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The Break Up Break Down

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Update frequency
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Average duration
29 minutes
Episodes
317
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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When her celeb crush DM'd her back.... - S5E11

When her celeb crush DM'd her back.... - S5E11

If you've ever wanted to slide into the DMs of the hot guy in THAT band...this episode is for you. Turns out hooking up with the mysterious musician isn't all it's cracked up to be, but there's a lot…

00:25:03  |   Tue 19 Mar 2024
Break Down Bonus: Reacting to S5E10 w/ ExCoworker Justin

Break Down Bonus: Reacting to S5E10 w/ ExCoworker Justin

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00:19:03  |   Thu 14 Mar 2024
When she said her husband slept with her daughter.... - S5E10

When she said her husband slept with her daughter.... - S5E10

You know, it's one thing to cheat. It's a whole other thing to cheat with your CHILD. This week's guest says she is getting ready to serve her husband divorce papers....and DNA test results.

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00:25:34  |   Tue 12 Mar 2024
Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after betrayal ft. CoWorker Amber + Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after betrayal ft. CoWorker Amber + Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Are you having a hard time trusting your new partner after your last relationship? Your ex may have damaged your ability to trust again, but you don't have to live in fear forever. Dr. Margaret Ruthe…

00:40:41  |   Thu 07 Mar 2024
When the 'other woman' came clean in an email.... - S5E9

When the 'other woman' came clean in an email.... - S5E9

You barely check your inbox, but the one time you check it, your BF's other girlfriend comes clean in an email! Suddenly everything you thought you knew about the last year of your relationship feels…

00:32:24  |   Tue 05 Mar 2024
Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW (Replay)

Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW (Replay)

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Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW Vernique Esther to talk about how to recogniz…

00:26:23  |   Thu 29 Feb 2024
When she had an affair with their boss.... - S3Replay

When she had an affair with their boss.... - S3Replay

This week we're bringing awareness to My Sister's House in Charleston, SC: https://www.mysistershouse.org/give

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This episode originally aired on January 31, 2023

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00:41:18  |   Tue 27 Feb 2024
Break Down Bonus: Getting over the person you thought you'd marry w/ ExCoworker Justin

Break Down Bonus: Getting over the person you thought you'd marry w/ ExCoworker Justin

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00:20:36  |   Thu 22 Feb 2024
When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5E8

When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5E8

On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly …

00:49:39  |   Tue 20 Feb 2024
Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

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National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/

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What proof do you need for a protective order?:https://www.findlaw.…

00:22:22  |   Thu 15 Feb 2024
When a secret IG account exposed his past.... - S5E7

When a secret IG account exposed his past.... - S5E7

Imagine losing your virginity to your new boo and finding out he has an arrest record the next day. Way to burst the post-coital bliss. Do you look past your new man's history or stick by him and hop…

00:28:48  |   Tue 13 Feb 2024
Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after Intimate Partner Violence w/ Katherine Ripley & Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after Intimate Partner Violence w/ Katherine Ripley & Dr. Margaret Rutherford

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Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist

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Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/

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Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Podcast: https://drmar…

00:42:23  |   Thu 08 Feb 2024
When she said he faked his cancer diagnosis.... - S5E6

When she said he faked his cancer diagnosis.... - S5E6

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She thought she had finally left her ex for good...when he called her up and told her about a devastating diagnosis. She took him in until she started suspecting that he…

00:52:28  |   Tue 06 Feb 2024
Break Down Bonus Episode: Is love enough to push past cultural differences? w/ CoWorker Jackson

Break Down Bonus Episode: Is love enough to push past cultural differences? w/ CoWorker Jackson

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00:23:46  |   Thu 01 Feb 2024
When he was falsely accused of a crime.... - S5E5

When he was falsely accused of a crime.... - S5E5

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00:40:56  |   Tue 30 Jan 2024
Break Down Bonus: The connection between narcissism and serial cheating

Break Down Bonus: The connection between narcissism and serial cheating

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00:17:30  |   Thu 25 Jan 2024
When the mistresses exposed the affairs in the comments section.... - S5E4

When the mistresses exposed the affairs in the comments section.... - S5E4

[SCROLL FOR CW] She says her husband had an affair with multiple women while she was pregnant...and the mistresses came forward In the comments section of one of her TikTok videos.

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00:35:48  |   Tue 23 Jan 2024
Break Down Bonus: The signs you're getting love bombed w/ ExCoworker Justin

Break Down Bonus: The signs you're getting love bombed w/ ExCoworker Justin

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5 Signs you're getting love bombed w/ Kati Morton: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s

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How to spot a love bomber w/ …

00:14:19  |   Thu 18 Jan 2024
When he wrote their break up song while they were still together.... - S5E3

When he wrote their break up song while they were still together.... - S5E3

Her indie musician bf wrote and performed a song about them breaking up for her...while they were still together! Would you stay with someone who was already planning the end of the relationship?!

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00:48:27  |   Tue 16 Jan 2024
Break Down Bonus: Getting strung along in your relationship? You're not alone. w/ Lexi

Break Down Bonus: Getting strung along in your relationship? You're not alone. w/ Lexi

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00:23:18  |   Thu 11 Jan 2024
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