The Dildorks

This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it.
 

Asking for Reassuranc…

Halloween is coming up, so we decided to talk about fear… of rejection!
 

Fear Fluctuations | Self-Soothing | Vulnerability Points | Pandemic Changes | Building Resiliency | What Are We Afraid Of? | Sc…

Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them.
 

Stigma | Consent | Emotional Complexity | Intimacy & Vulnerability | Fantasy vs. Desire | Empathy…

This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink.
 

Cannibalism Is Romantic | Obsession & Limerence | Butchering & Preparing | Silence of the Lambs | P…

Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications…

This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month.
 

Why Prepare? | Managing Anxiety | Neurodiv…

Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics.
 

Trauma & th…

Can you believe we’ve done 400 episodes?! This week, we look back at some of our old “hot takes” and see whether we still agree with them.
 

Vulnerability | Categories | Friendship | Things We Hate | N…

Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn.

Devil’s Cookie | Vore | Horror | Genital Tra…

Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in thes…

Ghosting may not be the most mature way to end things with someone, but it does happen – so this week we’re discussing the ethics of ghosting, and offering our best advice for people on both sides of…

Intelligence play, such as bimbofication, is an edgy-yet-intriguing kink for many people – so this week we’re discussing our own feelings about it, and about intelligence in general.

Identity & Value…

This week we’re diving deeper into our discussion of kissing, covering common issues people have with making out, like finding tongues gross or not knowing what to say between kisses.
 

Tongue | Closed…

Kissing is hot, and can tell you a lot about a person. This week we’re answering listener questions about making out.
 

Evolving Opinions | Kissing vs. Sex | Kissing vs. Making Out | Duration | Sexual …

We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes.

Intimacy & Vul…

Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M!
 

What is Emotional…

Why are first times so hot? This week we’re interrogating our feelings on first times, both real and roleplayed.
 

What is a “First Time”? | First Times Fetish | Surprised & Overwhelmed | Special & Not…

We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more!
 

Rimming | Sick People | Textured Condoms | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | One Pleasure Plus | Mastu…

This week Billy talks with his partner Dee Darkholme about some of the unusual kinks and dynamics that have emerged in their relationship.
 

Feet | Future Relationships | Intimacy & Demisexuality | Nee…

This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink!
 

Fisting | Circlusion | Citing Sources | CNC…