Seeing Other People
Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.
- Update frequency
- every 3 days
- Average duration
- 54 minutes
- Episodes
- 480
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
Relationship Milestones & How Our Love Story Almost Didn’t Happen
In this episode of Cohosts for Life, we’re taking you behind the scenes of our relationship—not just the milestones you see on social media, but the ones that shaped us the most. We walk through the …
00:50:44 |
Mon 28 Jul 2025
Trying to Get Pregnant While Trying Not to Fall Apart
When this week’s guest decided to freeze her eggs at 30, she thought she was biding her and her husband time. Instead, she was hit with the news that she had a diminished ovarian reserve and that get…
01:01:26 |
Thu 24 Jul 2025
"You’re a Nice Guy, But…" Dating Horror Stories
Comedian Paul Schoenberg joins us today to get into why “nice guys” are often misunderstood, how texting culture has made rejection feel impersonal and confusing, and why so many people can’t recogn…
00:52:28 |
Tue 22 Jul 2025
Why We Track Every Date — and You Might Want To
This week on Cohosts for Life, we’re diving deep into a tradition that’s become core to our relationship: the date list. We share how it started, why it’s surprisingly meaningful, and how it's helped…
00:49:32 |
Mon 21 Jul 2025
The Part of Your Life You’re Afraid to Talk About
We’ve all got something we’re scared to talk about. Maybe you still live at home, haven’t had sex yet, just lost your job, or are quietly working through something painful. So many of us carry shame …
00:51:51 |
Thu 17 Jul 2025
How to Be More Attractive Without Playing Games
Psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Harry Cohen joins us to explain the power of being a “positive energizer,” what it really means to bring good energy into a room, and why it’s often …
00:50:06 |
Tue 15 Jul 2025
Bare Minimum or Princess Treatment?
Ilana’s back from a fun bachelorette weekend in Maine and shares her travel nightmares, while Jake recaps his boys weekend with Barkley. Ilana’s riding high from her best long run yet, while Jake’s s…
00:52:25 |
Mon 14 Jul 2025
"From Roommates to Soulmates"
When Waverly Colville signed a lease with a stranger named John Guilyard in the summer of 2020, she never imagined she was also meeting her future partner. Two years of friendship, late-night talks, …
01:01:08 |
Thu 10 Jul 2025
Why You’re Still Stalking Your Ex and What Actually Helps You Heal
Breakups today aren’t just about letting go of a person — they’re about navigating texts, timelines, algorithmic reminders, and the pressure to "heal fast." Therapist and Lonely Hearts Club founder L…
00:53:08 |
Tue 08 Jul 2025
Welcome to Cohosts for Life
Welcome to the very first official episode of Cohosts for Life! Ilana kick things off by explaining why this series exists, what inspired it, and what you can expect moving forward. Then we attempt t…
00:50:22 |
Mon 07 Jul 2025
Lessons From the Ones Who Weren’t My Person
In this Unfiltered, a listener shares the hard truths she’s learned through dating, heartbreak, and situationships. From realizing you can’t force someone to like you, to learning that overcompromisi…
01:06:00 |
Thu 03 Jul 2025
Inside the Modern Male Mind on Dating
Ryan Kenny, comedian and dater, joins me for a hilarious, honest convo on ghosting, dating app fatigue, and the awkwardness of putting yourself out there. We chat about exclusivity talks, bad sex wit…
00:57:14 |
Tue 01 Jul 2025
"How My Worst Relationship Led to Real Growth"
In this Unfiltered, a 39-year-old New Yorker opens up about dating a guy who was terrible for her, but ultimately changed her life for the better. Before, she was stuck in the “cool girl” role, hidin…
00:53:31 |
Thu 26 Jun 2025
"Hitting The Reset Button on Life"
Dana, a 31-year-old nurse, shares how her seemingly “on track” life slowly unraveled in a toxic marriage that took a toll on her mental and physical health, even causing heart palpitations. After fac…
00:48:54 |
Tue 24 Jun 2025
Commitment Issues, Pregnant Bridesmaids, and Paying for Apps
n this solo episode, I’m catching you up on life lately—books I'm reading, finishing my half marathon, how I feel about content creation right now, and whether I ever miss being single. I’m also answ…
00:52:15 |
Thu 19 Jun 2025
Meet-Cute Masterclass: Everything You Need to Meet Someone Offline
Real world romance isn’t dead. It’s just been buried under algorithms and ghosting. That’s exactly why I partnered with Louis Jadot to host a Meet-Cute Master Class in NYC. In this episode, I’m shar…
00:47:14 |
Tue 17 Jun 2025
The Truth About Healing No One Talks About
I’m joined by Han Huante, host of How I See It, for a vulnerable conversation about mental health, dating patterns, and the real (often messy) work of healing. We talk about how moving out of her com…
00:56:45 |
Thu 12 Jun 2025
"All Of Our Friends Are Progressing in Life"
I sit down with Danielle Dietzek and Julie Griggs, the cofounders of Fourplay Social (@fourplaysocial), for a real, unfiltered girl chat. We’re diving deep into what it feels like when your friends a…
01:04:23 |
Tue 10 Jun 2025
Anniversary Special: What Changes (and What Really Doesn’t)
We recorded this episode on our actual one-year anniversary, from Turks and Caicos! We set out to recap the year, and ended up talking about how Ilana ruined the surprise trip, little moments that br…
00:52:15 |
Thu 05 Jun 2025
Dating Anxiety: How to Stop Overthinking and Self-Sabotaging
I’m joined by therapist Annie Josephson, PsyD, MSEd, Founder of Uptown Psychology to talk about why dating make us so anxious, even when it’s going well. We discuss why it shows up, how to manage it,…
00:52:45 |
Tue 03 Jun 2025
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