The Family Captain
Lead your family with strength and love. Become the greatest man they've ever known. Have incredible sex with your wife.
- Update frequency
- every 6 days
- Average duration
- 52 minutes
- Episodes
- 77
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
How To Get Your Wife To Want You Again (The END of Pity Sex) | EP. 5
Don't feel too bad about hitting the play button on this episode, brother.
There are many, many thousands of men stuck in the same position you are.
You settle for infrequent pity sex, you feel bad …
How to Serve Your Family Without Getting Walked On | EP. 4
"Servant Leadership" is redundant. A leader IS a servant.
So, why are so many men obsessed with making sure everyone knows that they are specifically a SERVANT leadership?
Because we have collectivel…
Was Jesus Alpha or Beta? | EP. 3
Was Jesus alpha or beta when he was letting people spit in His face and punch Him?
Was He alpha or beta when He was rebuking the Pharisees?
Gentlemen...Jesus shows us so clearly that He was the right…
How To Lead Your Family As A Masculine Family Captain And Stop Being So Passive | EP. 2
This is Biblical Masculinity 101.
What is it?
What are the lies most men believe about masculinity?
What does it look like applied to married husbands?
How do you leave passivity behind and start …
Become The Greatest Man She's Ever Known | EP. 1
Welcome to The Family Captain Podcast...relaunched and revamped.
This podcast is designed to help Christian husbands grow in family leadership and sex in marriage.
Today's episode will frame what you…
The Three Dragons You Must Slay
There are three obvious enemies that keep men from leading in a way that causes families to thrive. In this episode JM reveals them and shows you how to beat each one.
Niceness is Ruining Your Marriage and Masculinity
“Nice” guys defer to others- not because of their deep love for others, but because of their fear of the displeasure of others. “Nice” guys have no standards. “Nice” guys submit to their wives and ma…
Rites of Passage (with guest - Brock Clark)
John Michael’s son Brock joined him for this episode where they talk about rites of passage and JM tells you how to create “catapult” moments to move your kids (and especially your sons) through mean…
Building a Family Culture
You owe your family a clear mission and vision. A leader must do the hard work of figuring out where they are, and where they want to go. And once you’ve got a clear purpose, you’ll have the fuel to …
Make Your Wife Feminine Again
Husbands should be masculine. Wives should be feminine. We can only control ourselves, but can we help our wife to embrace the gift of her God-given femininity? Absolutely. In this episode, JM tells …
Margin and Rhythms of Rest
We weren't meant to live at 100mph, but many of us act like there's nothing we can do to slow down. You and your family are supposed to have rhythms of rest - and room to breathe. Many of us make the…
The Dream You Stopped Dreaming
God’s vision and plan for you and your family is very good. You used to have high hopes and expectations for what was possible, and you need to revive that vision. In this episode we’ll fan the flame…
Help Your Wife Thrive
JM is joined by his thriving wife (the lovely Natalie Clark) and they talk about what you can do to lead your wife into the blessed life. They discuss provision, flirting, and more.
Be the Captain, Not a Cabin Boy
There’s a difference between a captain and a cabin boy. The captain won’t blame others, circumstances, their upbringing, or anything else. The cabin boy will find excuses and reasons for why he can’t…
Finally Enjoy Your Wife’s Sexual Best
If you’re frustrated by lack of frequency or freedom in your bedroom, if you’ve convinced yourself that your wife just “has a low drive,” and if you’ve “tried everything” to change the situation – wi…
The Biblical Alpha
“Alpha” is a flawed term, but we redeem it here and use it to help you see examples of strong masculinity in Scripture. We also talk about what’s better than being “Alpha” or “Beta” and how you can b…
Talent Beats Tactics
You might think you need better tactics. But you probably need to be a better man. In all honesty... you might need both.
BUT- most guys assume they're missing out on the tactic that's going to get…
Music, Movies, Nice Guys, and Feminists (with Natalie)
Natalie joins JM for this one as they laugh at the moronic messages in songs and movies that culture has given men and women over the years. It will help you to see what's always been in plain sight,…
Play Offense, Not Defense
When we stop captaining our ship, the ship begins drifting and it never drifts anywhere we want it to. In this episode we talk about how to stop living a reactive life, and how to become a deliberate…
Interview with a Real Family Captain
Kristian Kelly came into The Family Captain program hoping for some progress, but ended up being blown away at what God did. Listen to him explain how he has “complete satisfaction in all areas of li…