Seeing Other People
Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.
- Update frequency
- every 3 days
- Average duration
- 54 minutes
- Episodes
- 480
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
"He Gave Me an STI"
On this Unfiltered episode we’re joined by a 26 year old female who was diagnosed with herpes. She shares what it was like receiving her diagnosis, communicating it to the person who transmitted it t…
01:00:38 |
Thu 22 Jul 2021
Confessions of an Ex Fckboy
Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself in a fuckboy bro-y culture (including bei…
01:15:46 |
Tue 20 Jul 2021
"Guys Get Anxiety, Too"
On this Unfiltered episode, we’re joined by a 26-year-old straight male in the New York City area to hear about his recent relationship that led him to experience anxiety the first time in his life. …
00:50:03 |
Thu 15 Jul 2021
What Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma
Kim Murstein and Grandma Gail from the Excuse My Grandma podcast join the show this week to discuss the generational differences of what dating is like now vs when Grandma Gail was searching for love…
01:05:06 |
Tue 13 Jul 2021
Unfiltered: Finding Love After Loss
On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by Caroline, a 27 year old living in New York City who is navigating dating after losing her older brother. She shares what it’s like to communicate her loss…
00:57:11 |
Thu 08 Jul 2021
Double Dating with Fourplay Social
Ilana sits down with Julie and Danielle, the founders of Fourplay Social, a double dating app where friends team up and match with other pairs. We hear about why the duo decided to create a new datin…
01:03:32 |
Tue 06 Jul 2021
Unfiltered: 27 Years Single
Twenty-seven year old NYC resident, listener and friend Helena joins the Unfiltered family today to discuss the challenges of dating when you’ve never been in a relationship before. She opens up abou…
00:49:28 |
Thu 01 Jul 2021
The Age of Loneliness with Smiley Poswolsky
Smiley Poswolsky, author of Friendship in the Age of Loneliness, joins Ilana on Seeing Other People to discuss human connection in today’s society and culture. Smiley shares his research and knowledg…
01:06:11 |
Tue 29 Jun 2021
Unfiltered: I Left the Church to Save Myself
On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by a 24-year-old female who has been grappling with religious sexual shame while trying to date. From a young age, she was taught that dating and sexual expe…
01:00:53 |
Thu 24 Jun 2021
50 Dates in 50 States with Matthew Wurnig
Ilana sits down with Matthew Wurnig, the creator and dater behind 50 Dates in 50 States. Matthew shares how he got the idea to do a date in every state during the pandemic, first virtually, and then …
00:58:32 |
Tue 22 Jun 2021
Unfiltered: Feeling Broken After a Breakup
Real people. Real stories. Real life. Anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew whe…
01:22:51 |
Tue 15 Jun 2021
Learning to Love Your Single Self with Sarah Sasson
On this episode of Seeing Other people, Ilana is joined by Sarah Sasson, her best friend and the co-host of the It’s Fine, I’m Fine podcast. Ilana and Sarah discuss overcoming the loneliness that com…
01:14:46 |
Tue 08 Jun 2021
We're Breaking Up
On this special episode of Seeing Other People, we’re parting ways with one of our beloved hosts. We’re bad at goodbyes, but we did our best. Plus, it’s not goodbye, it’s see you later (worldwide…on …
00:14:09 |
Thu 03 Jun 2021
When Should You Start Being Vulnerable?
We’re diving into the ins and outs of being vulnerable in your dating life. When do you start opening up and being vulnerable? How can you be vulnerable without putting yourself at risk of oversharin…
00:42:17 |
Tue 01 Jun 2021
Dating Coworkers, Trying Again With Exes, Physical Attraction & More. Full Q&A Episode!
We’re back with another full Q&A episode! How can you close the door on someone once and for all? How many dates in should you delete your dating apps? How do you tell your ex you want to give it ano…
00:42:23 |
Tue 25 May 2021
Should a First Date be Drinks or Dinner? with Jeremy Jacobowitz
Jeremy Jacobowitz aka Brunch Boys chats with Jonah and Ilana about all things going out on dates. Who should pay? Should it be drinks or dinner? What food is okay to order on a first date? How to mai…
00:57:28 |
Tue 18 May 2021
Me in Search of You with Jenna Langbaum
Jenna Langbaum, author of “Me in Search of You,” joins us on this episode of Seeing Other People. Jenna’s writing beautifully dissects the nuances of modern dating, ghosting, and dating apps and help…
00:52:12 |
Tue 11 May 2021
It's Complicated: Situationships with Finding Mr. Height
Situationships? More like situationshits. We’re diving into the ins and outs of situationships with Ali and Roark of Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast. What exactly is a situationship and how do you kn…
01:06:18 |
Tue 04 May 2021
What Not to Talk About on a First Date with Alexis AKA NYC Date Nite
We go on a date with Alexis Wolfe AKA @nycdatenite to talk all about post-pandemic dating. From getting back out there and going on that first in-person date in over a year, to determining what the b…
00:51:44 |
Wed 28 Apr 2021
So You Think You Can Date? with Sandro D'Abruzzo
We chat with Sandro D’Abruzzo, author of “So You Think You Can Date?” We hear what led Sandro to write about how to find success in dating and his experiences dating around the world. We discuss the …
00:32:35 |
Thu 22 Apr 2021
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