After ten years of marriage, two miscarriages, five children, job-changes and all kinds of surprises we’ve learned so much about what a Real Marriage is meant to look like. Yet, so many couples who were once madly in love, now feel distant, overwhelmed, isolated, and hopeless in their marriage. We knew it was time to get in the trenches and start an honest conversation about the gift of a Real Marriage. We began the Real Marriage podcast to help couples find their passion for marriage again. Our goal is to inspire and encourage you through conversations about our own marriage as well as through interviews with real couples and experts dealing with issues we all face in our marriages.
Choices turn into habits. And habits determine your future.
What kind of habits do you have with your spouse? If you are anything like us you are busy and constantly on the move looking ahead to the…
Do you ever get frustrated or confused when it comes to your sex life with your spouse?
At times it is good and meeting expectations and then for some reason it changes. It starts to happen less. It…
What will this holiday season look like for you?
Will you enjoy it? Will it be stressful? It seems more and more that the normal experience in the holiday season is less and less of what we actually …
You were created for connection.
In fact, one of the reasons we get married is so that this need is met. The beauty of marriage is that we get to walk through every season of life with someone we love…
Every marriage has a foundation.
It's what you turn to when times are tough. It's the glue that holds your marriage together.
There are many different foundations. Some marriages are built on their s…
The old adage is, “Opposites attract.”
Statistics show that most people marry someone that is opposite to them even though most of our friends are more like us. Maybe we just like the challenge. May…
Money is the most common cause of divorce.
It's also the main reason married couples have arguments. So, how do we approach such a tension-filled topic within our own marriage?
The goal of this conv…
Every relationship involves conflict. There really is no way to get away from it.
In all reality the goal shouldn't be to completely avoid conflict. If done well, it can be a blessing to your marria…
Let’s talk about sex.
It's truly one of the greatest blessings when it comes to marriage. When God created the covenant of marriage He built in this incredible way a husband and wife could consistent…
What is the main goal for a parent?
If you are like us you feel the immense responsibility of being a parent. We want to help our kids grow mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. The sob…
Oh, the in-laws. Why is this so hard?
Of course, most relationships are challenging and take work but this one seems different.
In this episode, Griffin and Heather talk about the challenges we all …
Do you often feel too busy that you can't catch your breathe? Overwhelmed and stressed by the day-to-day that you and your spouse seem like you never really connect?
It seems like anytime you ask som…
How would you describe the culture of your marriage? What words come to mind?
If you are like us you want to create a marriage that lasts. Something that in 25 years you can look back on and be prou…
For our first episode we want you to know two things:
1) Why did we start The Real Marriage Podcast?
2) Who are Griffin and Heather Gilstrap?
You will hear about how Griffin got Heather to even marry h…