The Femme Cast
Welcome to The Femme Cast—the podcast for women who are truly ready to break free from toxic relationship cycles, choose themselves, and become a magnet for the love they deserve.
I’m Maria — Master Energy Healer, Radical Self-Love Leader, and Relationship Mentor.
I work with the women who are cycle breakers, grid shakers, and truth layers — the brave souls who came here to dismantle the inherited beliefs that told them they had to chase love, prove their worth, and beg to be chosen.
I help them break free from the karmic cycles and generational patterns that keep them stuck in toxic relationships and self-abandonment — so they can unapologetically choose themselves, reclaim their inherent worth, and become magnetic to soul-aligned love, expansive opportunities, and the liberated life they were born to lead.
Without ever shrinking, settling, or self-abandoning again.
I’ve been where you are, stuck in cycles of chasing love, begging to be chosen, and abandoning myself again and again in the name of love. But I turned my pain into purpose, and now I’m here to help you do the same.
Each week, I share personal stories, actionable insights, and a blend of spiritual and practical tools to help you heal from past wounds, reclaim your self-worth, and rewrite your love story. You’ll hear everything from vulnerable truths about my own journey to breaking toxic patterns to empowering lessons that will guide you toward creating the healthy, loving relationships you crave.
Join me as we say goodbye to self-abandonment, people-pleasing, and unhealthy dynamics, and hello to radical self-love, emotional freedom, and true empowerment.
It’s time to reclaim the version of you who never had to beg to be chosen.
You ready?
Let’s do this.
- Update frequency
- every 5 days
- Average duration
- 35 minutes
- Episodes
- 144
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
Stop Watering Yourself Down To Please Them: How Authenticity Unlocks Love, Success & Your Highest Potential
Have you ever felt like you’re living two (or three) different lives—shifting your personality, silencing your needs, or watering yourself down just to be accepted? The truth is, every time you hide …
Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns | How to Heal Childhood Wounds and Build Unshakable Self-Worth
Have you ever wondered why certain relationship triggers send you spiraling into anxiety, insecurity, or chasing validation from someone who can’t give you what you need? I know that feeling all too …
The Moment I Realized My Old Self Was Gone—and Why That Was a Gift
There comes a pivotal moment in healing after betrayal when you realize something life-changing: you can never go back to who you were before—and that’s exactly where your freedom begins.
After my rel…
The Cool Girl Trap: How Staying Connected After Betrayal Keeps You Stuck in Pain
Have you ever kept contact with someone who betrayed you—just to prove you’re “unbothered”? Maybe you’ve told yourself you’re strong, confident, and over it… while inside, you’re secretly crumbling.
I…
Betrayal Healing & Post-Breakup Glow Up | How I Healed After Betrayal and Turned Pain Into Power (Post-Scandoval Edition)
When infidelity shattered my world, I thought I had hit rock bottom. Actually, it was worse than that. It was like Rachel Green said on Friends, “but today, it’s like there’s rock bottom, 50 feet of …
The Hidden Gift in Betrayal: How I Let Go of the Shame of Staying and Falling for the Lies
What if the deepest betrayal you’ve ever experienced wasn’t a sign of your weakness, but the very initiation you needed into your most powerful transformation?
In this raw and deeply personal episode …
The Moment I Stopped Punishing Myself for His Cheating (and Took Back My Power)
What if the deepest betrayal wasn’t his cheating… but the way you abandoned yourself to keep him?
For years, I punished myself for his infidelity. I believed if I could just be prettier, sexier, happi…
Blindsided by Betrayal | How Being Cheated On Taught Me Self-Trust, Self-Worth, and Prepared Me For The Life I Never Saw Coming
Have you ever trusted someone so completely that the thought of him one day cheating never even crossed your mind—only to be blindsided by betrayal? Or realized, after the heartbreak, that the deepes…
Hurt People, Hurt People — And Why Compassion Doesn’t Mean Tolerating Bad Behavior
We’ve all heard the phrase “hurt people hurt people.” It’s meant to encourage understanding — and yes, there’s truth in it. But for empathic, codependent, or anxiously attached women, this well-meani…
The Truth About Black Cat Energy, Being Unbothered & Healing Your Anxious Attachment Style | The Real Path to Magnetic Love
You can fake “black cat” energy all you want… but your energy never lies.
If you’ve been trying to master that mysterious, unbothered, magnetic vibe to attract love, while secretly spiraling, overthin…
The Emotional Cost of Pretending You’re Okay — Why It’s the Worst Form of Self-Abandonment And Blocking Your Healing & Love
I spent years smiling through heartbreak, betrayal, and depression—convincing everyone (and eventually myself) that I was fine. Behind the façade of the “perfect couple” was a reality I refused to fa…
The Art of Being “Too Much” | Why Playing Small Isn’t Keeping You Safe—It’s Keeping You Stuck
Have you ever been told to tone it down? To stop being so extra? To take up less space so others could feel more comfortable?
If you’ve ever felt like your light made people squint—this episode is you…
The Hidden Cost of Being “Too Convenient” | What Self-Abandonment Is Really Costing You and Why You Feel Invisible in Your Relationships
Are you always adjusting, accommodating, and putting everyone else first… only to feel unseen, underappreciated, and emotionally drained?
If so, this episode of The Femme Cast is your wake-up call.
Bec…
Stop Molding Yourself to Fit the Room | ASMR Channeled Message & Feminine Healing Activation for the Woman Who’s Lost Herself In Her Relationships
What if the very thing draining your energy isn’t what you’re doing—but who you’re being in each space?
In this special ASMR channeled message and healing activation, I’m speaking directly to the woma…
Stop Shrinking to Fit Into Someone Else’s Story—Why Playing Small is the Most Dangerous Form of Self-Abandonment
Have you ever dimmed your light so someone else could feel more comfortable?
Maybe you’ve caught yourself downplaying a promotion… hiding a new relationship… or making yourself smaller just to fit int…
You Were Never Meant to Earn Love | Breaking the Cycle of Self-Abandonment in Relationships
What if the exhausting chase for love—the overthinking, overgiving, people-pleasing, and shrinking yourself just to be chosen—was never your fault… but the result of a belief system that was handed d…
The Betrayal Series Day 5: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal: The Truth About Flashbacks, Red Flags + Healing From Cheating
What if the girl labeled “jealous” wasn’t insecure… but traumatized?
What if the woman who seems "too sensitive" is actually just learning how to feel safe again in a world that shattered her?
This pow…
The Betrayal Series Day 4: The Woman You Were Before vs. The Woman You're Becoming After Being Cheated On
What if the version of you who was betrayed wasn’t broken — but being rebuilt?
In Day 4 of The Betrayal Series, we're confronting the haunting question so many women ask after betrayal…
“Who am I witho…
The Betrayal Series Day 3: Burning It All Down: Why Rebuilding the Same Life After Being Cheated On Is the Biggest Betrayal of All
You survived the betrayal… but now what?
If you’re still cooking the same meals, following the same routines, and trying to squeeze yourself into the exact life you had before it all fell apart — this…
The Betrayal Series Day 2: The Rage You’re Afraid to Feel Is the Rage That Brought Me Back To Life After Being Cheated On
They told you to “let it go.”
To stay soft. Stay positive. Stay silent.
But what if your rage isn’t a problem to fix — what if it’s a portal?
In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Femme Cast, we’ll cra…