After ten years of marriage, two miscarriages, five children, job-changes and all kinds of surprises we’ve learned so much about what a Real Marriage is meant to look like. Yet, so many couples who were once madly in love, now feel distant, overwhelmed, isolated, and hopeless in their marriage. We knew it was time to get in the trenches and start an honest conversation about the gift of a Real Marriage. We began the Real Marriage podcast to help couples find their passion for marriage again. Our goal is to inspire and encourage you through conversations about our own marriage as well as through interviews with real couples and experts dealing with issues we all face in our marriages.
Every marriage has a story.
How you met. How you realized they were the one. What life has been like since getting married.
We realized that we hadn't fully shared our story and how God brought us to…
You may have been told before you had kids that once they come there is no going back. It changes everything. It's hard to know how true that is until it comes but if we aren't careful it can creat…
Hormones!
We all know that every month a woman is impacted physically, mentally and emotionally. The question is how does that disrupt the marriage?
It may or may not be an open and comfortable conver…
A new year always produces reflective thoughts.
Where are we in life? Where are we headed? Are things where we want them to be?
With how busy and overwhelming life is it can be tempting to just ask…
Gratitude is a choice.
Unfortunately it isn't always the natural one. As we've discussed before it can be easy to live in a place of discontent and wanting rather than a place of gratefulness.
Liste…
Making life-changing decisions always comes with trepidation.
This year Griffin and Heather made the big decision to homeschool all of their children. After praying and seeking the Lord's guidance …
It's hard not to be anxious or worried.
When you open social media, check the news or even just go about your day you run into information that is unsettling.
Politics, wars, daily news, hurricane dest…
The demands on your life are strong.
Do you often feel like you can't keep up? Like you are falling behind and missing things you should be keeping up with?
One of the most common questions Griffin and…
Words matter.
You can think back to different times in your life where words made a significant impact on your life. It could have been positive or negative but when people speak into your life it le…
Everyone parents differently.
There is no easy or perfect template to parenting that creates the best case scenario with our kids. One thing that is true, though, about parenting is that we are res…
Dreams can be difficult.
On the one hand we get excited about what could be and striving for more. On the other hand not all of our dreams should be the focus of our attention. How do you balance th…
While life seems to get busier by the day the distractions seem to come just as quickly.
Whether it is aimlessly scrolling through social media, watching the random tv shows or however you fill the ev…
You probably have many goals for the new year.
Getting healthy physically and maybe spiritually. Goals for your kids and relationships.
What if sex and intimacy was a part of your goals this year?…
Somehow the year is already over.
Another year down and 2024 is now to come. One of the practices we try to do often is reflecting on where we have been and what we have been through.
For us, 2023 h…
Do you ever feel like you and your spouse aren't on the same page? Do you feel like you are headed in two different directions?
Sometimes in our marriage one spouse can change as time goes on. Your…
Yes, it is a blessing!
Last episode we unpacked the burden of parenting. One thing we noticed was how easy it was to think about those ideas. The blessings were a little more in depth to uncover.
A…
Parenting is forever.
The word "burden" carries a negative connotation but the reality is that parenting is both beautiful and difficult. At the very least the incredible responsibility of parenthood…
How can bitterness negatively impact your marriage?
It's one of those things that starts small but if not dealt with it grows into something you can't control. Each of us have frustrations towards ou…
You've probably heard this before: marriage is 50/50.
But is it really? When you step back and think about the different areas of your marriage and the specific roles you play it isn't always equal. …
It's another season change.
Summer is usually a time where we try to fit in vacations, find some rest and get the kids into as many things as possible to keep them busy. But if we aren't careful we ca…