Unbridled Living

In this episode, I’ll help you think differently about hard work.  I’ll tell you about how you can succeed without hard work.  

In the western way of life, many of us have been conditioned and train…

In this episode, I’ll be addressing a listener’s question.  Question:   I typically seek advice from people I trust and respect, but what happens when their advice doesn’t sit right with me?   For e…

Have you ever stopped and considered that maybe you were made for more?   I know you are. In this episode, I’ll tell you why.

If “playing small” has never been an issue for you, it might be difficult…

Everyone gets stuck but I’m not sure everyone stops to think about the cost of staying stuck.  If you stop to think about it, that cost might be an incentive to dig deep and get going again. In this …

Are you someone your horse wants to follow or does your horse consider you a liability?  In this episode, I’ll be sharing ideas about being a good leader for your horse.  

Horses are herd animals. Th…

We have a tendency to run from discomfort.   We don’t like feeling uncomfortable, so we move.    The trouble with that is growth can sometimes feel uncomfortable.  What if we are avoiding growth beca…

In my area, having a barrel racing coach isn’t very common.  In some western disciplines and in many English disciplines, having a coach is a given.  In some disciplines, it’s common for coaches to c…

Have you ever sat ready to compete and wondered, What is wrong with me?  Why am I so nervous?  I’m here to tell you that you’re not alone.  There’s nothing wrong with you. In this episode, I’ll share…

It’s a new year and it’s time to write goals and make plans for the year.  Instead of working towards those goals, I suggest you work on becoming the person who achieves the goals you want to achieve…

In this episode, I’ll be answering a question from a listener.   I’ll share some tips for connecting and bonding with your horse, even when you’re not riding. 

Question:  What are some things I can d…

Everyone carries a vibe.  What happens when we’re traveling to events and our vibe doesn’t jive with our traveling partner’s vibe?  Things can get tricky! In this episode, I’ll talk about your respon…

Whether you love the holiday season or you find it just a little too people-y, I’ve got some tips to help you with this season.  

Christmas and the holiday season that goes along with it can feel str…

We’ve all heard the expressions Good vibes only and Your vibe attracts your tribe or Raise your vibe.  But, what does it mean to raise your vibe?  In this episode, I’ll talk about raising your vibe a…

In this episode, I’ll be answering a question from a listener.  I’ll talk about how others’ opinions can impact us and how our own vulnerabilities affect our interpretations of others’ opinions.  The…

I have noticed that the more I judge myself and others, the more I worry about being judged.  As I work on letting go of judgment, I worry less about others’ judgments. It is natural and human to mak…

I’m sure you’ve heard someone say “you have to earn your keep”.  The idea that “you have to earn your keep” is actually a limiting belief. It implies that you’re not worthy.  It also implies that you…

In this episode, I’ll talk about having a kind voice in your head.  Many of us have a judgemental, critical, mean-spirited, unsupportive voice in our heads.  So, how can you change that voice?

Everyt…

Your inner feelings and beliefs affect your riding.   How you feel on the inside dictates your reality, even if you aren’t consciously aware of all of your beliefs, judgments, and feelings.  Your hea…

You are not perfect. I’m not perfect. Your horse is not perfect.  Yet, for some reason, many of us have expectations of perfection.   In this episode, I’ll explain how perfectionism can affect your r…

When I learned about limiting beliefs and how they were impacting my life, it was a game-changer for me.  Once I was able to step away from my limiting beliefs, I accomplished many new things. In thi…