The Dildorks

Navigating polyamory can be difficult even in the best of times, so this week we’re answering listener questions about non-monogamy!
 

Polycule Crush | Converting a Newbie | Can I Kiss My Metamour? | W…

This week we’re answering questions from the /r/Sex forum on Reddit, on topics such as threesome etiquette, strap-on psychology, and the definition of infidelity!
 

WTF is Reddit? | Pegging | Sleeping …

Talking to your family about sex can be awkward, but we’re here to help! This week we answer your questions on navigating various sexuality-related situations in family dynamics.

Parents Don’t Like B…

Lots of folks are struggling with libido issues due to pandemic stress, so this week we thought we’d discuss ways to rekindle your libido when it’s waned.

Summoning Sex-Brain | When Does It Wane? | Re…

Whether your ex is now your best friend or your sworn enemy, it’s evident that relations with exes can be tricky… This week we advised listeners on their various ex dilemmas!

Party Full of Exes | Def…

Hands and fingers and fists, oh my…! This week we’re talking about hand sex: how to do it, why some people are hesitant to do it, and what makes it feel so damn good.

Fisting on Camera | What’s Fun A…

We talk about kink a lot, but what about fetishes? This week, we’re discussing what it means to have a fetish, what to do if you’re sexually incompatible with a partner, and why hooking up with fetis…

This week, we discuss our ever-evolving feelings about casual sex, hookups, and one-night stands!

Anxiety & Awkwardness | The Good & The Bad | Scarcity vs. Abundance | Demisexuality & Hookups | Roman…

This week we’re answering more listener questions about public sex, including sex in locations like fitting rooms, graveyards, and a moving car!
 

Beautiful Days | Not Into It | Visible Bruises | Fitti…

With the weather warming up and vaccines being administered, we figured now would be a good time to talk about public sex, something we’ll be able to do again pretty soon!
 

Getting Caught | Car Sex | …

We’re revisiting the topic of masochism this week to discuss our current, ever-evolving relationships to pain, and our fave mental techniques for getting through intense masochistic scenes!
 

Hurts So …

Happy 4/20, y’all! One again this year, as is tradition, we’re getting high and asking each other silly sex questions. Enjoy!
 

Two Strains | Last Prisoner Project | Outsourcing to Our Partners | Flesh…

This week we’re continuing our discussion of limits in kink! Can limits be a fetish? Can limits be toxic? Can limits be gently and safely pushed?
 

That’s Not My Name | Safely Pushing Limits | Can Limi…

Your limits are valid! This week we’re talking about hard and soft limits in the realms of sex and kink: what they are, why they’re important, and how to set them clearly and kindly.

“No Limits” | Bo…

What will dating be like after COVID? This week, we’re discussing how (and whether) to re-enter the dating scene after the pandemic.
 

Tinder Plus | Single-Serving Friends | Twitter as Hallway | In Per…

This week we’re doing a deep dive on medical play! We talk about why we’re into it, what it can look like, and the various tropes and pitfalls associated with it.
 

Vaccinations | Definition | Mad Scie…

This week Kate is chatting with the Bearded Scotsman, a creator of erotic audio and ASMR files. We discussed consent, chivalry, “Tumblr doms,” and much more!

Getting Into Erotic Audio | Reactions | I…

Relationships between metamours can be tricky, so this week we’re discussing the do’s and don’ts of connecting with your partner’s partner!
 

Definition | Expectations vs. Reality | Don’t Ask, Don’t Te…

This week we’re answering more questions about the duration of sex: how to deal when it goes on too long, how to ask for a round two, and more!
 

Sad Cunnilingus | Meditative Headspace | Round Two | He…

A lot of people worry that the sex they have is “too short” or “too long,” so this week we’re answering some listener questions about the duration of sex!
 

Misconceptions | PIV vs. Sex | Making Accomm…