The Dildorks

Now more than ever, sexting is a key way many people are expressing their sexualities. This week, we share our current thoughts on, and approaches to, sexting!
 

Skeleton Game | Assessing Sext Compatib…

If you know what figging is, then you know that this episode where we got figged during the recording is gonna be a wild one. If you don’t know what figging is… prepare to find out!
 

Introductions | H…

This week, we’re answering more listener questions about consensual non-consent!
 

More Negotiation Questions | Evaluating Limits | More Real | HUSTLER Hollywood | Rose Gold Butt Plug | Strap U Siren H…

Consensual non-consent is a controversial kink, so this week we’re talking about how to do it in the safest, hottest, and kindest ways possible.
 

Definitions | Safewords | Saying No | Medical Play | I…

This week we’re discussing sleepy sex: how to do it safely and consensually, why it’s kinky as heck, and what additions can make it even kinkier.

Definition | Consent | What’s Hot About It? | Morning…

Many people wish they were better at dirty talk, so this week we’re discussing some of our favorite dirty-talk tips and tricks!
 

Revisiting | Separate vs. Integrated | Top vs. Bottom | Why Do We Like …

Ever been turned on by receiving or giving praise? This week we’re discussing the ins and outs of praise kink!
 

Mean 4 Pay | What is Praise Kink? | Kink vs. Preference | The Power of Kink | Feedback f…

Fisting is an oft-misunderstood sex act, so this week we’re discussing the mechanics and philosophy of this much-revered form of hand sex.
 

Misconceptions | Muscle Tone | Brain & Pain | Fisting Techni…

This week we’re answering sex advice requests from Reddit about masturbation, threesomes, vaginas, hookup etiquette, and more!
 

Jerking Off After Sex | Didn’t Come | Partner Doesn’t Masturbate | Massa…

Kate’s debut book 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do is launching in one week, so this week Bex interviews her about the writing process, the philosophy of the book, and how she hopes readers will use …

This week we’re talking with Mx. Nillin, a sex blogger, educator, and erotica author, about their upcoming anthology of trans and non-binary erotica, Heckin’ Lewd!

Fanfiction | Heckin’ Lewd | Nillin’…

Bex just got back from Dark Odyssey kink camp, so in this episode he regales us with kinky stories and offers advice for folks considering going in future!
 

Con Drop | What is Kink Camp? | Shyness & A…

Many people worry about their sexual hygiene and grooming, so this week we’re answering listener questions on these sensitive topics!
 

Good vs. Bad Smells | Armpit Worship | Washing a Vagina | Don’t L…

Lots of people have learned new things about their gender and identity during the pandemic, so this week we’re discussing how to re-enter the dating scene as a newly-out trans person.

Pandemic Self-R…

With the recent news about OnlyFans fresh in our minds, this week we’re discussing sex work stigma, financial issues in the sex industry, and how to be a good customer to online sex workers.
 

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This week we’re joined by sex blogger and tarot reader Wendy Phillips of The Wench Works. We chat about blogging, self-esteem, and the intersections of kink and spirituality – and Wendy gives us each…

Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex.
 

Getting It | Different Approach to Casual Sex | …

We’re celebrating our 250th episode by doing something a little different this week: our partners, Ashe and Matt, put us in the hotseat to interview us about our show’s evolution, what we’ve learned …

Many people get nervous about sexually rejecting partners, or get sad when someone sexually rejects them. This week we’re giving advice on common sexual rejection scenarios!

Sex & Self-Identity | Per…

Being rejected is hard, and rejecting someone might be even harder. This week we’re delving into the intricacies of romantic rejection!
 

Soft No’s vs. Hard No’s | Rejecting a Date Nicely | Getting Ove…