The Family Captain

You've heard us talk about family leadership, but I know some of you are wondering...

"What does his wife ACTUALLY think about all this?"

Well, why don't I let her answer that question herself?

My wife,…

How do you lead your wife when she doesn't even know how to follow or submit to your leadership?

First, hold up, gentlemen...

Everything starts with you and your self-leadership. So, don't think we're …

This episode is all about how a family leader should navigate in-law dynamics.

Whether you're being a nice guy and siding with your mom, or your wife is venting to her parents about things in your mar…

Most men are surviving — few are truly providing.

In this episode, we dig into what it means to be a real provider, why your family needs more than just a paycheck, and how stepping into this role bri…

Man, it can rile a guy up if he's a hard-working guy with an amazing work ethic to see his kids acting lazy.

"You don't get that from ME!"

But what's really going on here?

Is your kid lazy?

Or is there s…

It's hard to captain your ship when you're not training your boys to be captains themselves.

You can sort things out with your wife, but if your house is still run by disrespectful kids that you aren'…

Anger is one of the most common issues husbands and fathers face.

Some of it is justified and normal. Kids are chaotic and you can't fully control them, and sometimes our love for them even comes out …

It is one of the worst feelings in the world when it feels like your wife doesn't want you.

Especially when you've started doing some work, started growing, started leveling up...

And you still get not…

Brotherhood and strong male friendships are like jet fuel to a man's development in self leadership. Yet most guys don't have a solid group of men around them, often because they've never heard of th…

Men, your wife wants you to lead.

Are you willing to step up to the plate?

Or are you going to risk your entire marriage, as your passivity gets the best of you, and your wife starts making plans to le…

Passivity is one of the biggest killers of intimacy and leadership in marriage.

If you let life happen to you, or find yourself making excuses...

Chances are, you're going to benefit from listening to …

A "good" marriage is fine. But wouldn't you rather be ECSTATICALLY married?

Most "good" marriages are really just getting a C+.

In this episode, you'll learn the 5 keys required to level your marriag…

How much influence do you REALLY have at home?

And more importantly...do you know WHY you have that amount, and how to increase it?

Leadership capital, baby.

Being a great family leader means your fa…

Marriage counseling doesn't usually work...

But it's not for the reason you think.

Before you make your marriage even worse by going to a marriage counselor who isn't going to help you become the man…

Building masculine confidence is important to lead your family well.

BUT...there's a huge risk in putting your confidence in the wrong thing.

There's also a huge risk in destroying your kids' confide…

If your home is more like a war zone than a sanctuary, listen up.

In this episode, you'll learn how to become the type of husband who never gets drawn into fights, who brings peace, conviction, and l…

How do you create a family vision and leave a legacy...especially if you never had this passed down to you? That's what this episode aims to answer. It all starts with finding bedrock truth and bui…

What does letting your kids date have to do with your legacy?!

Pretty much everything.

OK maybe not EVERYTHING, but it sure is a microcosm of your values, and if you play this one issue out over the …

Going through something difficult? Here's how to lead through it.

We live in a fallen world, brothers.

Life gets hard. We go through seasons of suck...getting fired, challenges with the kids, health …

There are a TON of things that get in the way of you leading your family well.

One of the biggest threats is wasted time, especially in the culture of distraction we live in.

From scrolling to workin…