All Out in the Open
All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces us to modern day pioneers. Michael Soto and Liz Macdonald highlight the amazing work of those who are building and strengthening their communities. Learn more at www.alloutintheopen.org.
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 46 minutes
- Episodes
- 218
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
What is Consent, and How can it Help Protect Against S.A.?
In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Abigail Morrison to discuss what consent looks like and some helpful tips that can help to keep you safe.
What If a Loved One Insists I Leave the Church?
Ben and Charlie are joined by Troy Williams of Equality Utah to discuss how to handle relationship dynamics when a love one decides to leave the church.
How Come All the Allies are Middle Aged Moms?
In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Cynthia Winward to talk about middle aged moms and why they make such great LGTBQ allies.
Bonus: Hot Takes on Thanksgiving
In this bonus episode Ben, Charlie, and Sound Guy Mike talk about their hot takes on Thanksgiving.
What are you Scared to Ask a Transgender Person?
In this Episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Michael Soto to talk about some of the questions often asked about what it's like to be transgender.
Content Advisory: This episode contains medical terms…
What If Staying Single Doesn't Feel Right Anymore?
In this episode, Ben and Charlie sit down to discuss life changes for Ben.
How Do I Foster a More Secure Relationship With God?
Ben and Charlie are joined by Tami Combs to discuss attachment theory, and how that can apply to your relationship with God.
What If I Feel Like a Failure?
In this episode Charlie and Ben are joined by Joey Shephard (they/them) to discuss where feelings of failure can come from and how to deal with them.
How Do I Explain the Church's Stance on Homosexuality?
In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Kimberly Teitter to discuss how they explain the church's stance on homosexuality with others.
Do You Ever Feel Conflicted Paying Tithing?
In this episode, Charlie and Ben discuss how paying tithing can be a conflicting experience for LGBTQ individuals.
What do I do if listening to Conference hurts?
In this episode Charlie and Ben discuss their thoughts and feelings on general conference.
Season 6 Opener - Live Event
Join us as we kick of Season 6 - with a live event from the gather conference! As always Ben and Charlie kick off the next season with a Q&A session.
Bonus: Season 6 Is Coming!
Come join us for the live Sseason 6 Premier on September 15th! It will be at the Utah Valley Convention Center at 7PM.
Classic Episode: Do you think the Church will change?
Ben and Charlie discuss whether or not they expect changes in Church doctrine and policy regarding same-sex couples.
Classic Episode: What are the Pros and Cons of Coming Out?
Ben and Charlie are joined by Stacey Harkey for a discussion of the pros and cons of coming out.
Classic Episode: What are the Stages of Coming Out?
Ben teaches Cass's 6 Stages of Coming Out. Scott Christofferson joins Ben and Charlie to talk about their experiences in each stage, as well as give advice for how friends and family can support LGBT…
Classic Episode: Am I Being Deceived?
This is one you don't want to miss! Ben and Charlie are joined by David Butler for a conversation on how to recognize which thoughts come from the Spirit.
Classic Episode: Why do You Stay in the Church?
Charlie and Ben talk about why they decide to move forward in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Classic Episode: Is There a Place for Me at Church?
Ben, Charlie, and McKay Bryson have a raw conversation about what it's like to be a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Classic Episode: How Can We Prevent LGBTQ Suicide?
Suicidal ideation is very common and can surface in unexpected ways. This week we are joined by Taryn Hiatt, the Area Director for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. We talk about myths …