring the Realities of Non-Monogamous Relationships with Rich and Siobhan

Crushing Stereotypes: Exploring the Realities of Non-Monogamous Relationships with Rich and Siobhan

This week we have an enlightening conversation with Rich and Siobhan, from the Poly Podcast, about their experiences with non-monogamy. They reveal how they embraced polyamory, nuanced their relation…

01:07:34  |   Thu 24 Aug 2023
Shedding Labels and Overcoming Societal Expectations with Alex Cox

Shedding Labels and Overcoming Societal Expectations with Alex Cox

Get ready to embark on an enlightening journey with our guest, Alex Cox, as he gives a candid account of his polyamorous lifestyle. Since 2018, Alex has been navigating the intricacies of multiple pa…

01:17:35  |   Thu 10 Aug 2023
Navigating Polyamory with Emotional Intention with Victor Salmon

Navigating Polyamory with Emotional Intention with Victor Salmon

The non-monogamous relationship journey is brimming with complexity and profound self-discovery. This episode opens a window into this world, as we chat with Victor Salmon, who walks us through their…

00:40:38  |   Thu 27 Jul 2023
A Journey of Liberation and Empowerment with Casey Donatello

A Journey of Liberation and Empowerment with Casey Donatello

In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Casey Donatello opens up about the challenges and dynamics of striving for equity in non-monogamous relationships. But just when it seems like they've f…

00:41:18  |   Thu 13 Jul 2023
Delighting in Self-Connection with Lee Harrington

Delighting in Self-Connection with Lee Harrington

Are you tired of feeling disconnected from yourself and others? What if there was a way to build a unique web of relationships that truly support your well-being and growth? Well, we're here to tell …

01:02:46  |   Thu 29 Jun 2023
Healing and Reclaiming Power in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Lucy Price

Healing and Reclaiming Power in Non-Monogamous Relationships with Lucy Price

This week, I am talking with relationship coach, Lucy Price.  Join us as we discuss the power of non-monogamous relationships and the importance of understanding our own feelings and desires before f…

00:59:14  |   Thu 15 Jun 2023
Celebrating 50 Episodes: Exploring Relationship Escalators, Jealousy, and Growth in Non-Monogamy

Celebrating 50 Episodes: Exploring Relationship Escalators, Jealousy, and Growth in Non-Monogamy

Today we are celebrating a major milestone for our podcast, Nope, We're Not Monogamous: our 50th episode! To mark this occasion, I was joined by Danny, my producer, boyfriend and fellow non-monogamou…

00:50:01  |   Thu 01 Jun 2023
Embracing Compersion in Your Relationships with Marie Thouin, Ep 49

Embracing Compersion in Your Relationships with Marie Thouin, Ep 49

Today I am speaking with Marie Thouin, a dating and relationship coach with a passion for understanding the intricacies of non monogamous relationships and a PhD researcher on compersion. 

Her experie…

00:53:43  |   Thu 18 May 2023
Health, Happiness, and Safe Relationships in Non- Monogamy with Nurse Dynamite, Ep 48

Health, Happiness, and Safe Relationships in Non- Monogamy with Nurse Dynamite, Ep 48

My guest Christina Dynamite and I  are chatting about  our intimate journeys through non-monogamy and polyamory as we share personal experiences, challenges, and triumphs in navigating their unconven…

00:56:22  |   Thu 04 May 2023
The Journey Through NRE to the Relationships You Desire, Ep. 47

The Journey Through NRE to the Relationships You Desire, Ep. 47

I am talking to life and relationship coach, Randi Robbins, about some of the various forms of non monogamous relationships and how to manage the exciting and sometimes overwhelming emotions that com…

00:33:19  |   Thu 20 Apr 2023
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