The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

For 90+ episodes, Roy’s been sharing wisdom and insight on how to attract healthy, sustainable, intimate relationships. He’s also spoken about the value of coaching: how it changed the trajectory of …

Ram Dass, a famous spiritual teacher once said, “If you think you’re enlightened, go spend two weeks with your family.” He’s being funny, but he’s got a point, doesn’t he?

With the holidays upon us…

Sometimes right-leaning Fox News and left-leaning CNN have guests on their networks to share an opposing point of view, and that’s admirable. They give those who disagree with them an opportunity to …

The new year is right around the corner and if you want a truly magnificent 2023, one where new and wonderful things come into your life, then you must create space for what wants to emerge.

For ex…

In previous episodes, Roy has shared a list of his favorite personal growth books (#30), his favorite personal growth questions (#’s 62-66), and his favorite personal growth quotes (#’s 77-82). But n…

Who are you more attracted to: a person who bitches, moans and complains about everything, or a person who is grateful, appreciative and thankful? The answer is obvious, wouldn’t you say? But who doe…

Have you heard the cliché, “what you see is what you get”? It points to the truth that our beliefs create our realities. In other words, if we see the world in a certain way—for example, if we believ…

Have you ever thought of being a coach? There are three reasons to consider it.

First, you get to make an impact in people’s lives. Second, you get to live a life of independence (you work when you…

In this Halloween edition of the podcast, Roy takes a playful but important look at how and why we wear relationship “masks” or “costumes”—and how this keeps us from experiencing healthy, authentic r…

There are “forks” in everyone’s relationship road, critical choice-points that often determine the direction of your love life.

Some are major and obvious—the decision to be exclusive or to be sexu…

Connecting with another human being in a healthy, sustainable way can seem really complicated—and that might be because us relationship experts make it seem that way—but what if it’s as simple as bei…

Some people love drama, but I’m guessing you’re not one of them, right? I bet you’re sick of it. Have you had it up to here with drama and all the shit that goes on in relationships?

Well, today’s …

Relationships are fraught with “fork-in-the-road” moments, crossroads when it seems you must figure something out or make a decision.

• “How do I figure out if there’s enough chemistry to continue s…

Do you have trouble letting go of the past and all of its pain? Who among us doesn’t have some “baggage” and trust issues?

We all know we need to let go and live and relate with an open, available …

We all want to connect authentically but communicating in today’s complicated world is really tough. The online world is filled with liars, losers and lunatics, and let’s face it: people play games.

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We all face problems every day, right? Some are big, some are small, but we all face them. You could even say that life is basically a series of problems that we need to deal with.

The question is,…

Do you want to find your life partner? Stupid question, right? Of course you do. You’ve had enough disappointing, unhealthy, short-lived relationships and you want something healthy and lasting.

Th…

Do you want to be happy? Stupid question, right? All of us want to be happy, to live with a felt sense of well-being. And not just a moment of happiness here and there, but a consistent experience of…

It might be safe to say that expectations are the key (or the demise) of intimate relationships. If our relationship expectations are met, we’re happy. If they’re not, we’re unhappy. So, what we expe…

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know there’s a huge controversy raging these days concerning trans people, gender identity, personal pronouns, and the whole binary vs. non-binary discussi…