I Said What I Said
I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me!
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- Update frequency
- every 6 days
- Average duration
- 51 minutes
- Episodes
- 128
- Years Active
- 2018 - 2025
28. Envy and Comparison: I Met My Tethered and She's THRIVING! (Part 1)
In this episode Mukundwa details her struggles with envy and comparison, and Nyak takes the role of her unpaid therapist: do we get over envy by being+feeling BETTER than the other person? Do some pe…
01:00:05 |
Mon 17 Jun 2019
27. Is your sexual pleasure worth prioritising?
Someone asked me (Mukundwa)what prompted me to stop having sex with subpar men. Nyak and I dissect my answer: we discuss prioritising pleasure, body dissociation and energy transfers. We also argue a…
01:03:00 |
Mon 10 Jun 2019
26. Throw her in the trash? On bending vs. breaking friendships
In this episode we discuss what friendship breakups actually look like - are they explosive or silent withdrawals? Is it possible to run a friendship like a transaction, and how do we know if it's ti…
01:02:26 |
Mon 03 Jun 2019
25. "Forever After" (and other scams) ft. Retha
*FIRSTLY LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW, I SEE Y'ALL DINING AND DASHING!!!*Is marriage the ghetto? In this episode we explore whether marriage is: - an unpaid internship- beneficial for women- a dumping g…
00:58:44 |
Mon 27 May 2019
24. Cute or Concerning? Social Media Stalking and Transparency
We all Google our crushes (right?!): do you stop at LinkedIn or go to page 7 of the results? When does due diligence become stalking? Does bae OWE you transparency? Is invasion of privacy wrong if th…
01:05:05 |
Mon 20 May 2019
23. Social Media flexing and Tapdancing for the D - ft Abolade
In this RAUCOUS episode we discuss - social media optics and why we have instagram if it ruins our mental health, we interrogate catfishing on apps, and racial stereotypes that JUMP OUT when datingAb…
00:58:04 |
Mon 13 May 2019
22. Suicide, Life And Death Q&A ft. Ushbah (Part 2)
We read out comments and questions sent in by listeners as a followup to Part 1, link: https://tinyurl.com/y5q7joo8 . The topics touched upon are searching for meaning and purpose, the fear of old ag…
00:59:10 |
Mon 06 May 2019
21. Would You Date Yourself? ft. Nunu & Abolade
Manipulation? Emotionally checking out? Parring off the responsibility of breaking up? In this spicy episode we count down the ways in which we're problematic lovers! SUBSCRIBE, LIKE AND COMMENT - I …
01:01:46 |
Mon 29 Apr 2019
20. Polyamory vs. Romantic Longevity - ft. Nunu
Is polyamory conducive to longevity, and is longevity even a goal? Also do Gemini’s have emotions?Nunu:https://www.instagram.com/neon_nu/https://twitter.com/neon_nuName drops:https://soundcloud.com/i…
00:58:07 |
Mon 22 Apr 2019
19. Suicide, Life and Death ft. Ushbah (Part 1)
TRIGGER WARNING: SuicideUshbah discusses her experience with suicide and mental health, and we discuss apathy and death/life as choicesHolla at Ushbah - https://www.instagram.com/ushbiz/Read her lett…
00:56:46 |
Mon 15 Apr 2019
18: The Beauty Myth: Shifting beauty trends in women
Are you beautiful if no one is there to see it? Are you beautiful if no one agrees? We discuss the function of beauty, its shifting goalposts and gatekeepers, and whether beauty is a physical trait o…
00:50:16 |
Mon 08 Apr 2019
17. Fast Money & Motivation: is wealth karmic?
IS THERE SUCH A THING AS FAST MONEY? Is money a karmic reward for effort, or can we cut corners to richness? We also discuss money as escapism, happiness as an (impossible) destination and the differ…
00:45:18 |
Mon 01 Apr 2019
16. Dating in Denial: looking for love in all the wrong places
In this episode we discuss looking for love in all the wrong places, and the journey of forgiving ourselves for romantic decisions made out of fear and insecurity
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00:51:45 |
Mon 25 Mar 2019
15. Ageing Anxiety: On Comparison, Purpose And TeamNoSleep - ft Retha
GETTING OLDER! We discuss TeamNoSleep, the tension between purpose and paycheck, and finding independence while still relying on parents
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00:57:45 |
Sun 17 Mar 2019
14. The Irony Of Conflict Avoidance
DO YOU HANG THE TOILET PAPER UNDER OR OVER??!!! We explore the labour of conflict and the burden of conflict avoidance.Comment / DM us topic suggestions!
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00:56:59 |
Tue 12 Mar 2019
13. Parents and the Pursuit of Respect - ft. Lethabo
Can we have autonomy AND need our parents financial support? Do parents care about our happiness or our fulfilment of their expectations? WILL OUR PARENTS EVER PUT RESPECK ON OUR NAMES?
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00:50:21 |
Mon 04 Mar 2019
12. Sexcetera:(Life Before)Celibacy Ft. Mica
The road to celibacy is paved with bad sex and performativity. What kind of experiences contribute to the choice of celibacy, and what kind of sex would end it?‘Sexcetera’ is a series of sex-related …
00:48:50 |
Mon 25 Feb 2019
11. #FupaMustFall: on the collective fear of Fatness
Is anyone else fed up of being at war with their body? We discuss how people the world over spend their lives feeling fat, fearing fatness or trying to lose weight. We explore the links to childhood …
00:47:28 |
Mon 18 Feb 2019
10. Seasons of friendship: lean in or let go?
Do we treat friends how they want to be treated or how they treat themselves? Should we intervene when a friends lack of personal boundaries burden the friendship?Send in comments, dilemmas and topic…
00:44:17 |
Mon 11 Feb 2019
9. Gender Wars: Men Are from Mars, Period! - Ft. Boris
On dating: splitting bills, gender performativity and labour division. TRIGGER WARNING - gaslightingSend in comments, dilemmas and topic suggestions via DM or Curious Cat: curiouscat.me/podcastiswisi…
01:05:28 |
Mon 04 Feb 2019
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