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All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces us to modern day pioneers. Michael Soto and Liz Macdonald highlight the amazing work of those who are building and strengthening their communities. Learn more at www.alloutintheopen.org.

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
46 minutes
Episodes
218
Years Active
2020 - 2025
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What is the gay agenda?

What is the gay agenda?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Sarah Kellar Langford to talk about the phrase "gay agenda" and what they hope to accomplish through visible LGBTQ+ advocacy .

00:33:53  |   Tue 15 Dec 2020
Is there a place for me in the Church?

Is there a place for me in the Church?

Ben, Charlie, and McKay Bryson have a raw conversation about what it's like to be a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

00:38:39  |   Tue 08 Dec 2020
How do I talk to youth about LGBTQ+?

How do I talk to youth about LGBTQ+?

Youth leaders often ask us how they should approach LGBTQ+ topics in a religious setting. Today we sat down with Dave Smurthwaite to talk about his experience as a youth leader and how he ended up do…

00:35:40  |   Tue 01 Dec 2020
How can my child be just like you?

How can my child be just like you?

We (Charlie and Ben) both get a lot of messages from parents asking how they can help their kids stay In the Church and be just like us. This week we sat down with Jessyca Fulmer, who became one of t…

00:41:56  |   Tue 24 Nov 2020
How do I fit in the Plan of Salvation?

How do I fit in the Plan of Salvation?

Ben and Charlie are joined by LDS scholar and theologian Terryl Givens to talk about how LGBTQ+ individuals fit into the Plan of Salvation.

00:41:11  |   Tue 17 Nov 2020
What are the stages of coming out?

What are the stages of coming out?

Ben teaches Cass's 6 Stages of Coming Out. Scott Christofferson joins Ben and Charlie to talk about their experiences in each stage, as well as give advice for how friends and family can support LGBT…

00:41:16  |   Tue 10 Nov 2020
How can I be an LGBTQ+ ally while supporting Church teachings?

How can I be an LGBTQ+ ally while supporting Church teachings?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Ally Isom to talk about how active members of the Church can be allies to their LGBTQ+ loved ones while supporting current Church teachings and policies.

00:42:25  |   Tue 03 Nov 2020
How do I teach my kids about LGBTQ+?

How do I teach my kids about LGBTQ+?

Charlie and Ben are joined by Dr. Lisa Hansen to discuss how parents can safely and effectively teach their children about LGBTQ+ topics.

00:31:56  |   Tue 27 Oct 2020
What should my pronouns be?

What should my pronouns be?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Marina to talk about pronouns. Marina shares her journey coming out as transgender and how using she/her/hers pronouns has helped her feel more like herself. 

00:25:35  |   Tue 20 Oct 2020
Where are all the lesbians?

Where are all the lesbians?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Sammi Taylor to talk about how coming out as lesbian differs from coming out as a gay man, and why LGBTQ+ women seem underrepresented compared to LGBTQ+ men.

00:29:35  |   Tue 13 Oct 2020
What does it mean to be queer?

What does it mean to be queer?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Tyler LeFevor to talk about the "Q" in LGBTQ+. They discuss origins of the label, common assumptions about those who identify as queer, and how they view "queer" in rela…

00:28:17  |   Tue 06 Oct 2020
What if I have a crush on my roommate?

What if I have a crush on my roommate?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Zach Ibarra to talk about handling roommate crushes, straight crushes, gay crushes, and more.

00:27:39  |   Tue 29 Sep 2020
What made you gay?

What made you gay?

Ben and Charlie are joined by psychologist Dr. Jeff Case to debunk myths about the origin of same-sex orientation. They have a conversation about early sexual abuse, social conditioning, and other fa…

00:39:02  |   Tue 22 Sep 2020
Should I go on a mission?

Should I go on a mission?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Sarah Langford to talk about deciding whether or not to serve a Church mission, and how being LGBTQ+ affected that decision.

00:45:52  |   Tue 15 Sep 2020
What should I do if think a family member is gay?

What should I do if think a family member is gay?

Charlie's sister Anne Bird Rodman joins us for a conversation about what Anne did when she first suspected Charlie was gay. We talk about vulnerability and have a discussion on how to create a more s…

00:34:48  |   Tue 08 Sep 2020
Should I go to BYU?

Should I go to BYU?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Michael Griffin, an openly gay BYU professor, to talk about their experiences at Brigham Young University. We talk dating culture, honor code, and past and present envir…

00:40:38  |   Tue 01 Sep 2020
How can I be an ally from the closet?

How can I be an ally from the closet?

Collette Dalton, therapist and gay Latter-day Saint, joins us as we brainstorm ways to support the LGBTQ+ community even if you still don't feel comfortable being out publicly.

00:22:24  |   Wed 26 Aug 2020
How do I navigate the Family Proclamation?

How do I navigate the Family Proclamation?

Charlie and Ben are joined by John Gustav-Wrathall, who describes himself as "the most active non-member in the Church." They have a conversation about The Family: A Proclamation to the World that ev…

00:36:17  |   Tue 18 Aug 2020
What is opposite-sex dating like?

What is opposite-sex dating like?

Ben and Charlie are joined by their friend Deb Hutchins to talk about stories from dating the opposite sex and why they each decided to stop. 

00:30:06  |   Tue 11 Aug 2020
How should I come out to my family?

How should I come out to my family?

Ben and Charlie are joined by Twitter legend Eli McCann to discuss how they came out to their loved ones.

00:36:39  |   Tue 04 Aug 2020
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