you single?
A No-BS Podcast About the Single Life After 30
Welcome to You Single?—the podcast for those of us navigating singlehood in our 30s, 40s, and beyond. Hosted by your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel Poppert, and the fiery and fabulous Emanuela Messineo (aka “E”), this show is for anyone who’s ever swiped left, been ghosted (or done the ghosting), and questioned whether dating apps are completely broken.
We’re here to talk about the reality of single life as grown-ass adults. Dating? Sure. But also, the joys (and occasional disasters) of being unattached. From cringey first dates to the freedom of doing whatever the hell you want, we cover it all—unfiltered, unscripted, and fully embracing our middle-aged dorkiness.
Expect hilarious rants, real talk, and the occasional deep dive into why the fuck it’s so hard to meet people these days. Whether you’re actively dating, happily single, or just vibing in between, You Single? is your place to laugh, commiserate, and own this chapter of your life.
💥 Bonus Content: Midlife Uncensored 💥
For when we’re not talking about dating, we bring you Midlife Uncensored—a no-holds-barred sub-series where we rip the band-aid off midlife. From career shifts and parenting chaos to reinventing ourselves (or just trying to survive the day), this is where we get real about the highs, lows, and WTF moments of getting older. No filters, no sugarcoating—just raw, relatable stories and plenty of humor.
So, are you single? Let’s mingle. And if you’re just here to laugh at the absurdity of midlife—well, we’ve got that covered too.
- Update frequency
- every 8 days
- Average duration
- 56 minutes
- Episodes
- 59
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
Conditioning Yourself to Identify and Process Emotions in Real-time
In our 19th episode, we not only share a laugh about confusing Memorial Day with Veterans Day, but also take a moment to honor the profound significance of these dates. Huddled within t…
Swapping the White Picket Fence for Personal Freedom
Ever find yourself chuckling at the thought of life's expected milestones, like having kids or finding that 'perfect' partner, only to think, "Nope, not for me"? Well, you're in good co…
First Date Planning, Dos and Don'ts and Jitter-Tits!
Ever wondered if your pre-date social media sleuthing borders on FBI-level intrusion, or if outfit repetition is a dating faux pas? Grab a seat in our digital den at Sasquatch Studios, …
A Discussion about the Noise in our Lives and How to Manage It
In this episode, Emanuela and Joel peel back the layers of everyday existence to examine the intricate dance of personal growth, relationships and the "noise" that ensues. We swap tales…
From Overseas to American Online Dating: Relationship Coach Justine Baruch tells all in the Love Laugh Lounge
Ever had a laugh-out-loud moment while navigating the maze of modern dating? Justine Baruch, fresh from a twenty-year stint overseas, joins me to share just that—and so much more—in a h…
A Discussion about Self-Confidence, Dating Yourself and Taylor Swift
Ever found yourself chuckling at the absurdity of grilling in a blizzard or dancing unabashedly to Taylor Swift regardless of your age? Well, my fellow goofballs, you're in for a treat.…
A Random Series of Wine Fueled Late-Night Reflections ft. Emanuela Messineo
Settle into your favorite nook with a glass of wine and join me, Poppy, along with my Owning Alone's favorite regular, Emanuela Messineo, for an intimate late-night conversation that da…
Raves, Rejection and Body Positivity ft. Allie McFarland
Ever reminisce about the sweet, innocent days of teen romance and wonder where that simplicity went in the adult dating scene? Allie McFarland joins me in the Love Laugh Lounge to indul…
Adversity to Empowerment: Navigating Dyslexia, Narcissistic Abuse, and Personal Growth ft. Ellen Busch
I once believed that certain academic challenges were insurmountable, but Ellen Busch's story, shared in her memoir "Disempowered: How I Turned an Academic Death Sentence into My Life's…
Situationships, Drunk Dates and Unsolicited Pics ft. Kayla King in the Lounge
Ever stumbled upon a date that left you questioning the very fabric of reality? Kayla King joins us at the Love Laugh Lounge to swap such tales, leaving no stone unturned as we navigate…
A Candid Chat about the Evolving Journey of Successful Woman ft. Alyssa Samuel
Embark on an enlightening journey with Alyssa Samuel, a seasoned corporate M&A attorney and all around boss of a woman! In our latest episode, Alyssa opens up about the triumphs and tri…
What It Means to Embrace Solitude, ft. Blake Roberts, LPC, MA
In this episode, I am joined by Blake Roberts, LPC, MA, a practicing psychotherapist of nearly 30 years, where we dive deep into the topic of solitude. We get into topics such the relat…
Just Two Middle Aged Male Unicorns Discussing Modern Dating
In this episode, Dallas’s very own Scott Fischer, host of The Single Dads Podcast joins me in the Lounge to share in Dating Festivus, airing of our dating grievances for the world to en…
Overcoming Adversity and Living a Meaningful Life ft. Scott Fischer
In this episode, I am joined by the Co-Host of The Single Dads Podcast, Scott Fischer, where he opens up about his journey as a man and single father after losing both his mother at an …
Myself, My Journey and Why The Owning Alone Podcast
In this solo recording, I humbly lay myself out there, and open up about why I have started The Owning Alone Podcast and help provide a bit of my background on myself and how I came to …
Zillennial vs Xennial Dating and D1 Babies
On this Valentine’s special of The Love Laugh Lounge I am joined by 28 y/o, Miranda Hickman, a Zillennial and fellow cusper. You won’t stop laughing as we compare and contrast dating ex…
Mr: Hemp: Interview with a Modern Renaissance Man
Description: Recorded live from Pasadena, CA, I was given the distinct pleasure to interview my good friend and mentor, Michael Bowman. Born and raised in rural eastern Colorado, Mike i…
My Ex-Wife Dares to Join the Lounge
In this premiere of The Love Laugh Lounge, the comedic sub-series of the Owning Alone Podcast, I am joined by lovely ex-wife, Lauren Palumbo, where share war-stories of our online datin…
Journey of a Recovering People Pleaser
With this series premiere, I am joined by my good friend Emanuela Messineo, a Denver based personal coach, and woman in her early 40’s who opens up about her earlier struggles with bei…