you single?
A No-BS Podcast About the Single Life After 30
Welcome to You Single?—the podcast for those of us navigating singlehood in our 30s, 40s, and beyond. Hosted by your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel Poppert, and the fiery and fabulous Emanuela Messineo (aka “E”), this show is for anyone who’s ever swiped left, been ghosted (or done the ghosting), and questioned whether dating apps are completely broken.
We’re here to talk about the reality of single life as grown-ass adults. Dating? Sure. But also, the joys (and occasional disasters) of being unattached. From cringey first dates to the freedom of doing whatever the hell you want, we cover it all—unfiltered, unscripted, and fully embracing our middle-aged dorkiness.
Expect hilarious rants, real talk, and the occasional deep dive into why the fuck it’s so hard to meet people these days. Whether you’re actively dating, happily single, or just vibing in between, You Single? is your place to laugh, commiserate, and own this chapter of your life.
💥 Bonus Content: Midlife Uncensored 💥
For when we’re not talking about dating, we bring you Midlife Uncensored—a no-holds-barred sub-series where we rip the band-aid off midlife. From career shifts and parenting chaos to reinventing ourselves (or just trying to survive the day), this is where we get real about the highs, lows, and WTF moments of getting older. No filters, no sugarcoating—just raw, relatable stories and plenty of humor.
So, are you single? Let’s mingle. And if you’re just here to laugh at the absurdity of midlife—well, we’ve got that covered too.
- Update frequency
- every 8 days
- Average duration
- 56 minutes
- Episodes
- 59
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
What is Midlife and Why so Many People Avoid the Topic all Together
Ever wondered what truly defines being "over the hill"? Is it just another number or something more profound? In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Joel Poppert and Emanuela Messineo, …
From Cuffing Season Kick-off to Surviving Family Politics during the Holidays
In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E are back with a lively chat about everything fall— from cuffing season dates and Halloween parties to the ever-dreaded family holiday …
Midlife Gripes: Road Rage, Gluten, and Waxing Woes
In this laugh-out-loud episode of Midlife Uncensored, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel (aka Poppy), and the unapologetically funny Emanuela (aka E, the self-proclaimed Sausage Que…
Rethinking Love: One Size Never Fit All
In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E (aka "the Sausage Queen) dive headfirst into the evolving world of relationships and challenge the idea that love has to follow a pred…
Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends?
In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Joel "Poppy" Poppert and his co-host, Emanuela "E" Messineo, dive headfirst into the age-old debate: Can men and women really just be friends? Sha…
Bermuda Blessings, Wisconsin Weddings, and More Dating Discussions
In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E face the classic "Can you hear me now?" tech struggle while recording remotely. They dive into recent travels, from Bermuda work trip…
Welcome to Midlife Uncensored: Real Life Discussions from Over the Hill
Ever wondered what it feels like to navigate midlife with fewer inhibitions? We’re kicking off the newly rebranded "Midlife Uncensored" with a fresh approach to real-life discussions th…
Insecurities Part III: Moving Forward by Living with our Insecurities or Overcoming Them
In this episode of The Owning Alone Podcast, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel, and co-host Emanuela dive into a pivotal shift as they announce a rebrand of the podcast. After some…
Insecurities Part II: Facing Insecurities through Awareness and Emotional EQ
In this engaging episode of The Owning Alone Podcast, your favorite Denver Sasquatch, Poppy, and co-host Emanuela Messineo, E, dive into part two of their Insecurities Trio. Picking up …
Sharts, Sass, and Single Dads: Tales from Love Laugh Lounge
Join your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel, and his lively co-host Emanuela in this hilarious and unfiltered episode of the "Love Laugh Lounge." In true Festivus fashion, they dive hea…
Insecurities Part I: How They Impact and Play a Role in our Lives and Relationships
Can insecurities really shape our lives to the extent that they determine our mental health, relationships, and even career paths? Join us as we confront this provocative question head-…
Keeping Friendships Alive Across the Miles, Plus Buttless Chaps and Slinging Hot Dogs
Brace yourself for laughs and unexpected twists in episode 28 of The Owing Alone Podcast! We kick things off with Emanuela, or E, who regales us with her latest escapades and a hilariou…
The Dating Game, Appropriate First Date Conversations and Silly Saturday Shenanigans
Ever wondered if playing hard to get really works in the dating world? Join us on this lighthearted "Silly Saturday" episode as Poppy and E, share their latest escapades—from Game of Th…
The Art of Owning Alone: From Mid-Life Crisis to Self Awareness and Discovery
Life’s challenges often lead us to profound self-awareness and growth. In this episode, Joel and Emanuela check back in on the history "owning alone," and what it truly means. We open u…
The Art of Lettings Things Go, Letting Be and Living Free!
Do you find it challenging to "let go" and allow things to unfold naturally without trying to control every situation? Join us for this post-4th of July episode, where Joel and Emanuela…
Love or Loneliness: Navigating the Pressure to Partner Up
How do you navigate the complex landscape of love and loneliness in a world full of societal pressures? In this heartfelt episode of Owning Alone, we ask ourselves, why is it so challen…
Candid Discussions about Denver's Mile-High Dating Situation ft. Hana Brownsell
Is Denver's dating scene really as wild as it seems? In today’s episode, we sit down with Hana Brownsell, a vibrant and accomplished real estate agent who has been navigating the Denver…
Beyond Dads: Honoring Mentors and the Child-Free Path on Father’s Day
Join us for a deeply moving and insightful episode recorded live from Denver, CO, where we broaden the traditional Father’s Day celebration to honor not just dads, but all father figure…
Unlocking Personal Freedom through Authenticity and Self-Awareness
Ever wondered how being true to yourself can transform your life? Discover the powerful connection between authenticity and self-awareness as Emanuela and Joel engage in an enlightening…
Is Single and Dating Really that Much Fun? And Suggestions for Solo Summer Activities!
Are you ready to reclaim your personal freedom this summer? Join us on Owning Alone as we explore the joys and challenges of single life and dating. Emanuela kicks things off by sharing…