The Narcissism Decoder

Improving Life & Relationships 
Today we explore just one way psychodynamic psychotherapy enhances quality of life and relationships.  I explore how the psychodynamic process helps individuals underst…

In this conversation, "I got scammed!" we explore the concept of grandiosity in narcissism.  I discuss how grandiosity manifests in narcissistic individuals and the overlooked aspect of intolerable s…

What is Depression? 
In this episode, we discuss the  role of aggression and  'bad introjects' in depression.  We  explore the origins of the critical and aggressive inner voice in depression, which o…

In this episode, I discuss a recent paper I presented on adolescent depression. I highlight the urgent need for understanding depression and effective treatment interventions for this growing mental …

Takeaways

·         Self-other differentiation is critical in understanding narcissistic relationships.

·         Narcissistic relationships thrive when narcissistic needs are met.

·         The prefere…

In this episode, we discuss how to relate to a narcissist in your life without sacrificing your own well-being.  We explore the dynamics of dealing with constant accusations, suspicion and invasive  …

This episode explores the links between anxiety and narcissism. It begins by discussing shame stress and the inner critical (angry) voice as significant causes of anxiety. The conversation then delve…

In this episode, we explore the connection between perfectionism and anxiety, highlighting how the inner critical voice fuels feelings of inadequacy and fear of judgment. I discuss the role of anger …

In this episode,  we explore the complex relationship between anxiety and shame stress. I highlight how shame stress often goes undetected and untreated in individuals dealing with narcissism. The ma…

In this episode, we tackle common parental challenges like tantrums, defiance, and risky behavior. Traditional solutions often fall short, but by understanding the underlying causes—the impact of aff…

In this episode I explore the concept of narcissistic deflation and its potential misdiagnosis as depression. I highlight the importance of detecting and properly treating narcissistic deflation, whi…

Exploring Techniques and Overcoming Overwhelming Busyness! 

In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explores techniques for overcoming  'all or nothing' thinking and behaviors. He addresses a listener's questio…

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella responds to listener questions, delving into topics such as coping with chaos in life and distinguishing between borderline and narcissistic traits. He explores …

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores why narcissists need to create chaos. He describes the manifestations of this behavior and delves into the psychological reasons behind it. Dr. Mazzella…

In this episode of the Narcissism Decoder, we explore the intricate world of narcissistic rage by addressing three pivotal questions surrounding healthy and unhealthy expressions of anger. Drawing in…

In this episode of the Narcissism Decoder podcast, the focus is on strategies to break the trauma bonding cycle. After highlighting the complexities of these relationships, I explore commonly suggest…

In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, we explore trauma bonding—a profound psychological pattern where individuals form intense attachments to manipulative and abusive relationships, despite rec…

In this episode, we explore the cyclical dynamics of a person grappling with self-hatred and projection. The individual exhibits a perpetual loop of feeling judged and persecuted. Drawing from psycho…

This episode of  Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics  delves deeper into the intricate dance of narcissistic dynamics, revealing a carefully crafted blueprint of elevation and devaluation with a hidde…

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores the concept of the omnipotent narcissistic object relationship and how it affects relationships. He provides examples of omnipotent narcissistic relatin…