After ten years of marriage, two miscarriages, five children, job-changes and all kinds of surprises we’ve learned so much about what a Real Marriage is meant to look like. Yet, so many couples who were once madly in love, now feel distant, overwhelmed, isolated, and hopeless in their marriage. We knew it was time to get in the trenches and start an honest conversation about the gift of a Real Marriage. We began the Real Marriage podcast to help couples find their passion for marriage again. Our goal is to inspire and encourage you through conversations about our own marriage as well as through interviews with real couples and experts dealing with issues we all face in our marriages.
Waiting is hard.
Many of us have had to wait to get married, to have kids, to get that promotion or to walk into our dreams.
Waiting is a consistent part of our journey and it's something we want to th…
Most people don't like change.
The anxiety of it. The unknowns you have to face. Change is hard for individuals and it can create unexpected stress for your marriage. However, we all understand t…
How can you make sure you don't lose yourself in your marriage?
It's a good question with a complicated answer. God created marriage for two people to become one. It's a lifelong journey of merging…
“It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish.”
Maybe you have heard that quote before from a coach or a parent sometime in your life. It makes sense. It’s all about the finish. But let’s be honest,…
You can’t wait for this year to end. We get it!
It’s been a year unlike any other. We have all been challenged in ways we never expected and are hoping that a fresh new year will provide something b…
Nothing gets you into the holiday spirit more than some family drama.
Let's face it. We all deal with some kind of tension when it comes to our families. It could be a broken relationship, some chal…
Purpose – the reason for which something is done or created. The reason for which something exists.
Everyone wants to know their purpose. We want to understand why we exist and how we bring value to…
When things are going wrong we all cling to something.
How is this season going for you? The pandemic is continuing to linger, the election has been predictably stressful and life in general seems …
How intimate is your marriage?
Intimacy is key to every marriage. The basic definition of intimacy is "closeness." Many have broken this idea into four categories: spiritually, mentally, emotionally…
How does money impact your marriage?
Research has found that money issues are one of the top five reasons for divorce. And one study found that finances are one of the top two issues couples fight ab…
What comes to your mind when you hear the word forgiveness?
Most of us think of a time when someone hurt us. They said something or did something that left a mark. Maybe it was a family member, you…
Can two people really fall out of love?
It’s a really good question. No one gets married and doesn’t think they are in love. No one really believes five or ten years down the road it isn’t going to …
Is your bedroom sacred?
Before you google what that even means think for a moment about the culture of your home. We all create an environment in our home every day and we should be intentional about…
How do you deal with your stress?
It's a good question. Unfortunately, it's not one we ask enough of ourselves. Stress is simply unavoidable. The nature of our lives creates so many challenges and …
Would you like to have better sex?
Okay, don’t answer out loud. But, let’s be honest about a few things. Sex is important. And we want it to be really good because it helps our marriage.
So what d…
We all need a rhythm.
Think about it. We love music when it's in a rhythm. When the rhythm of a song is off we can't connect with it. Even if the words are powerful we need the rhythm to be spot on.
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Let's talk about divorce.
We've all heard the statistics that show somewhere near 50% of marriages end in divorce in America. While that number is staggering it also seems as if it's just become comm…
Most of us dream of having children.
Starting a family and raising up the next generation behind us gives us so much value and creates the legacy we leave behind. When you are first married its fun…
Each of you has a role to play.
Have you ever been on a team or in an organization where you didn't fully understand your role? The coach or boss had high expectations for you but you had no idea h…
How well do you handle your weaknesses?
Marriage has a crazy way of bringing out both the best and the worst of you. You really are on full display with the person you love the most and it can truly …