Seeing Other People
Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.
- Update frequency
- every 3 days
- Average duration
- 54 minutes
- Episodes
- 481
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
Dating Anxiety: How to Stop Overthinking and Self-Sabotaging
I’m joined by therapist Annie Josephson, PsyD, MSEd, Founder of Uptown Psychology to talk about why dating make us so anxious, even when it’s going well. We discuss why it shows up, how to manage it,…
00:52:45 |
Tue 03 Jun 2025
"My Rock Bottom Moment Saved Me"
TW: This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around physical and emotional abuse. I’m joined by Ryan Spencer, who I met on the Tamron Hall Show, for a powerful conversation about hea…
01:07:29 |
Thu 29 May 2025
You Don’t Need Someone to Complete You
This week, I’m joined by Syd Miller , founder of the fitness brand Housework. Syd shares how a breakup at 30, right when all her friends were getting engaged, became the catalyst for the best years o…
00:45:30 |
Tue 27 May 2025
Healing Doesn't Happen Overnight
TW: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault. This week, I’m joined by Meg Reynolds (@meg_reynoldss), host of Not the Girl Next Door (@notthegirlnextdoorpodcast), for a real conversation ab…
00:57:24 |
Thu 22 May 2025
When Everyone's Getting Married (Except You) & Why That's Okay
Jen Glantz (@jenglantz) has stood beside hundreds of brides—literally. As the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and author of three books, she’s seen everything from dream weddings to full-on meltdowns.…
00:49:17 |
Tue 20 May 2025
Understanding Yourself in Dating & Relationships with Erin Claire Jones
Ilana is joined by Human Design expert and author Erin Claire Jones (@erinclairejones) to break down how understanding your unique design can shift the way you date, connect, and make decisions in lo…
00:55:45 |
Thu 15 May 2025
Jared Freid: You Can't Tell People How To Feel
In this episode, Jake plays cohost as we’re joined by comedian and podcast host Jared Freid—someone who’s played an unexpectedly big role in our relationship. From being mentioned on our very first d…
01:05:26 |
Tue 13 May 2025
Conversations to Have Before Marriage & Major Life Changes
I’m joined by Melissa Fitch and Michelle Unger, the BFF duo behind The M Take pod. They’re both married to their long-time loves (a college boyfriend and a high school sweetheart!) and navigating mot…
01:01:58 |
Thu 08 May 2025
What Women Get Wrong About Men & How To Have Hard Conversations
I’m joined by Eli Weinstein, LCSW, therapist and host of The Dude Therapist Podcast, for real talk about what women often misunderstand about men, the pressure to be emotionally “on the same level” …
00:48:02 |
Tue 06 May 2025
Red Flags That Are Actually Green
In this solo episode, I’m sharing some unexpected life updates—including a few medical things I’ve been navigating lately—and TV shows I recently found out not everyone has seen (which feels criminal…
00:53:07 |
Thu 01 May 2025
Flirting 101: Everything You Need to Know About Making a Move IRL
I’m joined by Benjamin Camras, Flirt Coach and host of Flirtations!, to talk all things flirting—how to build real chemistry, flirt without the ick, and actually know when someone’s into you. We ans…
00:50:15 |
Tue 29 Apr 2025
My BFF’s Love Story & What She Really Thought of My Dating Life
I’m joined by my childhood best friend Jessie — the one who’s seen me through every confusing situationship, career pivot, and major life change. We’re talking about how she went from friends to marr…
00:59:07 |
Thu 24 Apr 2025
Modern Love Is Exhausting—Here's Why with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
Author and Relationship Expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins me to unpack the invisible load we carry in relationships—why emotional and mental labor often falls on one partner, and how to create more bala…
00:52:42 |
Tue 22 Apr 2025
Introducing: Cohosts for Life with Ilana & Jake
Cohosts for Life is our new Patreon weekly series where we (Ilana & Jake) sit down every Sunday—just the two of us—to reflect, laugh, vent, and share the real behind-the-scenes of our lives together.…
00:39:12 |
Mon 21 Apr 2025
Alanna Vizzoni: "I'm Not Just a Cancer Survivor"
At 27, Alanna Vizzoni was diagnosed with breast cancer—and everything changed overnight. In this raw and honest conversation, she opens up about what it was like to go from “normal” to navigating che…
00:54:37 |
Thu 17 Apr 2025
You're Never Too Much For The Right Person with Emma Paige
In this episode, I sit down with Emma Paige, host of 'too much.', to explore the twists, turns, and personal growth that led her to the love of her life. Emma opens up about her journey from LA to Ne…
00:57:55 |
Tue 15 Apr 2025
From Anxious to Secure: Hobbies, Healing & Hot Takes on Dating
In this solo catch-up, I’m giving you a life and mindset update from changing my Instagram handles to finally breaking through a running plateau that had me feeling stuck for months For the heart of …
00:49:47 |
Thu 10 Apr 2025
Feeling Behind? You're Exactly Where You Need to Be
Carleigh Ferrante from the Mostly Dating Podcast is back again to discuss the joys and challenges of dating, relationships, and growing into yourself. We talk about how creative date ideas can deepen…
00:57:31 |
Tue 08 Apr 2025
This Mindset Shift Will Change Your (Dating) Life
In this episode, I sit down with executive coach and author Keren Eldad to explore how the same perfectionism and overachievement that drive success can also sabotage our relationships. We discuss th…
00:50:22 |
Tue 01 Apr 2025
"She Was Cheating On Me With Her Step Brother"
In today's episode, our anonymous guest from Louisiana shares the intense and tumultuous story of his longest relationship, which lasted four years. What begins as a typical college romance soon take…
01:07:09 |
Thu 27 Mar 2025
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